Ok..so, I was recently in touch with my ex from 13 years ago...he was my first love, and while I've had relationships since him, he has always been in the back of my mind, I've thought about him even while in other relationships. I don't know, I've never loved anyone like I did him. So, anyway we got in touch with eachother and went out to dinner a couple of times and just talked, it was great bc we are adults and in different places now, we never spoke about "us", but we did have sex once and now I haven't heard from him. Our last conversation I told him I had no expectations from him and he said he really needs friends in his life (so why no call?) things with him are good and that he still has a lot of "issues", who doesn't? Its been killing me because I lied, I did have expectations of him, I thought this could be some sort of new beginning..I'm so upset with myself bc I am stronger than that, the advice I give friends in sit like this, I can't even follow. Do I call him?
2006-11-21 00:42:38 · 7 answers · asked by kit 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why not? Call him and ask him why he hasn't contacted you if you are still interested in him. If he is interested in you maybe he doesn't know how to tell you or he may be afraid things won't be as they use to be in the past. I have a girlfriend who I would love to see again. A long time ago we loved each other so much and she was so special to me. Situations out of our control broke us up and we both wept because we couldn't be together. I would give anything to see her again. However, I have no idea where she may be. But if I met her again I would not hesitate to tell her I still love her. If things worked out then...great. If we had sex and she didn't call me after that then I would call her and ask her why. After all I deserve an explanation. So do you.
2006-11-21 00:52:25 · answer #1 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a tough one... Yes call him.. Even if it's just Hi, how are you, etc and hanging up. There are a number of reasons why he's not calling, one could be that he's hurting on the inside, guilty you could say. Or he may have feelings for you again and doesn't know how to show them in an appropriate manner. That's my opinion, hope it helps.
2006-11-21 00:54:44 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, you're probably ex's for reason. When was the last time you called? Did you leave a message for him to call you? If you have, and left a message, then wait. if he wants to talk, he'll call. if hea doesn't call, I would say call ONE more time (maybe to wish a happy thanksgiving) and if he still doesn't call, then you should get the clue.
2006-11-21 00:51:27 · answer #3 · answered by Mister 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats tough.. I think you should call..
Imagine how u'd feel if u dont call? U'l regret it for the next 13years!! Good Luck Babe!!
Hope only the best works out 4u!
x
2006-11-21 00:47:42 · answer #4 · answered by Ms innocent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya.. pls call him. you need to know the real score between the two of you.
2006-11-21 00:48:11 · answer #5 · answered by labs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya call cues you will get an answer even it hurt you
2006-11-21 00:45:57 · answer #6 · answered by lover boy 2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh please no don't call pls .if he does fine and if he does not forget about it.
2006-11-21 00:50:56 · answer #7 · answered by shiva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋