What makes you run at the beginning of a relationship? If a girl painted you a painting would that freak you out? Is it better for a girl to act like she isn't that into you even if she is... what if she finds that really hard to do.
I believe that if I be myself.. a caring person that likes to do things for others I will meet the true person that loves that about me.. (or am I mothering and I maybe should act more cool and aloof??)
What do you think?
2006-11-21 15:16:24 · 6 answers · asked by Trudy Bell 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The best thing to do is not rush anything. That is what freaks guys out the most. You can paint paintings but do that kind of thing in moderation. Don't smother or be clingy. Resist the temptation to go all goo goo gaa gaa over him right off the bat. It isn't wrong to feel that way about someone just keep some of it under wraps for right now. If it lasts there will be plenty of time for that later. Just take a deep breath and relax. If you get some big bubbly surge of lovey dovey feelings just bite a pillow or write it in a journal. Don't call him and go "I looooove you much I don't know what to do!" Don't go to the extreme of pretending you don't like him either. It works for some guys but to others it is a turn off. Good luck.
2006-11-22 03:01:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can only assume that you painted a picture and he either didn't like it or freaked. In either case, don't waste your time, If you being you isn't recepted well, then you aren't with the right person. So it may not be that you are too mothering or too anything... it just may be that you aren't a good match. These are the subtle clues you probably want to pay attention to.
2006-11-21 23:23:32 · answer #2 · answered by Say it like it is 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never rush into a relationship. Dont appear to be desparate. Dont make any kind of rules or suggestion that frightens him. Dont order around but simply agrees on simple matter
2006-11-21 23:21:48 · answer #3 · answered by sonisunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no having a painting done would not freak me
its probably the little things that mean the most and make me wary of continuing --- snoring --- pets --- smoking
you will find someone to appreciate you -- i am sure of that
2006-11-21 23:47:46 · answer #4 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't try to be what your not be your self when the right person comes along it will all work out for you
2006-11-21 23:35:12 · answer #5 · answered by The gr8t alien 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I run like hell when she asks "What do you think?".
2006-11-21 23:20:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋