i've got two men in my life, one's for fun and the other one is for love...
2006-11-21 17:32:01 · 14 answers · asked by angelic_234 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Short answer: Yes.
Decide what's more important, and cut one loose. However, I cannot believe that you can 'love' one guy and have another on the side.
2006-11-21 17:34:20 · answer #1 · answered by Vince 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It really depends. If the person you claim to love doesn't know you are cheating on him, then there is a problem.
The lover is not biggie. As long as you both know that it is just a physical thing, there is not much of a problem. In fact he is probably just as happy to enjoy it as you.
Unfortunately it is the guy you say you love that is going to create the problem. If he really loves you, he is probably going to consider it quite a stab in the heart when he discovers your cheating ways. This will no doubt drive him away.
Of course if everyone involved knows what is going on, then there is no problem. But the fact that you asked about being selfish does seem to imply that you are in fact being selfish, and using people for your own person gratification. This is selfish, and will probably lead to some hurt feelings down the road.
2006-11-22 01:33:26 · answer #2 · answered by ZCT 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its like this a woman that has two men like you do is why women that wants a good man cant get them cause thy are afraid of all the woman cheat on them so the one for fun let loss and keep the one for love or do you love them both but either way it goes a good man is hard to fine because of this type of thing
2006-11-22 01:39:10 · answer #3 · answered by Donna C 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nothing wrong with being selfish sometimes, BUT...if you've got a guy for fun, do you REALLY love the other guy?
2006-11-22 01:34:46 · answer #4 · answered by roknrolr63 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If they know about each other and have no complaints than no your not. If not and one feels cheated especially the love one than yes your being selfish.
2006-11-22 01:41:45 · answer #5 · answered by BluLizard 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes. If you have one for only "fun" and the other for love, what happens when the love relastionship gets to the "next level". Dont you ever feel ashamed of yourself?
2006-11-22 01:36:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, it depends on how committed you are in the relationships to both of them. Not if you aren't serious. If they think you are you might be doing wrong and somebody will get hurt. But then a girls got do what a girls gotta do. Guys have always done it. You go girl!
2006-11-22 01:36:11 · answer #7 · answered by sugarmonkey47 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes you are selfish
and the great part here is that you are being selfish to yourself, youre using your thoughts, emotions , actions, motives and boyd in an exhausting way
2006-11-22 01:42:46 · answer #8 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wait till they find out ( i assume the LOVE one doesnt know abt the FUN one), you will be selling fish. = = ?
2006-11-22 01:59:15 · answer #9 · answered by sulaji84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe a lil. u should hav 1 man that u luv & can hav fun with. its not really fair 2 them that u hav another man. dont take this the rong way. u jus need 2 figure out wat u want.
2006-11-22 01:36:45 · answer #10 · answered by crazychik 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋