There's this one girl, shes a freshie and im a sophomore, and i really like her, and i think she likes me. She's cute, and i always talk to her during 7th period because we sit next to eachother. When i touch her hand (yes i was flirting haha) she doesnt mind- she just smiles and lets me. I feel so alive when im with her-i really want to ask her out before thanksgiving break so i can see her during it (thanksgiving break starts on thursday, we get friday and the weekend off.) I know all about her family, she tells me everything and i just listen. I really like her and want to ask her out by tomorrow. What should i do? Should I ask her out personally (we only have 3 classes tomorrow, a "half day" at school) so i dont know know if i will see her, or should i just call her? IM her?
I really dont know what to say.
Should i just be like "hey how was your day?"(which i ask her all the time) or just confront her and say
"Do you want to go out with me?" Help!
2006-11-21 15:12:15 · 10 answers · asked by j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well I am a girl, so I have experience with this. Hint that you are going to ask her BEFORE you do it!! Just say something like "hey I have something important to ask you later" This prepares her so she kind of knows whats going to happen. Then talk to her FACE-TO-FACE!! This is really important because it shows her that you care and will not be awkward with her if she says yes. Girls are always afraid of losing a friend or making it "wierd" between them.
2006-11-21 15:18:41 · answer #1 · answered by jen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From a female perspective, ASK HER IN PERSON! It is much more personal than IM or on the phone, but remember, you will have to take a DEEP BREATH, RELAX AND DON'T TRIP OVER YOUR WORDS!
Another tip, talk to her alone, that way she isn't surrounded by her friends and may be more comfortable!
Oh, and do a breath check before hand, because bad breath is a MAJOR downside to anyone!
I am not promising a "yes" but from what it sounds like, that is the answer you will be getting!
Good luck!
2006-11-21 15:20:42 · answer #2 · answered by AllieAR81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow you seem really sweet. Well im also a freshie and having like the same thing happen to me. This one guy does the same to me as you do to her. If i were you I would ask her as soon as possible bc thats how i feel. She is probably just waiting for you to ask. I would ask her personaly face to face. It would mean alot more to her. And as for what to say? Hmmm im not really sure about that one. Just tell her you know i rally like you alot and i was wondering if you wanted to go out with me. i guess that would work but yea =]].
I really hope that helps.
2006-11-21 15:19:50 · answer #3 · answered by luvin_them_boys02 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The truth is alwyas best...just tell her "hey i'm starting to really like you, so do you want to hang out maybe go out over break sometime"
be upfront...dont be shy....shell be scared off if ur shy.....dont worry all will go well if you act confident....also say it to her face...and give her a flower...make it cute....cuz that way u could catch her by surprise...and knock her off her feet...and shell fall for u! :)
2006-11-21 15:18:59 · answer #4 · answered by as 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just ask her out tomorrow if she tells u everything thats means she trusts u and she likes u too.its hormones if u want to know.talk to herno IM or call this is serious walk up to her and say u want to go out.listion to me if she tells u stuff about like her family she likes u.
2006-11-21 15:21:03 · answer #5 · answered by bloo b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself and choose the most comfortable way to communicate.
2006-11-21 15:23:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
awwww young love, i a 12th grader, but i been throu so much, just kiss her, the rest will take care of itself
2006-11-21 15:18:00 · answer #7 · answered by Dark Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call her its easier to ask on the phone i just said want to be my gf
2006-11-21 15:15:39 · answer #8 · answered by ravensfan106 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask her out but keep it short so u wont bore her
2006-11-21 15:28:51 · answer #9 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask HER OUTTTT!!!!
2006-11-21 15:17:59 · answer #10 · answered by LA Baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋