Please be honest.
2006-11-21 16:22:49 · 23 answers · asked by puglover 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It shouldn't matter what a person looks like. It should matter how they act. If you refuse to date someone based on appearance you may never get to know that person...not dating someone because they are fat is just another form of bigotry...they should not be judged based on their weight. So my answer is yes I would if they were beautiful on the inside I wouldn't care what they looked like.
To some who answered in the negative...not all overweight people are lazy, dirty, or unhealthy. Diabetes does not come from being over weight...it is usually a genetic thing. My father was never more than 240 lbs and has diabetes...my best friend is obese and doesn't have it. Further more some people who are obsese may have a medical condition which causes them to either gain weight or hinders their ability to lose weight.
I agree with some who answered this question honestly saying that maybe their lifestyles would not mesh, but just because someone is overweight doesn't mean they don't enjoy eating right and excercising.
You should always get to know someone and their habits before making a snap judgement based on their weight you might miss out on the love of a lifetime making choices based on weight.
2006-11-21 16:35:04 · answer #1 · answered by ginwill1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-22 11:19:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course i will...in my opinion physical appearance should not be a basis for not dating a person because that is a sign of discrimination..fat people have the right to experience love and care...coz they are also human beings and they've got same feelings as other people found in this world..the only difference is their size..and sometimes outside appearance is deceiving so what matters is the personality of a person..these people also deserves to be treated equally and properly..
2006-11-22 00:40:54 · answer #3 · answered by joleena 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I have several times. My husband is a really big man. I am 5'2, 120 lbs. He is 6'2, 385 lbs. It is not the size of the person, it is the size of their heart. I grew up in a family of big people and I think they are all beautiful. I always tend to think a "larger" person is more attractive than someone who is very thin or even maybe average.
2006-11-22 00:28:10 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why not? He might have other good qualities you like.
Suppose the guy you dated and married was well proportional and he becomes fat after marriage. What are you going to do?
Would you divorce him or encourage him to reduce his body by exercises and food control?If you love the guy you will encourage to reduce.
You may date and if you love him , encourage him to loose weight.
2006-11-22 00:40:32 · answer #5 · answered by amua p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Being obese (I see no reason to use the word fat) reduces your life expectancy and your ability to re-produce. I have children and would like more. I also want a husband who will live healthy and be there when we're old rather than dying of a heart attack. My sister was losing weight (has always been overweight) and then she met her husband who is 350 lbs and she then got lazy to where she would not eat properly/cook properly nor would she exercise because since he was overweight why couldn't she be? Well there's a lot of reasons she now has diabetes and has been trying to have a baby for 4 years now with no luck.
2006-11-22 00:28:22 · answer #6 · answered by momofthreemiracles 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
If you really liked a person yes you would. Looks are not everything it's whats on the inside and the personality that counts the most.
2006-11-22 00:26:24 · answer #7 · answered by *be_23* 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Of course I would if I was attracted to them. I'm not so shallow that it's their appearance that attracts me.I appreciate an intelligent, caring, funny and ambitious person. I am married and he's not a little man. 5'10" and 220 lbs. And he wasn't much smaller when I meant him.
2006-11-22 00:30:36 · answer #8 · answered by Just Me 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes and I have. I don't care about such things. We married and were together 7 years and I'm not heavy. Splitting up had nothing to do with his weight either. Some guys are cute and cuddly looking.
2006-11-22 00:26:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends on what you mean by fat. If you mean they don't in anyway take care of their self then I don't think so. I am not exactly thin but I take care of myself I would have to say yes because I have and I would if I wasn't engaged
2006-11-22 00:26:43 · answer #10 · answered by SunShineBabe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋