Family & Relationships - 21 November 2006

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2006-11-21 17:10:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my bf's cousin is staying at his house for thxgiving.i can tell there really close but she is really starting to annoy me, when ever she sees me she says somthing to my bf in italian and he just messes up her hair.and tell her it rude to do that.instead of calling me my name she calls me person or that girl.it really pisses me off.ileft his house just to get away from her. and i cant not be there for thxgiving because he asked me to help him out cuz its the first time hes had to have his family at his house.
what should i do ???

2006-11-21 17:09:55 · 11 answers · asked by me 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok all you love experts. I have a question for you. What would you do if you were majorly attracted to someone, but not physically. Could you marry them, even though you find them unattractive?

2006-11-21 17:09:44 · 13 answers · asked by redroses4abluelady 1 in Singles & Dating

I went out with this guy to a concert. I am a coworker of his, and now I am trying to figure out if it was a date or not. I paid for my own ticket, but he picked me up, and offered to buy me drinks. He waited outside and watched for me to get into the house. We haven't let anyone at work know that we went out together so we haven't gotten to talk much about it at the risk of letting the cat out of the bag. He said recently that someone asked him if he had had a "hot date" and that was why he was so tired the next morning... I cannot figure out if he really likes me or if he is simply getting to know me better.. If it was just friendly then why hasnt he let onto anyone else at work that we hung out??

2006-11-21 17:09:37 · 3 answers · asked by Melissa P 1 in Singles & Dating

Also, how do I keep from getting answers from up tight girls who think I'm serious?

2006-11-21 17:09:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

At school there is this girl. she is my rival. I hate her alot. my mum and her mum are pretty good friends so her mum told my mum to do a favour. to babysit her daughter(who is my rival!!!!!) and she is coming to my house for as long as her mum finishes work. my mum agreed and I was like, nooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo... fxcking hell, why?? why?? why me!!!!!!!!?????????????!!!!!!! This is my worst nightmare!!!!!! She doesn't like me at all. and I don't because she once excluded me that made me angry, ditched me when I was her friend a long time ago, been really aggressive and spread bad rumours about me. she is such a *****. My mum says to be friends with her and talk to her, and i was like, what the hell?? mum???!!! I am always really friendly to guests who come at my house but why will I be to her???!!!! She is my worst enemy. If I don't co-operate with her and ignore her, my family is going to think I am rude, selfish, not responsible to my actions. HELP ME! what can I do???!!!!

2006-11-21 17:09:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ive been seeing this girl for a month now. she says she doesnt want a relationship ,but im the only guy she goes out wth or talks to. she doesnt want me to kiss her or hold her,but asks me to buy her things and take her out every weekend. i like her a lot but im worried this isnt going where i want it too. she asked me to thanksgiving dinner to meet her parents. what should i think is she taking it really really slow or useing me ?

2006-11-21 17:08:48 · 9 answers · asked by eddie w 1 in Singles & Dating

so i met my boyfriend a few months ago and there was instant chemistry, we just cliqued from the start and we started dating and everyting was fine.

but then later, he started getting distant, he got in trouble alot and he wouldnt tell me what he did or what was wrong or anything, so finally i confronted him about it and he admitted that he was doing drugs, which is what i was afraid of cuz i didnt know if i could handle that, and he said he was scared to tell me cuz he thought i'd judge him. and he's kind of an ex-christian, like grew up with it but let it go....slowly....and i really hate that people think christians are these judgmental hypocrites...when not every christian is like that. and i dont like ones that are....and so i told him that i would never judge him for anything cuz i love him so much and nothing can change that. but do u think that im just being blinded by my love for him and making excuses or do u think i made the right decision in just being there for him?

2006-11-21 17:08:28 · 8 answers · asked by foreveryoung 2 in Singles & Dating

i want to know ways to let my women learn to give more love in exiting new ways

2006-11-21 17:07:00 · 7 answers · asked by MMaaNN 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my b/f's turning 19 and i don't know what to give him...we've been 2gether for almost 2yrs and our anniversary is coming up ..wat should i give him for that?? so i need to different presents ideas
thanx =)

2006-11-21 17:06:58 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm sitting here picking my nose and wondering who else is picking their nose. Please tell me or I will never get to sleep tonight.

2006-11-21 17:04:33 · 7 answers · asked by Melissa P 1 in Singles & Dating

my boy friend(ast) dosn't except any advice and he dosn't talk about any thing in world except the cat, he think that he can have a child have cat have human like some of the illustrated fotos, i love my boy friend very much and i can't fix his mind, he was so cute until he met this cat, so he was straight and never thought about any man, all he did that he was looking to some beutiful girls and kiss them, in the street.
the cat is so ugly and has a very long knose, so he adupted him from the street, and he is sleeping with him every night and leaving me alone, unless he want me to feed the cat then he wil ask me to do.
i need help what shall i do?
already i have a very nice child from my boy friend and he loves his dad also.

2006-11-21 17:03:34 · 3 answers · asked by nano 2 in Weddings

why is it that a guy only looks for a girl who is considered hot or cute? y dont guys go for girls who are smart and have a great personality

2006-11-21 17:02:48 · 2 answers · asked by Louie_Girl_forever 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-21 17:00:22 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've already had girl problems and im planning to tell another girl her how much i love her but i dont know if ill be able to do this so i need help from yall. At my school, my freinds call me the flirtmaster but this time, i dont know how to tell her how much i love her. Youd think it would be easy cuz iv known her since i waz a kid. Shes already said that shed never forget me and would be my freind forever and that i could tell her any and everything about me or anything else. Help me!
P.S. I already asked about another girl tonite but i wanted to know if I had a chance with her still.

2006-11-21 16:58:47 · 2 answers · asked by akjgo94 2 in Singles & Dating

i basically stayed over every night at my girlfriend and her parent's house. i recently moved out and got my own place (i gave her the chance to move in with me) and figured that if i established my own independence she would think a little bit better of me and i wouldn't be such a bum. over the past several months our relationship has basically been non-existent. on our two year aniversary i wanted to take her out, but we both work full time and go to school. she claimed she would probably be tired and that we should probably just stay in. instead that night she went out with her friends. obviously we had a big fight and fights have definitly been more frerquent lately. i keep trying to do things with her but she is always "busy". recently she took a trip to see her friends, she was gone for four days, she came back yesterday and i didn't hear from her. today i worked all day and when i got a chance to call her she was on her way with some friends to go shopping up north. she knew

2006-11-21 16:58:08 · 3 answers · asked by alex l 5 in Singles & Dating

her dad is no good for her and she knows she has to leave his house and live with her mom, however she loves her dad, no matter how much he hurts her(emotionally), and her dad has told her that she would be betraying him if she left. and she says she would feel very guilty if she left him. she doesn't want to hurt him, or feel that guilt. what can i tell her, are what can she do to reassure herself that she should move out of her dad's house, or what could she tell her VERY stubborn dad that will make him see that she needs to leave?

2006-11-21 16:57:50 · 4 answers · asked by Striker MG 2 in Family

if you were in high school.

2006-11-21 16:57:32 · 1 answers · asked by DANCER_CHiCK 2 in Singles & Dating

I have 3 kids ages 12,10,and 2 the two oldest are really my neices but they are mine now i took them when their mom my sister got sick and passed away.I need to make sure gets santa and my back got hurt in a accident so i'm unable to work i don't know where to turn i can't even keep up with everything else right now but my kids have to have a christmas so if any one can tell where to go or what to do i would be forever gratefull i've never been in this position before so i'm kind of lost well THANK YOU ANYONE THAT CAN HELP

2006-11-21 16:56:18 · 3 answers · asked by hurting mommy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have my soul mate and friend with me. She is the sweetest, funniest, most beautiful chick in the world! What do you like best about your wife? My wife has the most awesome dark eyes! She looks like Bambi! Tell me what is special about your wife?

2006-11-21 16:54:35 · 12 answers · asked by Alan C 2 in Marriage & Divorce

After THAT Divine Incarnation Day, Post 23rd November 1926, What are those changes that came to the World, in all aspects ...?

2006-11-21 16:52:42 · 1 answers · asked by jayakrishnamenon 3 in Singles & Dating

I've been chosen by a good friend to be her maid of honor for her wedding, but I am a man, and we can't come up with the right word for me.

Man of Honor?
Best Man-Maid?
Footman of Honor?
Best Footman?
Bride's Butler?

Serious and humorous suggestions are most welcome. Random and inapt comments are a waste of everyone's time.

2006-11-21 16:52:19 · 14 answers · asked by preludicrous 3 in Weddings

i am not married (divorced), my children are older now and do not wish to go with my ex or near his family for this thanksgiving. do they have a say in their wishes at 17, 15, 12 & 10? are they old enough to make up their minds? they say they dont want to hear them badmouth me yet again, and are tired of hearing it. any opinions?

i have been waiting for years for these people to grow up, and tell the kids to ignore the nasty remarks. they say they are just tired of it.

court orders have not stopped it either, i have plenty of them.

thanks so much,
Yvette B aka mom of 4 (and all neighborhood kids :) )
njcomputerchick@yahoo.com

2006-11-21 16:52:14 · 2 answers · asked by Yvette B yvetteb 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-21 16:51:32 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok my boyfriend wants me to go the military ball with him..but i can't dance i mean slow dance yeah but like that fast new crap no i'm a country chick i mean i know how to square dance.....lol.. well i'm a redneck..and what if my mom can' afford me a formal gown..i mean my dad has been out of work for the past 7 months what about that.. how will i buy one the ball is like on the 27 of january..thanks for your help

2006-11-21 16:49:54 · 1 answers · asked by i love my son wyatt 2 in Friends

I meet a kind man, he is an africa-american. We chat warmly online. He invites me to go out with him this weekend. Can you show me some suggestions?

Thank you!

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2006-11-21 16:49:42 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I divorced a man who believed money fell like manna from heaven and if he knew I had $5 bucks, he would find some way to spend it. A lot of years have passed and I believe it is important for a woman ( or a man ) to keep their own little private savings account which their spouse is not aware of just in case the marriage goes bad or you want something really bad. I told my daughter to save some money back out of every pay check and not tell her boyfriend about it. She thinks she needs to tell him every little detail. Am I wrong? Do you do it?

2006-11-21 16:48:27 · 1 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Singles & Dating

PPL pls i neeed help =)
<3

2006-11-21 16:48:07 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have this ex gf that i dated for 3 years. I love her with all my heart! i messed up in the relationship even thought she was far from being perfect. I took her for granted and should have showed her alot more attention and showed her i loved her. We started off on a break but lead to a break up it has been 2 months. Since then im the one that has tookin it hard i feel like she is controling the situation. i wont call her but she will call me every so often wanting to hang out. When we hang out she says "if we get back togather" then she will say that we are only friends at the moment no affection thing is i dont call her she calls me what are her Intentions she says "she wants to start over as friend and rebuild the trust" is that just her keeping me attached? or is she serious?

2006-11-21 16:47:53 · 1 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Singles & Dating

my oldest sister is into witchcraft and her witchcraft stuff keeps being put in my room (by her and i my freinds are making fun of me because of it ) how do i tell her not to put her witchcraft stuff in my room (because shes 8 years older than me)

2006-11-21 16:47:50 · 3 answers · asked by torra emico 1 in Family