My bf says he loves me and I believe it. But I always wind up waiting around alone for him, because he has time for everything but me. Why is this?? What can I do??
2006-11-21 15:29:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have talked to him about it... and he says he knows he is wrong and he is sorry... again and again.
2006-11-21 15:34:43 · update #1
How can I make him WANT to spend more time with me :(
2006-11-21 15:37:36 · update #2
What you do is stop waiting. Are you waiting for him to call....stop sitting by the phone...go to the mall...out with friends...walk the dog...DON'T wait by the phone. Are you waiting for him to pick you up for a date? If he is more than 15 minutes late without calling to say he's running late...leave...go to the mall...out with friends...walk the dog. OK...so he gets mad..but he will get the hint.. He will start learning to pick you up ON TIME...or call when he says he will. .....He treats you like this because YOU LET HIM. Teach him to respect you.
2006-11-21 15:37:22 · answer #1 · answered by Renee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may love you but he doesn't respect you. You can't make him do anything that he doesn't want to do. Nor would you want to. What good is it if he's doing it under protest instead of free-hearted? You have to look deep within yourself and see if you want to be in a relationship with someone that treats you this poorly.
2006-11-22 00:38:24 · answer #2 · answered by Radio Diva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the thing bout those three words is that they are said too often but not meant enough. he is saying it cos he feels he should or cos it keeps you happy. he may genuinely feel it, but when he says it, chances are is cos he feels he should. its not just you boyfriend, thats how most guys are. just cos he loves you, he feels as though he doesnt have to spend every minute with you. he is just a normal guy.
2006-11-21 23:35:57 · answer #3 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can tell him that you're feel neglected and you don't think he's being very considerate of your feelings. He SAYS he loves you, but he's certainly not showing it. If he doesn't think you're enough of a priority to make time for you ... do you think it's really a balanced relationship? :S
2006-11-21 23:34:21 · answer #4 · answered by Imperfect 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about how you feel. you want a man in your life that has time for you. It should be a two way thing.
2006-11-21 23:32:42 · answer #5 · answered by PinkHighHeels 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sure he does love youi wonder the same thing about my husb.and you know what,we work together,but i still want more,and sometime he needs his space.so he plays his xbox360.but at least hes home.some people just show it in diff. ways.find something to do yourself,garage sales are fun
2006-11-21 23:48:12 · answer #6 · answered by starr67 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is using you. Find someone else and if he says he will change, tell him it's to late. He won't change and life is to short. Good luck.
2006-11-21 23:35:26 · answer #7 · answered by black jack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first be sure that you are not being possessive ,but if you think he avoids being with you and you're sure its not because lack of time ,then talk to him about it .
2006-11-21 23:34:40 · answer #8 · answered by Mysterious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know your letting him walk on you by always being there for HIM tell him your feelings mmif he still has no clue move on sweetie..
2006-11-21 23:34:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
action speaks louder than words. gauge for yourself, is it worth it? better still, find your own life...
2006-11-21 23:33:15 · answer #10 · answered by yoyo l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋