Family & Relationships - 21 November 2006

My boyfriend is a bingeing alcoholic, When he drinks I do not want to be with him so I kick him out, What or were do I do with him when his own family does not want to take him in.

2006-11-21 15:40:24 · 14 answers · asked by dolptat 2 in Family

I have this freind that i've known since kindergarden, and im now in 9th grade; and over the years, especially over the previous summer, shes changed alot. She turned gothic, and changed most of her freinds completly. Were still friends but we don't seem really close anymore, shes more perverted and depressed over the smallest things, yet happy the next moment. She aslo talks about sex 24/7. Should i tell her that it bothers me when she talks about that stuff, or keep quiet. I'm only asking this because we used to be BFF's.

Thanks for any answers :)

2006-11-21 15:39:32 · 5 answers · asked by Momo 5 in Friends

i am going out with this guy for 1 and half months..
and we love each other very much...
but.... he said we are drifting away..
i dunno what's the problem and i dun wanna break up with him!!

2006-11-21 15:39:24 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what do you do when your dad hasnt been the nicest person over the years, but you still love him and you want him to be a part of your life, but your boyfriend of a year wont meet him and you really want them to meet. i love my boyfriend and i plan on being with him forever but i dont know what to do about this. this is a huge problem!! can you give me some good advice??

2006-11-21 15:38:42 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been going out for approximately 6 months. Things have been getting a bit dry lately and we haven't been talking as much and getting close as much, and I feel like we need to revive our relationship. I'm also having trouble getting him to show me affection...without me initiating it first. He's very shy (it took him 2 months to ask me out) and I think that's part of why things always feel so awkward. I can hold his hand, I can hug him, I can cuddle with him, etc., but it seems like I always have to do all the work. I don't think this is a time for a breakup because I know that we still really like each other. We've made great memories together these 6 months and I don't want to call it quits just yet.

My question is, how can I revive my relationship with him and should I talk to him about me doing all the work in our relationship?

2006-11-21 15:38:17 · 3 answers · asked by sincerely 1 in Singles & Dating

Looking for Tambra Vaughn in Las Vegas

2006-11-21 15:37:08 · 3 answers · asked by risenfly04 1 in Friends

for the past couple of days my ex has been calling me IMing me and all of that.he keeps complaining about the girl he just broke up w/ and today he brought up our relationship, told him that i dont wanna talk about that.i consider him a friend,i gave him advice about his crazy ex. he still says i will call u tom. and stuff like that.he always calls and laughs at everything i do and says i just got done working out,getting pretty buff and things like that.if he keeps doing this stuff.whats his deal
also, theres this other guy ive been trying to figure out if hes into me. he calls me, i call him, he flirts, i flirt, hes super shy but he drops hints about how he wants me to go and do stuff with him.i was IMing him and asked him if he wanted to go to a concert w/ me and people. he said that he had to race that weekend,he also put in :( like he was sad bout that.when i go to his races hes happy but when i talk to him he doesnt really look at me he also acts like a nervous reck!

2006-11-21 15:36:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My longterm bf is hard to buy for, since he usually buys things for himself as soon as he decides he wants it. So what do I get him for Xmas? To get and idea of what he likes (he's 35): he likes to play video games (has lots of them, but really only plays occasionally), loves to watch movies, likes to go sledding, loves guns, likes to work out (in theory lol) and is always researching and taking vitamins and stuff, likes to read, loves to snuggle and hang out with me (but who wouldn't ;) loves to travel (we are going to texas in december), hates his job and this remote northern town that we live in......
Anyway, he has been talking about getting himself a new gun for a long time, and I'd love to surprise him with that, but I am not legally able to buy a gun! So I need another good idea, please help!

2006-11-21 15:36:54 · 4 answers · asked by p_i_turtle_sanders 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-21 15:34:04 · 3 answers · asked by Julie 1 in Friends

My husband is always showing off when his guy friends come around and I never know how to defend myself or what to say in return without looking stupid! HELP!

2006-11-21 15:33:18 · 12 answers · asked by SugarCoatedAngel 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

There's a guy I know that is 23 and I think he like's the same girl I like, and she is 17. 23 to 17 is a pretty gap, right?

I'm 19 BTW.

2006-11-21 15:33:11 · 11 answers · asked by Greg S 3 in Singles & Dating

ok i broke up with my girlfriend because she moved but thats not the problem.i like this other girl in 4th 5th period her name is Ashley she is my friend i know her.she is really smart i want to ask her out and what if she says doesnt like me as much as i like her she is really cute. but what if she says no it would be weird . so what should i do two years ago i asked her out she said no. so what should i do.

2006-11-21 15:33:06 · 3 answers · asked by bloo b 3 in Singles & Dating

It's almost 15 years and still I could not manage to forget her. We never been us (girlfriend). Just only friend. I met her in the church while I was a boy, I was 15 yrs old that time. I tell to my friends and her friends that I like her. But I cannot telll her directly before because I,m too shy, and I'm thinking that is not the right time to say to her that I like her a lot. I think if I say to her that time she will like me, but I have to many doubts and to many dreams. But it's started my suffering when I saw her with another guy. I did not do anything.. Until, my bestfriend sincerely talk to me that she is pregnant to that guy. I cannot beleive what happen, I'm too shock... Then after that, I did not go to the church anymore.....

I'm too far now, working as a employee in a good company in a different country...But my heart still beating for her always wondering If I could go back in time to tell her that I love her..

2006-11-21 15:32:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why when youre the happiest you've ever been and have moved on do THEY walk back into your life and mess everything up.

2006-11-21 15:31:59 · 19 answers · asked by rusalka 3 in Singles & Dating

when your txting your GF? We talk ALL the time, and we run out of things to talk about quick... Any ideas of what I could say besides Whatcha doin, or hows your day going?

2006-11-21 15:31:23 · 5 answers · asked by Zach S 5 in Singles & Dating

he tells me to move on. he cheated if feel so terrible. He wont talk to me, it upsets her, then when he does i feel horriable. I am so in love with him....four months now and i still cry what can i do to get over this

2006-11-21 15:31:11 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If they are dying? A very good man that I have known for my entire life has been battling cancer for awhile, and I remember having a talk with him about how sad he was that he didn't have any grandchildren who could carry on his name, and I want to let him know that I am going to give my first born his last name as their middle name.

Do you tell people these things? Write them a letter? I have no clue what to do...

2006-11-21 15:30:44 · 6 answers · asked by SammityvilleHorror 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

do they like us suffering more and just brag about how we want them back?

2006-11-21 15:30:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When ever someone talks to me or gives me a note or puts me in there info, She gets mad at them and says that i am hers and only hers, y is she so offensive to everyone?

2006-11-21 15:30:13 · 9 answers · asked by da man 3 in Singles & Dating

My bf says he loves me and I believe it. But I always wind up waiting around alone for him, because he has time for everything but me. Why is this?? What can I do??

2006-11-21 15:29:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What's the different signs when it comes to resisting commitment in a relationship? If you're not interested, what do you do? What if you're just scared? Does it "look" any different?

2006-11-21 15:29:07 · 3 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

her in the hallway a start to something? I have never spoken to this girl but I want to I just dont know how to approach it. We always seem to make eye contact when we see eachother and everything does this mean anything or what? Also what are somethings girls will do to show there interested before ever speaking to them.

2006-11-21 15:29:03 · 2 answers · asked by theoneandonly4251 2 in Singles & Dating

Is this normal? My husband now just informed me that when we used to argue about marriage...He'd go to his ex-wife of 10 years...Is this ok? I mean they have child together and I'm ok they talk about that...But after awhile the Ex got over jealouse...She even went nuts when she found out we got married...Said all these things on an email to my husband which he showed to me...But now I'm realizing that he must've led her on...They've only been divorced for 2 years then we met...We've been together almost 4 yrs married 3 months...I already married him and now he told me this I'm trusting him...I guess I just wonder how other's think about this? Would you share your relationship with your Ex?

2006-11-21 15:28:29 · 11 answers · asked by $&$& 2 in Marriage & Divorce

OK I don't know how to feel any more. I have two kids both boys. Ones ten and the other is seven. They both have differint mothers and I have custudy with the ten year old. I just seperated with my most recent babys mother and we are moving on with our lives with out each other. But when I have both my kids together I start thinking to my self why can't I manage to have my famaily stick together?I have a new girl in my life but it feels like nothings certin in a relationship. It feels like after a certin time in a relationship every body wants to go their seprete ways after a while. I mean I see my parents and my sis and her man staying together and look happy. How can I have a lady stay with me till the end and not worry that shes going to leave me? How am I suposed to feel and trust any body anymore? I just feel so down casted and don't feel motivated to have a new relationship cuss I feel it's going to end up the same way. I'm just not looking forword to the pain agian. Please help.

2006-11-21 15:27:44 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm talking to this girl but she never calls me I'm the one who calls her all the time, I mean a guy should be the one calling I guess but it seems annoying on my part and when I amm on the phone I can't hang up the phone with her, who should hang up the phone calls? and how can I get her to call me more.

2006-11-21 15:26:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

no

2006-11-21 15:25:47 · 5 answers · asked by Jewell R 1 in Singles & Dating

I think I'm ready to have a baby, and I've wanted one for years. I take care of all of my friends children when they need it and now I want one of my own.

Problem is, my husband doesn't want a baby. I'm so desperate, I'm thinking of going to a sperm bank, or getting a friend to impregnate me. (my husband and I use the POOT ((pull out on time)) method, and we know it's not the best thing to do if you dont want to have a baby, so I figure he'll just think he didn't pull out early enough or something.)

What do you guys think???

2006-11-21 15:25:42 · 14 answers · asked by Katy K 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm Christian and want to wait to have sex until marriage. Some of my friends tell me "good luck with that, you'll never find a guy who wants to wait...holding hands for 3 years seems like a dew-eyed concept". but i just feel inclined to disagree with them. I mean, there's got to be guys out there who just aren't speaking up who want to wait until marriage to have sex!

Why should i have to compromise my morals just so i won't be lonely for the rest of my life?
Guys, speak up! Who here is willing to wait?

2006-11-21 15:25:10 · 5 answers · asked by mighty_power7 7 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-21 15:24:54 · 29 answers · asked by josie 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-21 15:24:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating