Family & Relationships - 21 November 2006

I am in high school and never realy talked to any girls on the phone. I want to start but I am confused on how to actully get to the point where you talk on the phone alot. Does it come with just a random phone call one day after youve been talken to them on the computer for a while or what? Also I woudlnt know how to approach a 1st time conversation on the phone with the girl I like.

2006-11-21 15:24:46 · 3 answers · asked by theoneandonly4251 2 in Singles & Dating

When.

2006-11-21 15:23:54 · 22 answers · asked by frozenphoenixtears 1 in Singles & Dating

We have been seperated since July because of his alcoholism and violence. I have had a R.O. against him since early October (because he was obsessive, stalking, threatening, and tried to kill himself because he was so distraught over the fact that I wouldn't take him back). He is forbidden by the courts from contacting me for any reason other than issues pertaining to our children - however, tonight, he called to tell me that he is dating "Frankie" and that he thinks he is in love with her. He was rude to me - like he was trying to make me mad. I even spoke to her briefly (she got on the phone to apologize for him calling me!!). He sounded drunk, and I'm not really sure why he called. My questions are: 1) Does he really think I would care what he is doing? I'm the one who has decided to divorce him. 2) What might he expect to gain from this conversation? 3) Should I call my attorney tomorrow and report that he called me & violated the R.O.? 4) Can men really be this dumb?

2006-11-21 15:23:15 · 25 answers · asked by in love love love... 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Theres a girl i told i love and id do anything in the wurld for her. ANYTHING! But one day she basicly told me to f**k of cuz she wuz mad at somethingand she hurt me very bad, intentionely, and she knew what she was doing. That really screwed me up but i went up to her and asked okay whats up with this. But when i tell her i wanted to be alone, she goes all crazy a*s on me. She forgave me but now whenever she sits by me on the bus or in band or whenever, i dont feel that special feeling. I feel like i have an older sister now. What do yall think i should do?

2006-11-21 15:22:48 · 4 answers · asked by akjgo94 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-21 15:22:46 · 30 answers · asked by tannyfanny 1 in Singles & Dating

whitch grill sould i choose funny ,cut ,hot ,super hot

2006-11-21 15:22:40 · 6 answers · asked by hot guy 1 in Singles & Dating

There are these 2 guys John and Jay. I really really like them both. John is so cute and sweet to me and (really only known them both for 2 weeks, though) He's so polite and stands up when I talk to him and opens doors for me, and you can tell he would be a good bf. To other girls he is not typically attractive, but i think hes a cutie, but im the only one. (not that i care, it makes me like him more)

Jay is more funny and sarcastic and talks more dirty, but you know you would have a good time with him. Hes more of the athleti build, he lets me know hes interested though. He's someone who I feel like i can say anything and its ok, where as i watch what i say with John.

2006-11-21 15:22:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We've only been dating for about a month

2006-11-21 15:22:07 · 7 answers · asked by dude21 1 in Singles & Dating

I had just finished exercising at the YMCA and headed to the gym to take a shower. I was in a great mood..all those endorphins running through me. Well there was this guy in the shower and man..his body reminded me of this buddy I used to know back home. It was like he was my buddy! I went up to him and tried to talk and be friendly and complemented him on his muscles...I think men like hearing that. Anyways, I am totally not gay though but I patted him on the butt and said it was nice meeting him. He hasn't spoken to me since. Was this a bad idea?

2006-11-21 15:21:23 · 5 answers · asked by Lucky L 1 in Friends

When I got my degree that was my happiest moment beacuse I had worked hard for that.

2006-11-21 15:21:14 · 5 answers · asked by prakashanand 2 in Friends

i wish i wouldnt threat about the little stuff- me and my bf would have NO fights whatsoever!
we especially fight during PMS.. what can i do so i wont be too impulsive and yell thing i dont want to yell.... they make no sense but at THAT moment, i feel i make a lot of sense...
does anybody agree?
is there any way to control this?

2006-11-21 15:20:39 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do i get a guy to text me more?
how do i get a guy do text me more, become closer friends me, and make more guy friends?
♥
(10 points for the best.)

2006-11-21 15:19:16 · 10 answers · asked by me 1 in Singles & Dating

this kid id telling every1 my dad is dead and making jokes of it should i beat his A S S or not

2006-11-21 15:18:50 · 10 answers · asked by cody b 2 in Family

I feel like this guy is being extra gentle, sweet and nice to me. and he isnt always like this. is this a good thing or a bad thing?

also i asked him to hang out with me once and today he asked me to go to the movies with him.. a good sign? or is this just a sign of progressing friendship?

2006-11-21 15:18:46 · 7 answers · asked by sam3345 1 in Singles & Dating

we have been dating for about 6 months and we really care about each other....i thought about a diamond necklace...but i really don't know....any suggestions...?

2006-11-21 15:18:16 · 8 answers · asked by Jesse W 1 in Singles & Dating

My bf is emotionally abusive and I am going to a couselor right now to help me get through this. He is very controlling and very jealous of me spending time with anyone. He wants to be with me 24/7. I don't have enough characters to go into the things that he does that are driving me crazy. I lived in this house first and he moved in with me, so everything is in my name, so I can't leave him with it or he will wreck things and I will be responsible. If I had moved in with him, I would have been gone long ago. I have told him about 6 times to get out and he tells me that he loves me and he is here for the long haul...tells me that I am worth the fights we get into. I tell him that I am not and there has to be someone out there that will appreciate him more than I do. I was on my own for 3 years and am used to being able to have some freedom. He notices everything that I do when he is gone to work...right down to checking to see what time I sat the alarm to get up to go to work.

2006-11-21 15:18:01 · 8 answers · asked by lulu 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-21 15:16:34 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

What makes you run at the beginning of a relationship? If a girl painted you a painting would that freak you out? Is it better for a girl to act like she isn't that into you even if she is... what if she finds that really hard to do.

I believe that if I be myself.. a caring person that likes to do things for others I will meet the true person that loves that about me.. (or am I mothering and I maybe should act more cool and aloof??)

What do you think?

2006-11-21 15:16:24 · 6 answers · asked by Trudy Bell 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

hey i have dimples and everytime i smile they come out and i was wondering if they are cute for guys

2006-11-21 15:16:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how a boy need to dress so girls could like him or look

2006-11-21 15:16:11 · 15 answers · asked by dominguezcops 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband is really depressed, he has been working really hard and supporting me through college, we have two beautiful daughters and have been married for over 5 years. He is having a hard time paying the bills and keeping up with the maintanence of our home, it seems everything is falling apart, our refrigerator quit working, we've had termites forever, our carpet is old and we need new, our girls need clothes, he has a lot of pressure from the homefront. Daycare is so expensive, it cost over 120.00 a week for just two days of daycare, 5 hours a day. We could pay our house payment or have a brand new car with that money. I support him, but don't know how to show him or what to do. I fee like I need to show him, I don't like seeing him depressed. Help in this time of need, oh and by the way his work truck is about to give up on him, it's had it's last life. HELP

2006-11-21 15:15:46 · 12 answers · asked by tgallenstein01 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Bars? Grocery stores? I guess it's whenever you're not really looking, right?

2006-11-21 15:14:43 · 10 answers · asked by redpillowcase 2 in Singles & Dating

14 year old girl like
http://www5.jcpenney.com/jcp/ProductImageview.aspx?IT=G&ID=1033802&MD=&GRT=&E=&SA=F&VT=ZV&I=0900631b810f2b4cM.TIF&VAS=&AV=T&RGB=&AS=&AST=&BID=&VID=&PopUpBlocked=true&RU=PROD%257c11848%257c29615%257cDEP%257cG%257cSIZ%257c1033802%257c1%257c56%257c%257cjewelry%257c%257c%257cSearchDepartment&CmCatId=EXTERNAL|29615
Would she wear it often?
Do you like it?
I think I might give my girlfriend it as a christmas present...

2006-11-21 15:14:34 · 11 answers · asked by Zach S 5 in Singles & Dating

Is or has anyone been in a relationship with a retard?, I think I'm in love with one not becuase I feel bad for them.But the need to protect and cherish it..they look so sweet and loving.

Well anyone has experience with them,what are retards like while interacting with themor what are they like?BTW..that person is only Mild retarded.

2006-11-21 15:14:29 · 16 answers · asked by Nickie d 1 in Singles & Dating

There are these 2 guys John and Jay. I really really like them both. John is so cute and sweet to me and (really only known them both for 2 weeks, though) He's so polite and stands up when I talk to him and opens doors for me, and you can tell he would be a good bf. To other girls he is not typically attractive, but i think hes a cutie, but im the only one. (not that i care, it makes me like him more)

Jay is more funny and sarcastic and talks more dirty, but you know you would have a good time with him. Hes more of the athleti build, he lets me know hes interested though. He's someone who I feel like i can say anything and its ok, where as i watch what i say with John.

Who should I go for it with?

2006-11-21 15:13:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There's this one girl, shes a freshie and im a sophomore, and i really like her, and i think she likes me. She's cute, and i always talk to her during 7th period because we sit next to eachother. When i touch her hand (yes i was flirting haha) she doesnt mind- she just smiles and lets me. I feel so alive when im with her-i really want to ask her out before thanksgiving break so i can see her during it (thanksgiving break starts on thursday, we get friday and the weekend off.) I know all about her family, she tells me everything and i just listen. I really like her and want to ask her out by tomorrow. What should i do? Should I ask her out personally (we only have 3 classes tomorrow, a "half day" at school) so i dont know know if i will see her, or should i just call her? IM her?

I really dont know what to say.
Should i just be like "hey how was your day?"(which i ask her all the time) or just confront her and say
"Do you want to go out with me?" Help!

2006-11-21 15:12:15 · 10 answers · asked by j 1 in Singles & Dating

Gadzooks.

I really enjoy it.

2006-11-21 15:12:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am to but what can I do for her? Like anything really sweet I can say to her to make her know Im there and I really love her. I know Im good at saying that kinda stuff but anything else? Like if this was your girlfriend, waht would you say?

2006-11-21 15:12:04 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I watched a true life special on tourettes and I was wondering what a person with tourettes is like in bed does it go away when they are having sex? And what is their orgasim like? I am being serious!

2006-11-21 15:11:08 · 4 answers · asked by BrownMorristown 2 in Singles & Dating

well i hav a bf named jc but his best friend derek liked me way b4 jc did but he nevr had the guts to ask me out so jc did an i liked him so i said ya but i still like derek an wat ever song wud be playin wile we were textin lik every time the song cums on it reminds me of him an i still lik him ALOT but im datin jc so idk lik derek always call me baby an sexy an lik i always say it back to him idk im SOOO confused rite now an i need sum GOOD ADVIXE PLZ HELP thx peace** u can IM me at quick_take_a_pic@yahoo.com kk lata

2006-11-21 15:10:21 · 1 answers · asked by beachlovr162 1 in Singles & Dating