I have been dating this guy casually, things were really going well untill he showed up to my house unanounced, and I had male friend over(nothing going on between us) since that incident my he has been acting very stange saying that i burst his bubbles, he is not calling as he used to and whenever we make plans to see eachj other he keep standing me up, he keep stelling me that he likes me a lot but he cant get over what i did . Is this relationship worth pursuing
2006-11-21 01:10:44 · 14 answers · asked by ??? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This man is clearly up to no good, if he means you well he wolud have listen to what you had to say, and forgive and move on. Obviously the relationshhip meant more to you than it did to him
2006-11-21 02:57:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Casual relationships suck if they have been going on for more than 3 months. There is no foundation. Well when you pile a bunch of crap on it...there is nothing to hold it up. If he likes you enough he will listen. If he is mature, he will take into consideration the entire situation and make a decision. He may be using this to leave an open opportunity for him to date other people, too. Leaving it to look like your fault. Think about it. Only you know the answer. I also think it was rude that he just showed up.....did you offer him to just show up, anytime?
2006-11-21 09:16:57 · answer #2 · answered by Win 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there,
Its sad when someone mistakes u for something you havent done. It is not fair at all. At the same time, trust is the most important thing in a relationship. So why will u want to continue with a person who doesnt trust u? Do you think it will last even if you want to be with him? He's gonna suspect you even if a carpet guy is doing his work in your apartment!
Not worth it my friend. You're beautiful. Be with someone who appreciates you. And all relationships needs mutual work. I hope you will also learn to understand your partner as much as he does.
:)
Have fun! Happy Thanksgiving!
2006-11-21 09:16:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you told him the truth and he doesn't believe you then basically he's calling you a lier. No, I don't think it's worth pursuing. If he's this way now, it will only get worse as the relationship goes on.
2006-11-21 09:13:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like he's just holding this over your head to make you feel guilty. You know there was nothing going on and apparently, he does not trust you at all. I don't think he cares enough to stop torturing you with this, but he wants to keep stringing you along. Get rid of his him & his games
2006-11-21 09:14:41 · answer #5 · answered by Green Eyes 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well to be honest with you....put urself in his position...what if u went to his house unannounced and you saw a female there wouldnt u be hurt,upset,and betrayed....i think so ..bc thats female hormones right there..lol..and thats probably how he feels hurt ,betrayed,and upset...let him cool down a bit and then try talking to him ...and explaining what happened.and if u and this guy were up to something just leave him a lone
2006-11-21 09:15:18 · answer #6 · answered by Michelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you two were dating so casually then why are you so broken hearted? He seeems to be making a bigger deal out of nothing, I suggest moving on.
2006-11-21 09:14:29 · answer #7 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no if he is going to act like that when nothing was going on and he was your friend you dont need to perdue him at all plus he acts like he doesnt trust you at all and that is not good for a relationship
2006-11-21 09:14:21 · answer #8 · answered by yours truly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
truthfully i dont thinkit will...if he really cares about you then he would've understood for the begining...all you did was one little thing now he stands you up? you dont diserve that! he keeps telling himself he really likes you but clearly he's wasting your time. a real man would understand if he reallly cared
2006-11-21 09:20:06 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ Sexy J ♥ 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a waste of time. if he's messing you about now, what would he do later on the relationship. sounds very immature of him.
2006-11-21 09:13:27 · answer #10 · answered by mr_wobbly2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋