im 16 and i have had a crush on this girl for a while and i had never asked out a girl before i got the courage recently to ask this girl out to my homecoming dance (we go to different schools) she said she would love to go and would make sure she could and said thanks for asking her. a few days later she called me and told me that she couldnt go because she had to go somewhere for a while with her dance team but said she was really sorry and wished she could go. i wimped out then and just said things like "oh dang thats too bad" and stuff. should i have asked her out to do something else in that moment or something? or was it better to just leave it alone? or should i just give up now? advice please?
2006-11-21 17:43:11 · 7 answers · asked by chaseredbat 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thats a tough situation
but you cant go back in time and changed what you said then
but im sure things will turn out for the best in the long run
btu for now i would suggest maybe backing of alittle bit
call ehr sometimes maybe causually ask her what shes doing that weekend and hint that yall should hang out
iif shes interested she will probably agree to that and continue makign plans
2006-11-21 17:48:40 · answer #1 · answered by bionca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she said she would love to, and something came in the way. It wasn't another guy, so that is a really good sign. she is committed to her dance team, and she should be. you should have asked if she wanted to do something else since you already broke the ice by asking her. don't give up on her! Try again, and ask if she wants to do something when she doesn't have to dance. otherwise you might be asking her out when she has to dance again! But she might have another reason the 2nd time you ask. if so, then ask the 3rd time. That should work. Remember She is a girl and WILL NOT ask you!!! :-)
2006-11-22 02:02:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
fallow your heart if you really like this girl and she sounded like she really was sorry that she could not go then ask her out again and if she says no then just know that everything happens for a reason and that God has a special someone out there for you don't rush into anything too soon I mean your only 16 you will find someone!!!! GOOD LUCK and keep your head up!!!
2006-11-22 01:53:39 · answer #3 · answered by socerchic2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give up. Just ask her out again. She said she would like to go out with you maybe next time she will be free to go out with you. Just ask her out once more. Never give up. Good luck!
2006-11-22 01:48:17 · answer #4 · answered by ani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be such a wimp, for all you know she just wants to take her time, and she really as somewhere to go to during that day,
if you really want her be patient
2006-11-22 01:57:27 · answer #5 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't give up. call her back and ask her out another time when she isn't busy.
2006-11-22 01:45:48 · answer #6 · answered by m_rae0232 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pimp slap that ho
2006-11-22 01:49:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋