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I like to be a little submissive but sometimes I can get a little kinky too. Some people think I'm to active but I like to have fun.

2006-11-21 17:43:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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I can't and don't know where to start... I have alot of guy friends... and everyone of them likes a different type of woman...some like submissive some like a take charge kind of girl.. and some simply want romance.. i say be what and who you are and find the one that meshes with your style.. It will be way more satisfying. Don't pretend to like anything just for a guy.. make sure you enjoy what your doing..

2006-11-21 17:51:35 · answer #1 · answered by GirlWithQuestions 4 · 0 0

Well 1st off me personally am shy and scared to approach a girl in the first place, since being single/divorced. Me? I want a woman who is honest and loyal, which you can trust with anything. I want to give her the world and make her as happy as I possibly can. As far as being intamate: As I have gotten older (36) I have changed and want romance and foreplay more, make love all night long or until we both are satisfied. Sure it's okay to have fantasys, but they need to remain a fantasy. But it's great to be a little kinky, but not too kinky because it's hard to go day to day and your lover not forget you do something they thought was way too kinky and can even cost the relationship and even a divorce, but if you can leave things in the bedroom and just go on day to day, then that is awesome. My grandmother told me the perfect woman is a woman who can be a whore in the bedroom and suzy the home maker out of the bed room who you can trust with anything, then you will have a successful marriage. LOL! And you know, she is right! LOL! But then again if things get a little too much it causes the man to turn jealous thinking that he is not satisfying you AND THAT IS THE BIGGEST THING!! YOU MUST ALWAYS ASSURE HIM THAT HE SATISFYS YOU IN THE BED! Because that is when jealousy and the love checks starts happening. A man's biggest fear is not satisfying his woman. I got divorced 4 years ago after marrying my High School sweetheart and have not had sex since, and wasn't ready for awhile because of being hurt, but I'm ready now FOR SURE! LOL! BUT I was always gone due to being an Airborne Ranger in the Army and she met some guy on-line and they got married 2 weeks after our divorce. But we fell out of love and I always slept with my girls who meant the world to me and she was even jealous of them, because i would lay down with them and then fall asleep myself. Her mother and I hated each other because I wasn't the materialistic guy she wanted for her daughter to be with, and the witch is on her 12th marriage. Plus my X was so lazy and would never clean the house or laundry, which I had to do it all when I was home. Which made me felt she had no respect for me that also goes into the bedroom. So that is when it started I guess after having the girls it's hard to raise them alone and she didn't do her part and so we lost interest in the bedroom as well. When I was deployed her grandmother came and stayed. Sorry for my sob story, but the bottom line is if you keep your man knowing he satisfys you then your life will be complete. JUST TELL HIM HOW MUCH YOU LOVE HIM AND HOW MUCH HE IS A GREAT LOVER AND IF NOT, THEN TEACH HIM HOW TO TURN YOU ON AND WHAT GIVES YOU THE BIG "O" PLUS IF HE CAN MAKE YOU HAVE MULTIPLE O'S, IT MAKES HIM FEEL SECURE IN THE RELATIONSHIP! IF HE IS NOT SATISFYING YOU THEN SHOW HIM WHAT DOES OR IF YOU WANT TO TALK DIRTY AND USE TOYS IN AN EXTREMELY TACTFULLY WAY. ONE MORE THING: Don't allow him to use a big-*** dildoe on you, then in the back of his mind, he will think he is not big enough for you. Tell him you want him inside of you when you get ready to have an O, or help by rubbing your hot spot while he is inside you if it satisfy's you and always, I mean always let him know how big he his and how he satisfy's you.

HOPE THIS HELPS!!

Terry Duncan
Kingsport, TN
terryduncan@charter.net

2006-11-21 18:55:38 · answer #2 · answered by Terry Duncan 2 · 0 0

Many guys say that they like a certain type of girl so they can get what they want from the person they are trying to get, but it all depends on what you want to do and what you feel is appropriate for the situation that you are in. Nothing is wrong with being active.

2006-11-21 18:01:21 · answer #3 · answered by Lonnie Smith Jr. 1 · 0 0

personally i like gals (as in frenz) who are really open abt anything so that we can chat almost about everything. not a stuck up, not someone who likes to pretend. a little kinky is good...but don get overboard should be fine.

2006-11-21 17:51:29 · answer #4 · answered by sulaji84 3 · 0 0

well, it all depends upon the guy.

2006-11-21 17:45:28 · answer #5 · answered by christy 6 · 0 0

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