Family & Relationships - 21 November 2006

My husband has a terrible work schedule which I dissagree with on many levels. Good jobs are not terribly hard to come by where I live, and with our connections. When friends ask me, "Why would your husband work there, does he just really love that job?" I want to say, "I think he just doesn't realize his own worth enough to know how much a better job he could get." But would that statement show that I am unsupportive of my husband? If I couldn't say that, I would genuinely be at a loss for how to answer.

2006-11-21 01:28:51 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This is the second time this has happened to me. I've gotten into a relationship and then after a week or a month i tell the person i just cant go through with it. In the first case the guy hardly use to call me and i was always calling him. But apart from that fact i just stopped liking him. Now that its over he calls me like every week and says he cant understand why i broke up with him, and where did all the love for him go, and what he can do to get it back. The second guy we started out as friend and he kept on saying how he liked me more than just a friend, and i kept on telling him i rather be his friend, ontill 1 day i decided to give it a try. It felt weird bcuz i only wanted to be his friend. I broke it off in a week. Now he says he wants me back and he dosent understand why i just left him. He says he depressed cant eat cant sleep and now i feel guilty. I try to tell him how i feel about him and how i only want to be his friend but he just dosent get it.

2006-11-21 01:25:59 · 12 answers · asked by brambram87 3 in Singles & Dating

http://www.youtube.com/watch_fullscreen?video_id=uvaJHeTg4Lg&l=89&t=OEgsToPDskIWFbsoGYf-v5pZLj2rfZLJ&s=2A7C78E55CB44AFB

these are some of the responses i've been getting. None like this by guys the way.

2006-11-21 01:25:27 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my wife is upset because i did not consult her first. we have a very healthy bank account and can easily afford to help her 21 year old sister her first car. i say that i have a heart of gold and my wife says that i betrayed her by offering our hard earned money without asking her. please vote and decide. we have always helped her family in the past, but not this amount. let me know!

2006-11-21 01:24:19 · 26 answers · asked by _ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My x-bf and I broke up about a month ago and I kinda still havent gotten over him. We were together for 7 months and despite all that we've said and done to eachother it still doesnt' change my feelings about him. He was my first love and it's so hard to forget him. I want to get over him so I can stop hurting like this. Can anyone help me ?

2006-11-21 01:24:13 · 13 answers · asked by ~*Everybodys Fool*~ 1 in Singles & Dating

When life is hard, holidays seem to make it worse.

2006-11-21 01:23:53 · 13 answers · asked by In Honor of Moja 4 in Friends

On our 17th year anniversary (and My Birthday) he told me that he met her. He said he felt at peace with her. He said he was now in a relationship with her and i should respect that. I thought I could die! Our four children suffered terribly...they hurt for me..and had to overcome resentment and bitterness in their christian hearts.
After losing 52lbs and cleaning my home and my life..after beginning to move on he showed up after 4 months. It was 2am when he left work and came to see me. I was doing some girl maintanance (u know girls) cause i had a long day "meeting" with someone new the next day. He told me he sensed that if he did not come that night he would lose me forever. He said he loved me, and was tired of the fighting and wants to give 200% to our marriage...............what should i do?

2006-11-21 01:23:37 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year. I didnt meet his mother until i got pregnant (Im 7 months). I barely met one aunt of his 2 days ago (He only has 2 aunts). We had planned on going to thanksgiving at my parents house because it has been years since i have spent it with my family. We had asked his mom to join us so she wouldnt be alone she said yes. Her and the sister that i have barely met always are in some kind of argument. Where she tells my boyfriend dont talk to your aunt because of this or that. Today she just asked if it would be ok to bring along her sister. My boyfriend replied with a firm no. She didnt stop there she asked me. I said i would ask my mom. I then talked it over with my boyfriend and he said a definite no. My question is how do i say no to her? I dont want to be a push over where i say yes to everything she asks. How do i put my foot down in a nice way?

2006-11-21 01:22:47 · 7 answers · asked by Xenobia P 1 in Family

hello i love this girl btu due to a change in class, she has been very strange to me like not talking to me frequently and i have eventually lost my peace and i keep on worrying how my relationship with her will go. nevertheless i want peace and what are the things i can do to relax myself and bring peace to my disturbed mind?

2006-11-21 01:21:12 · 3 answers · asked by sathish g 1 in Singles & Dating

i need your advices and opinions please.

2006-11-21 01:21:03 · 8 answers · asked by question marc??? 1 in Singles & Dating

Do guys always get jealous when they find out a friend or theres slept with someone else instead of them first?

2006-11-21 01:19:10 · 4 answers · asked by fairy_freedom84 2 in Friends

red hair.

2006-11-21 01:18:37 · 20 answers · asked by jesse 2 in Singles & Dating

He thinks using a credit card is the answer for when we don't have the money to buy something. But I think that if we don't have the money then we shouldn't buy it. I think that credit cards should only be used for emergencies not for when you want to spend all your money and then use a credit card to buy something else.

2006-11-21 01:18:27 · 12 answers · asked by guardianangel 3 in Marriage & Divorce

How many of you hate living with inlaw and wants to get out of there......what are the kinda of problem you encounter....

2006-11-21 01:17:57 · 11 answers · asked by *Cutie* 4 in Marriage & Divorce

im in love with a pretty girl..but im not handsome...her ex bf is handsome than me...lol...should i stop loving her?

2006-11-21 01:17:27 · 14 answers · asked by kaos7613 1 in Singles & Dating

this guy i like keeps staring at me alot everyone in that class notices it even my friends who arnt even in his class notice it when we walk past him after he found out i like him he started doing all these nice things like open the door for me when he saw my hands were full, smile at me everytime he see me...do u think he likes me

2006-11-21 01:17:15 · 7 answers · asked by *Glitta n' Gloss* 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok, here is the question.. My husbands ex wife when she comes to our home to pick up the kids- always comes into my house , uses the bathroom and wanders around. I dont think she has any right whatsoever to be in my home!!!! She always seems to do this when my husband is at work.. There is alot of animosity right now because my husband and her are going through court proceedings because she has refused to pay child support for the last year.. So it is not a very friendly atomosphere... Am I wrong to think she should not be coming in my home? I dont say anything because of the kids, but I think something needs to be done and I dont see why she cant just drive a few blocks to the store to use a public bathroom!!! Am I just being Petty?

2006-11-21 01:16:41 · 20 answers · asked by luckygirl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

im in love with and. My sister and him work togetha. He said he loves me and he tells her all this stuff about how we'll be togetha at some point in time. Am i stupid if i wait. Or should i move on

2006-11-21 01:14:53 · 7 answers · asked by Mrs. Pryor 1 in Singles & Dating

I have 2 beautiful baby girls... one is 2 1/2 and one is 11 months. Lately it has really been getting to me to leave them at the babysitter's every morning. The little one obviously has no complaints but my 2 1/2 year old tells me she doesn't like Ashley's (the babysitter) and she wants me to stay home or that she wants to go see her Memo (grandma)... It freakin kills me and all I can do is just tell her I love her and I'll be back soon to get her. I have to work. We're barely getting by as it is--- but leaving her like that every morning really makes me wonder if it really is worth it to go to work. I would kill to be a stay at home mommy. What do I do?

2006-11-21 01:13:04 · 32 answers · asked by KC 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

just seeing if different days produce different types of policing???lol...;0)

2006-11-21 01:12:16 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well every day i sent my gf a text message with dif letter of alphabet using words starting with that days letter to tell her reasons why i loved her. Now have gone thru whole alphabet want to tell her i love her in every language of the world or at least those that can be texted and whose characters exist on my mobile/cell. So can you tell me how to say I LOVE YOU in as many DIFFERENT langauges as possible? thanks :)

2006-11-21 01:12:07 · 31 answers · asked by Mark L 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-21 01:11:43 · 19 answers · asked by Jizzle 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-21 01:11:08 · 13 answers · asked by mattsam 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been dating this guy casually, things were really going well untill he showed up to my house unanounced, and I had male friend over(nothing going on between us) since that incident my he has been acting very stange saying that i burst his bubbles, he is not calling as he used to and whenever we make plans to see eachj other he keep standing me up, he keep stelling me that he likes me a lot but he cant get over what i did . Is this relationship worth pursuing

2006-11-21 01:10:44 · 14 answers · asked by ??? 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok here's the deal. My sister is seeing a man and she invited him and his brother over for Thanksgiving dinner. My mom is having Thanksgiving at her house and she told my sister hey that's fine, invite them over. I have a really BIG sense of humor and was teasing my sister that I was gonna question the dude and ask him what his intentions are with my sister and when they going to get married. Next thing I know, my mom calls and told me I better not even think of doing something like that and then she started calling me lol "boy" and telling me I better behave my ***. Yeah my sister called my mom and told her and I got my *** ripped and I haven't even done anything! If you had a son, would you tell him the same thing? Do mothers and daughters really stick together like glue???

2006-11-21 01:09:41 · 10 answers · asked by Ron 1 in Family

2006-11-21 01:09:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-21 01:09:27 · 17 answers · asked by yjph 2 in Marriage & Divorce

how do you know a good friend

2006-11-21 01:08:30 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have decided to hand him a €20 note for a €8 bus ticket and say "Sorry I don't have anything smaller". What do i say if all he says is that's ok I have change? I'm back to square one right?

Help !!

Bear in mind I'm too shy to just ask him out, give him a christmas card (don't know his name anyway) or "slip" him my number.

2006-11-21 01:04:58 · 12 answers · asked by specs appeal 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-21 01:04:02 · 3 answers · asked by lauren_effxx 1 in Singles & Dating