I have decided to hand him a €20 note for a €8 bus ticket and say "Sorry I don't have anything smaller". What do i say if all he says is that's ok I have change? I'm back to square one right?
Help !!
Bear in mind I'm too shy to just ask him out, give him a christmas card (don't know his name anyway) or "slip" him my number.
2006-11-21 01:04:58 · 12 answers · asked by specs appeal 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
check out the post from yesterday if you don't get it !!
2006-11-21 01:10:03 · update #1
Please bear in mind that if I give him my number and he does nothing I still have to see him the following week !
2006-11-21 01:15:49 · update #2
Please bear in mind that if I give him my number and he does nothing I still have to see him the following week !
2006-11-21 01:15:55 · update #3
I know that you're shy.. But sometimes you just have to gather all your courage together and approach him. No tricks. Clear your mind, Introduce yourself and try to get to know him better. You'll be shy, but after 20 sec , you'll feel more comfortable. Next time you talk with him you'll still be a little shy but not as much as before. Later you'll feel perfect when talking with him. Fears don't excist , you create them yourself.
advise: don't try to fall in love with looks, looks are temperary, we all end up gray and ugly. True love last forever.
I wish you the best however you do it.
2006-11-21 03:25:02 · answer #1 · answered by vertigo4487 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just read your last post too.
Ok, firstly I don't think you can judge anything on whether he gives you change. He might just be nice to people in general.
I would suggest you do a little flirting with him every time you see him and make some conversation. He will be driving a bus so I doubt you will get to have a full on conversation in one go so spread a conversatio over a few meetings. Say some interesting or funny things to make you stick in his mind.
Then when you feel you have made an impression slip him your number with a little note to say you think he is rather gorgeous and you would like to get to know him better over a drink. This then means he can make the decision about calling you and you can relax. Keep the note simple so if he doesn't call you won't feel embarrassed.
Remember if he doesn't call there could be many reasons behind it. He could have a wife or girlfriend, be gay, feel he is too old for you or not want a relationship. Don't be embarrassed if he doesn't call. It is alwaysflattering to know someone likes you and as long as you don't go over the top in the note you have done nothing silly. Take it on the chin, hold your head up high and get on with life.
If he calls then have a wicked time, relax and be yourself.
Check he doesn't wear a wedding ring first!
Good luck!
2006-11-21 01:55:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you've got to do something otherwise you'll go mad!!! I think you should give him a Christmas card. This option is probably the best as it's a sign you like him, but not an out and out lay your cards on the table 'come-on'!! And it's not something that will get his wife/girlfriend after you if he's got one! I expect some of the old ladies give him a card!! Just make sure you get him a cute enough one to get his attention! Good luck! You never know, if you get it together, you may get free public transport in future!!!
2006-11-21 01:10:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
So you're going to give him money?
Sorry I missed the post yesterday but I'm not sure how giving him a bunch of cash will help you hook up with him.
Why don't you say something like 'Do you want to pick me up again after work'? That's the sort of thing that guys get to hear once in a lifetime, you'd sure give him a thrill.
2006-11-21 01:07:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
get a book you don't need (economics or something) and leave it on the bus near his cab. when you go back again ask him have you seen a book. when he says i'll keep me eyes peeled, give him your mobile number so he can let you know if he finds it. as a huge favour for finding it or if not offer to take him out for a drink.
2006-11-21 01:17:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
er i dont get how giving him a 20 note is gonna help your situation. lots of people dont have the correct change. how does that make you stand out from the rest.
why not give him a christmas card and put your number inside it.
you only live once.......
and it seems like you are driving yourself mad over this.....
good luck
2006-11-21 02:48:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah just give him a xmas card with your name and mobile number in it,simple yo don't have to say anything and he won't open it until he's on his own,then he can text you if he's interested.
2006-11-21 01:13:51 · answer #7 · answered by MANC & PROUD 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hmmm........... hardly a chat up line is it. Be worse still for you if he says I dont have any change - get off the bus !!!!! I'd think of something else xxxx
2006-11-21 01:07:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
ask him if you bought some mistletoe on the bus this xmas would he give u a kiss?
cheeky and cute at the same time ;oP
xXx
2006-11-21 01:37:47 · answer #9 · answered by Fader's Girl 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why what else would he say! yeah dont worry about it!? dont think so hun
what happened to that posting yesterday anyway?
2006-11-21 01:07:21 · answer #10 · answered by princesssp8 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋