We are dating like normal couples, going out, enjoying one another's company. But our mode of communication is via MSN messenger and SMS. When we meet, we seldom talk. But we simply enjoy each other's company while doing things together. Question is, are we in love? Are we in the mature stage of courtship? Cos i don't feel head over heels for him
2006-11-21 17:37:37 · 11 answers · asked by blueneutron13 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, we long for one another whenever we are apart. We love to see each other in person, cuddle, share the same goals. But it seems a guy's thing about gaming than chatting on the phone. Will work this out further. Thanks for the answers!
2006-11-21 18:02:05 · update #1
i am sure you guys are love and in the mature stage of courtship.a normal couple should always plan and look towards the future and not saying "i love you" daily and always engaged in fights and quarrels all the time. "a couple is like the eyes of a fish, one of each occupy each eye, as you know.the fish's eyes are located at the side.if one is not communicating well or neglecting the relationship, the fish will swim into the wrong direction and not towards the future.so a couple should always hold on together and swim towards the right path."
2006-11-21 17:51:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have you been "dating" I suppose would be a good question to ask.
In the beginning of a relationship, I would assume there was some sort of feeling "head over heels" for one another, even if you simply feel a giant smile leaking onto your face when he/she is near.
Without any further information, it sounds like you have found a best friend - but that there isn't perhaps that spark of romance there that would identify it as "romantic love / courtship".
2006-11-21 17:42:56 · answer #2 · answered by kaltienne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were in love you would have not a doubt in the world that this was the case. Real and mature relationships are based in the real world so you should talk in person or atleast over the phone more often. He sounds more like a companion / friend than a boyfriend, do you lust after him, is there attraction. For love to form it takes quite along time, before this it is lust. I thought I was in love but later realised that this was lust. Don't worry if its meant to be your relationship will grow to love.
All good things take time, don't be impatient to get there, just enjoy what you have at the moment.
I regreted speeding my relationship up, it ultimately wreaked it
Im sure you'll figure it out
see ya
2006-11-21 17:48:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess not? Normally, couples that are in love.... love to see each other in person and talk and cuddle and be themselves. Sounds like when you two get together, there isn't much to say...
Or... you have nothing to say because you're only at the beginning stages of the relationship? Like... less than 6 months? When you hit 6 months... thing tend to be more serious. write back and let us know.
Cheers~
2006-11-21 17:41:11 · answer #4 · answered by sunsetconmartini 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably aren't, you talk face to face much, like you said? Communication is an integral aspect of any growing relationship. You also said that you don't feel "head over heels for him"? Love is an emotional feeling that you have, and from what I can tell, you are both just very good friends.
2006-11-21 17:41:24 · answer #5 · answered by Zach S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said "i dont feel head over heels for him'. Thats ur asnwer right there. And u cant ask us, only u know if ur in love or not.
I think u guyz are at a "shy stage" part: You do most of ur talking online, not even in person...which is OK, but you guyz should talk more when u see each other.
No, it doesnt seem like ur at ur "mature stage"...but thats maybe me. You should be able to determine that.
â¥Good luckâ¥
2006-11-21 17:42:16 · answer #6 · answered by jaz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u take her/him seriously, think about her/him whole the time & miss her/him badly then u r in love. If u think about her/him but not very much than it is like best friend's relationship. But if u r mature than u understand what type of feelings come when u meet her/him. Becoz best freind is also loveable but not in that sense that u miss him/her alot.
2006-11-21 17:47:52 · answer #7 · answered by care 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey if you don't feel head over heels for him then you aren't in love plus you are questioning if you are in love. if you are in love then you'll know you won't need to ask , but you sound like your really close ten to one just keep seeing
each other and don't give up and you'll know when you fall in love.
2006-11-21 17:47:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sound like just the start, you will know when it cahnges because you will be able to sit and talk for hours, and the nthe next stage after that you will jus ttalk bout your days and
2006-11-21 17:40:38 · answer #9 · answered by BubbleyChick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds more like a best friend, less like a love
2006-11-21 17:39:52 · answer #10 · answered by annc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋