Family & Relationships - 21 November 2006

If a girl has just recently started being nice, could it be that she is interested in going out, or just being friendly? What are some signs of a girl being interested?

2006-11-21 17:54:26 · 4 answers · asked by DannyC 2 in Singles & Dating

My (now ex) bf was pressuring me into doing things I'm not ready for, so I broke up with him and I'm now dating his(now ex) best friend because he 1,brought me out of the depths of denial.2,treats me like I'm a human being. and 3,loves me for my pesonality and doesn't base our realationship primarily on looks or my body...Anyways, now I feel sorry that my ex is alone, but yet I don't for what he did to me...Am I wrong to feel sorry??? Please answer, I'd really appreciate it~

2006-11-21 17:53:42 · 8 answers · asked by haleybopster 2 in Singles & Dating

im 13
and theres this girl i like
but someone asked her out before me
if they break up when do i ask her out?
and how
its hard

2006-11-21 17:52:23 · 13 answers · asked by ryanfreak98 1 in Family

2006-11-21 17:51:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Here's the story ppl. About 5 weeks ago was the the first time i went out on lunch with her, then we had a great time at a dinner and several lunches, she loved it and so did i....she was with her boyfriend then...then her b/f broke it off with her, and i comforted her that night. Ever since then, weve been to heaps of lunches/dinners etc..i never made the move cause it was way too early.She always liked to touch me, sit on my seat, and talk/txt/alot....introduce me to mates etc...and now its pretty much nothing, the past few days have been really hard for me.Its like i done something wrong but i havent, she seems to distance herself from me, not txtn asmuch, now its nothing. What has happened to the spark?ive given her space, and i think she knows im hurting but she doesnt seem to care much, or acts like she doesnt maybe?...im too scared to ask as this girl works with me, but i really like her heaps, and she used to aswell, maybe somethings changed....its real evil whats shes doing..

2006-11-21 17:51:27 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ever since I have gotten a car, I have had to drive my boyfriend everywhere. this started about 2 years ago. now it's getting ridiculous. I drive a truck that sucks gas like you wouldn't belive too. and also, he'll call from the bar at 2 am wanting a ride home. he doesn't even walk to my house (he's only 5 blocks away) if i didn't drive over 5 blocks to get him, i wouldn't see him. it's not just money, it's the fact he doesn't think it's a big deal. I do this so he doesn't freeze his butt of (and plus he'll make me feel guilty if I don't get him) but even the other night, i picked him up, drove him to bar, picked up from bar, drove to work, picked up from work, drove back to bar, picked back up from bar, drove to his friends house, picked him up from friends house. This went on from 8 pm till 4 am. and he says that i don't do anything for him, that driving him doesn't qualify as doing something for him. he doesn't do anything for me! I even have to beg for a hug. what do I do?

2006-11-21 17:49:38 · 16 answers · asked by Bitterly Sweet 3 in Singles & Dating

I often shave down below. My two little buddies go wothout fur but the rest doesn't because of the red spots of shaving. Any one know how to prevent that. I don't mind the maintenece for my buddies but just above the other thing when rested sure does itch as soon as the hair grows back. Any proven ways to solve the problem?

2006-11-21 17:49:02 · 8 answers · asked by Notta 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I have both decided a divorce is the best course of action at this point. There will be no contesting it or disputes about who gets who.That being said, what is the most cost effective way to file for a divorce if youre a low income couple?

2006-11-21 17:46:47 · 7 answers · asked by Jess 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my man are planning on getting engaged but his mother is in the way.she was never around wile he was growing up she basically abandoned him and after she and his step dad split up,boyfriend was about 22 or so,she threatend to kill herself so he felt he had to be there for her.they ended up becoming very entangled.She had a huge emotional dependancy on him seeming incestial.She says he has been the man in her life and she keeps trying to breek us up.my man and i asked her to quit calling all the time and to narrow it to once a week but she still calls every day.She always compares me and her and says i am fake and other stuff and causes us to fight.When shes not around me and my man get along so well. his mom is phsyco! she has called me and cussed me out saying i am taking him away and then told him that i was the one who called her cussing.i just want to see my man stand up for me and stand his ground.how do i deal with his mother.am i rong for thinkin shes incest?is she normal

2006-11-21 17:43:57 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

im 16 and i have had a crush on this girl for a while and i had never asked out a girl before i got the courage recently to ask this girl out to my homecoming dance (we go to different schools) she said she would love to go and would make sure she could and said thanks for asking her. a few days later she called me and told me that she couldnt go because she had to go somewhere for a while with her dance team but said she was really sorry and wished she could go. i wimped out then and just said things like "oh dang thats too bad" and stuff. should i have asked her out to do something else in that moment or something? or was it better to just leave it alone? or should i just give up now? advice please?

2006-11-21 17:43:11 · 7 answers · asked by chaseredbat 2 in Singles & Dating

I like to be a little submissive but sometimes I can get a little kinky too. Some people think I'm to active but I like to have fun.

2006-11-21 17:43:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm willing to lay all my cards out on the table with her and see how we can work it out. But it seems that we have to much dert between us that she don't know how to forgive and forget and start off new. Me I'm willing to do that so we can ease the pain between us. To me I feel me and her don't think the same as to work things out.I try to speak calm to her but It seems that shes in so much rage, she don't know how to focus on the situation on hand. Thats why we are seprated now becuase I don't know how to deal with her. Lately, shes been showing up with hickes and doing some sort of scam to hurt me in any way. I just don't know why shes thinks thats going to make anything better. I've done my part as to be with an other but I don't throw it in her face like how she does with me.Tonight I talked to her asking why she does that. and she stated to pour her hart out and keep pointing the finger at me like everything is my falt.Do you think I can work it out or do you think it's no use?

2006-11-21 17:42:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I fell in love quite quickly with a girl. I felt a natural urge to 'give' to her in a non smothering way while still respecting her need for her own time etc... She doubted me and questioned me in many ways early on and I thought that if I kept on giving, that she would see the real me and stop questioning and doubting me... I guess I thought that love was the answer, but clearly it wasn't and now I feel resentful toward her as I have given so much of myself and haven't received the same kind of support and love in return. Maybe I bought this on myself by being too giving in the beginning...

2006-11-21 17:41:10 · 11 answers · asked by Andy8875 2 in Singles & Dating

Whenever my sister in law (my husband's brother's wife) gets angry or offended about something someone else in the family says or does, she refuses to let them see her daughter until they apologise to her. It's not usually over a big issue, just over a minor disagreement or something stupid like that. I feel that this is just punishing my 4 year old niece. I think it's wrong to use your child as a bargaining chip or a trump card to win an argument, and frankly I'm shocked that my brother in law allows this behavior. What do you think?

2006-11-21 17:41:01 · 2 answers · asked by Chellebelle78 4 in Family

i seen it on Maury-this dude cheated on his wife with over 100 PG women for their breast milk! uggg

2006-11-21 17:39:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 25/Male working in a decent company. I had a break up with one girl. Then, I started chatting with one teenager. She was very kind to me, and friendly with me. Two days back she gave me a Mobile number, to keep in touch with her. We had few talks and message. Yesterday Her brother called me from the same number, and started inquiring about me.
I talked to him, and promised not to call or contact again, to save the little girl.
I dont know what happened to that girl in her house. Their parents might have taken all her freedom. Or they might have even beaten her.. (its India yaar)
I need to know whether I will get any legal problem by their parents and brother, because of this.
Is it a big mistake to be friendly with an unknown person?
Please help me. I am confused a lot.

2006-11-21 17:38:59 · 22 answers · asked by Ramses-the son of light 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-21 17:38:39 · 10 answers · asked by shiney 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We are dating like normal couples, going out, enjoying one another's company. But our mode of communication is via MSN messenger and SMS. When we meet, we seldom talk. But we simply enjoy each other's company while doing things together. Question is, are we in love? Are we in the mature stage of courtship? Cos i don't feel head over heels for him

2006-11-21 17:37:37 · 11 answers · asked by blueneutron13 2 in Singles & Dating

isn't it safe to have sex after my period?

2006-11-21 17:36:02 · 6 answers · asked by honey14 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Trying to give the most details with the least amount of words here... Husband and I have 3 young boys. Separated in June. I started seeing Boyfriend. Boyfriend is 23, I'm 30. Going through HORRIBLE financial struggles. I broke up with BF and asked HB to come home on 10/11. He did. I miss BF like crazy. Still talk on the phone, see each other occasionally etc.
There were a lot of reasons HB and I separated. He was depressed for a year...didn't move from the couch. Let me pretty much support us for that year. Started getting cranky all the time. He is definitely willing to put us back together, but I almost feel like it's too late. He loves me the "no matter what kind of love."

Boyfriend: HOT. He's HOT. He's sweet, he loves me, he's willing to help me get out of the financial situation I'm in. But, he's not the boys dad, nor will he ever be. Last night I told BF that I'm giving my marriage 6 months. If it's not back on track in that time, we're done.

2006-11-21 17:35:44 · 14 answers · asked by sdkramer76 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I am married for 3 yrs. Within 1 yr of marriage we were blessed with baby.. my daughter is 2 yrs old.My husband wanted to leave job I wanted him to search for job and leave but he didn't listen to me and left job.As result he couldn't find job for 5months and we spent all our savings.Now he got job very far away town.He is there and i am staying alone with my daughter.He comes once a month and stays for week. My daughter makes house dirty when i start sweeping he quareels with me saying maid will come and clean. every time maid wont be available . maid servant will come for 1 hr daily and go.i cant keep house dirty. he roams in house with out banian(vests). He stands oustide and says he will give divorce. One day he went to our neighbours house with out their permission took their ball and started playing with my daughter. our neighbour complained me that she doesn't like any one entering without permission when i told my husband.He started pressing my throat. afterwards he said sorry

2006-11-21 17:35:39 · 18 answers · asked by jeevansandhya 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-21 17:34:43 · 16 answers · asked by Sandy Beaches 1 in Singles & Dating

what is the meanest thing you ever did to somebody to get even with them?

2006-11-21 17:34:02 · 15 answers · asked by sugarmonkey47 3 in Friends

please answer me!!!!

2006-11-21 17:33:34 · 16 answers · asked by gema liza b 1 in Singles & Dating

There is a girl who I liked allot when I was a senior and she was a sophmore. She is now a senior and I don't get to see her too much, maybe 1 every 3-4 weeks. We got along during school, but she never knew that I liked her like that. But after watching her during school, and the times when I still see her, I think that she is 1 of the extremely rare girls that I can see being married to. She seems to like her bf allot, but I think I have allot more to offer her, and she is nice to me.HOW DO I LET HER KNOW I REALLY LIKE HER? I am aftaid if I wait to here that she beaks up with her bf, she will have another one in a month, since she is hot. I have the courage to just go up to her and ask her if she wants to go somewhere sometime, but i don't know if I should. Or should I tell her that I kind of like her, and if she ever becomes avalable to let me know, or should I ask her if she doesnt see things working out with that guy to let me know, because I will wait for her for 6 months?

2006-11-21 17:33:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-21 17:32:44 · 4 answers · asked by Ned B 1 in Singles & Dating

i've got two men in my life, one's for fun and the other one is for love...

2006-11-21 17:32:01 · 14 answers · asked by angelic_234 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-21 17:29:01 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-21 17:28:33 · 25 answers · asked by Joho 7 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-21 17:28:11 · 9 answers · asked by An illusion 2 in Singles & Dating