I want to know more about how to keep myself before marrying
2006-11-21 01:49:58 · 25 answers · asked by Parry P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That is really nice i most say am happy for you.OK frist u have to make up ur mind to do it which i think u already have ,say no if you are offered ,don't listen to what people say coz they will try to make u feel less of a woman, they are just jealous they wished they were in your shoes and last try not find self in places or situations that u would be can be tempted and finally i think u should not talk about it with people they don't have to know if u have had sex or not.Good luck
2006-11-21 01:58:38 · answer #1 · answered by shiva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this is a good one for you cuase god said so and the reason behind no sex intil marriage is if both of you are virgins and you have sex when your married you should be blessed also your relationship will last cause you know how everybody says clingy virgin cause you was her or his first well just think about that and also you are married to a guy that was a virgin and you were to and you both lose it to each other both of you clingy do you think you will break up your marriage. chances of that is very slim don't you think. hope this helps
2006-11-21 09:53:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep yourself? Well, if you have done this already then why not continue? If not, just think of all the things you will regret if you don't. STD, boyfriend leaving you after he is done with you, AIDS, pregnancy, should I go on? Wish all girls on this yahoo answers were like you.
2006-11-21 09:53:23 · answer #3 · answered by Pinolera 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first before you do anything you would have to find out everything about that person and see if he is truly thier for you and not their for that reason, make him wait for like a long time and see if he will stay with you for you and not that if he does then he is the one all i can say to you hun is good luck on keepin it
2006-11-21 09:55:23 · answer #4 · answered by tamarae18 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm 25, and i feel the same way as you. while some people think i'm silly, often, many respect my will power. it takes a strong person to do what you're doing. many people will ask you if it's a religious issue. if it is, then tell them, and if it's not, tell them why you want to wait. nothing to be ashamed of.
good luck
2006-11-21 09:59:32 · answer #5 · answered by cutegirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
By standing on your word, focusing on your career, finding out who you are, never settling for less, and knowing that you're raising a standard for young people who need to practice abstinence.
2006-11-21 09:54:54 · answer #6 · answered by pradavee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i am almost 18 and i am at ur point. for me, they say i am evil. i feel like if u have morals and certain levels of how far u should go with a male, u will be okay. and pray that God will strengthen because u now feel weak..
2006-11-21 09:52:51 · answer #7 · answered by NikoleUniQue 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, if you've made it 18 years, you should be very proud of yourself. It is rare indeed. Be strong. Remember, it is your body. You choose. I know this may sound cliche, but if a guy really loves you, HE WILL WAIT!!!!!
2006-11-21 09:55:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No magic, just willpower and not doing something you are not ready for or prepared to do. Forget peer pressure, be strong in who you are and life will be just fine.
2006-11-21 09:52:26 · answer #9 · answered by artisticallyderanged 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Parry! Don't get upset! You don't have to care what others talkin about! Just stay cool and do whatever your heart wishes to do!
2006-11-21 10:06:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋