im in love with a pretty girl..but im not handsome...her ex bf is handsome than me...lol...should i stop loving her?
2006-11-21 01:17:27 · 14 answers · asked by kaos7613 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should believe in what is good in yourself, what might find and enchant this woman. An intelligent woman might see past your apparent lack of physical charm, and see the good heart in you, the other worthy qualities of you.
If the girl doesn't see what is worth banking on, then look for another girl. There are many many pretty girls out there, not just ones who only look at the surface.
On the other hand, there are things you can do to enhance your own attractive outside, like get a good hair style, shave, wear fashionable clothing, improve your manners, your speech, get rich... Be on the way to getting rich, by succeeding in your courses, learning good work habits, learning how to invest your money wisely.
Are you really in love, or do you just think you desire her? Is it puppy love, or a love based on a sound and comprehensive knowledge of her? To put it simpler, is this just puppy love or really, how well do you know this woman?
2006-11-21 01:23:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because her ex bf is handsome doesn't mean that she only goes for handsome guys. I'm sure you're handsome in your own way and if this girl isn't shallow she'll like you for who you are, not what you look like.
I wish you the best of luck and tell her how you feel, don't let a good thing slip away. If it doesn't work out, at least you can say that you tried and can then move on!
2006-11-21 01:21:05 · answer #2 · answered by Minouners 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no 'coz if you really love her then, you should know that you should fight for her love so that she will love you and besides, there is no way that a person is going to look at the physical appearance of a person before saying he/she is in love with them.... a true handsomeness is inside you because even though you say your handsome for the other people and for yourself, of course, you can't be called as it if you don't have a feeling and if you don't have good wills for others before thinking about yourself... you just need to be confident that you can do it and tell her that you're in love with her...
GOOD LUCK TO BOTH OF YOU!!!
2006-11-21 01:25:12 · answer #3 · answered by cool_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you should never loose hope. Try to actually talk to this girl and remeber it doesnt matter whats on the outside, all it matters is wat is on the inside....your character and personlity..it doent matter if ur a hot shot or not! And if that girl doesnt like u just caz of how u look, dump her shes the loser! Good luck!!
xoxox Roxxy
2006-11-21 01:21:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks arent all that matters in a realationship if she cant except you for the way you look then she's not worht having! and dont worry bout her ex-bf and his handsomeness just worry bout yourself and remeber if she cant except you for who you are then loose her....
GOOD LUCK
2006-11-21 01:25:18 · answer #5 · answered by heatherstike2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't hate the playa, hate the game. Do what u do. Go with the flow. It sounds like u have a real confidence issue. See a psychiatrist.
2006-11-21 01:20:46 · answer #6 · answered by notyavgkat2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah. Pretty girls are trouble, Find yourself a nice decent looking girl with a great personalty and tell her how beautiful she is
2006-11-21 01:20:08 · answer #7 · answered by T B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep trying. Beauty lies in the brains, physical beauty is just skin deep. Try to be polite with her, but don't overact. All the best.
2006-11-21 01:21:46 · answer #8 · answered by taknev 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boy you can't stop loveing a girl because you think you aren't up to her standards boy you better get your confidence game up and tell her how you feel
2006-11-21 01:20:39 · answer #9 · answered by tyree_dickerson 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No - you can use the underdog appeal. It works more often than you think.
2006-11-21 01:20:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋