Family & Relationships - 21 November 2006

Can you help give me an outline of activities to do with the kids.....

2006-11-21 14:52:29 · 7 answers · asked by jan11322003 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I find it hard to believe

2006-11-21 14:52:23 · 17 answers · asked by RT 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband of 14 years has been away from home all but 5 months of the past 2 years "military" this last time was for 5 months. When he came home 4 weeks ago i could tell he was depressed. Then he found out he had to leave for iraq he was only home 3 weeks. 2 days after finding out he asked for a divorce that was a shock. He said he loved me and always would he just wasn't happy. When asked if he met someone he said no there was no one else. He just didn't want to be married anymore just unhappy. I convinced him to hold off his decision or discussion sence he was leaving. 2 days after he left i found evidence he cheated. Has never admitted to cheating just that he met someone. Is still having contact with her from iraq and has run up a huge phone bill i now have to pay. I love him so much and know that some of well most of our problems are me and really started when he deployed 2 years ago. I just need and want him back. We have 2 wonderful boys. Give me some advice

2006-11-21 14:52:11 · 12 answers · asked by chell 1 in Marriage & Divorce

he is my mom's cousin's son.when ever i go to my mom's parents house.if he sees walking alone on the road or any where else he just stares for a while and this time when i went to my mom's parents house we had marriage in our house and i was sitting on the chair and he was standing far away he stared like 5 mintes and when i look move head and look at him .he moved his face other way..he is marriedhe has a son too.

2006-11-21 14:51:24 · 15 answers · asked by mansi s 1 in Singles & Dating

my parents are seperated now and for thnks giving i was just gonna go w/ whoever my bro was gonna go w/ and i was actually thinking bout going w/ my dad because my friedns will be at where he's going but not where my mom is but i hate doing stuff when ppl try to force u to! he's like no ur coming w/ me u don't have a choice. and not only tht but he calls my mom 24/7 asks her where she is and what she's doing AND I SAID THEY'RE SEPERATED remember. even my mom said how she hates it when he calls (she wo't stand up for herself i'm surprised she moved away from him). and he would hardly let me have any freedom when we lived w/ him and would even in his house call us like he still does now. i hate him i really do he's been a jackass all my life to me (he used to slap me when i was 6 mtnhs) and would just constantly scare the **** out of me yelling over the house every single day. (you should see this guy when he's mad it's like he's gonna murder sum1) i don't wanna be under his rule 4ever

2006-11-21 14:50:37 · 11 answers · asked by mamama 2 in Family

I don't like it, and no I won't cut my precious hair!

2006-11-21 14:50:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have been married almost 5 years, living together for seven years, and together for 10 years total. no children, but a 80 lb golden retriever whom we acquired together when the dog was a puppy. my husband has an engineering undergrad degree and a MBA from a prestigious university. he earns 6 figures plus annually. i have been in grad school throughout most of our marriage and only working part time. he has paid the majority of expenses over the years. we have no debt and about $200K in assets (mutual funds, IRA, stocks, etc). we own no real estate. we live in nj, a community property state. if we divorce, will i be entitled to half of our assets. we have no prenup. i am a designer and make considerably less than he does. please advise. thanks.

2006-11-21 14:50:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

if you find yourself be a good man or women

2006-11-21 14:50:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it flirting when a guy messes with you physically (in subtle ways) and takes something that belongs to you (like a pencil) but is nice about it/smiles a lot?

2006-11-21 14:50:10 · 7 answers · asked by Lisa 3 in Singles & Dating

just want to know what types of monsters our friends really are.

2006-11-21 14:49:40 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Ok, so I just got off the phone with this guy that I just met. We talked for like two hours. I felt like I was being really boring. Is that to long to talk to someone one the phone after just meeting them? When I talked to him yesterday, he said he wanted to hang out with me today, but he never asked, we just talked. Well it was getting to be a long convo so I said to him, we need to hang soon. He said I was just gonna ask you that. So we set something up for Friday during the day because he works at night. Well anyway, my question is, how do I know if he is interested? I haven't done this in 2 years, so I forget how to look for those signs. My other question is, Is talking on the phone with a guy for the first time for 2 hours a turn off? I don't even know where we should go for the first time. Any suggestions? And now he is online and did not IM. I am so confused for what signs to look for. Sorry for all the questions, I just don't wanna mess anything up.

2006-11-21 14:47:51 · 17 answers · asked by KAB128 1 in Singles & Dating

This guy i no asked me out and i said yes the next day he was telling everyone at school i was his girlfriend (we r only in high school) before we even went on a date? Is it just me or is he going to fast?

2006-11-21 14:47:15 · 12 answers · asked by unlucky bubblegu^^ 1 in Singles & Dating

i get so nervous when i talk to boys!
help!

2006-11-21 14:46:27 · 5 answers · asked by ima sweetheart xo 1 in Singles & Dating

why on earth does a healthy, maybe not normal, adult male feel the urge to cyber when he lives with someone in a loving relationship,swear up and down he doesnt do it anymore and does it online the next day?? Why does the male get so detached and careless with this act on line? dont men understand that we women have real feelings ? And for you women out there you should think about the women on the other side for a change and who participate so unfeeling and shameless, shame on you im just old fashioned and cant approve of this concept of cybersex when you are not single and cant quit doing the nasty instead of doing it with the one you live with. Whoever invented the IM should be shot ,,,,,,,,,

2006-11-21 14:45:51 · 23 answers · asked by stacy x 1 in Singles & Dating

iam18 goodlooking having my own bike and mobile

2006-11-21 14:45:49 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-21 14:45:25 · 18 answers · asked by Kelly 1 in Singles & Dating

A few days back on the Yahoo News there was an article about dating and how similar it was to seeking God/Higher Power. If anyone knows where I can find it again, please let me know. I LOVED IT, sorry I didn't save it. Thanks, Maryanne

2006-11-21 14:44:59 · 2 answers · asked by Maryanne 2 in Singles & Dating

She better be at the price I'm paying...otherwise I want a 95 percent discount.

2006-11-21 14:44:22 · 18 answers · asked by Lucky L 1 in Weddings

Would the Methodist church or the Universal church perform a wedding without a state marriage license if the couple does not wish to obtain one?

2006-11-21 14:43:52 · 10 answers · asked by Mom of Marley 5 in Marriage & Divorce

We have only be dating for 2 weeks

2006-11-21 14:43:05 · 13 answers · asked by little_frog_matt 1 in Singles & Dating

victims in the sense that they were hurt from the one they really loved and are unable to move on...stalking is their way of dealing with the pain n letting go step by step...or are they ppl that went mental, are complete losers with no life? what do u ppl think about them?

2006-11-21 14:42:32 · 10 answers · asked by mery b 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend Norma Won't let me be with my other friend Stephanie. I never get to hang wth her all because of Norma .What should I do?!

2006-11-21 14:41:39 · 11 answers · asked by Alexis F 1 in Friends

So I've been invited to go to my boyfriend's friends (guy) grandmother's house, which will be ~a 3 hr drive. I've accepted the invite. My bf had forgotten to tell them that i was gonna go, but called and made sure that it was ok that i would go. however, i had previously promised my friend that I'd drive her to the airport to pick up her friends. Problem? Time conflict. My bf wants to leave on Wed night, and that's when my friend's friends will be arriving in the airport. And we were to go to dinner...all of us. He asked me if i could just go pick them up and not have dinner that night, but & reschedule. To make matters worse, he's to pick up his friends brother's girlfriend from where she lives and drive her to the same destination. Do I go with them?? or cancel and have Thanks\giving with my family and then go over to my friends? Also, I've promised to make pie for their thing (at the friend's grandma's house)...should i still make it and give it to him to take....???

2006-11-21 14:41:24 · 2 answers · asked by Snki55ed Princess 4 in Singles & Dating

that happened to me with my ex wife, she also had a child before we got married, so that makes 3 children, by 3 men, not her husband. i found out after we seperated and she started cheating. i took a paternity test and found out she had been cheating the whole time. my oldest daughter is four and youngest is 2. but because we are divorced i have no legal rights to the children i were with from birth, whom i thaught were mine. she wont let me see them. one moment i was married with children and now im single with none. it hurts but i know i'm very lucky because alot of men wish they didnt have children by there ex wives.

2006-11-21 14:41:20 · 9 answers · asked by Mr Goodbar 2 in Marriage & Divorce

how do i get known in the world w/my artistic talents...im not trying to sound snoby but i want to be an artist but my mom says artist only get crumbs so how do i get noticed so i can do what i love as my career w/good pay

2006-11-21 14:41:15 · 4 answers · asked by Groovy 3 in Singles & Dating

Describe as vividly as you can. And be honest, no romance novel crap.

2006-11-21 14:40:56 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-21 14:40:12 · 15 answers · asked by ♥Brittany♥ 6 in Singles & Dating

Im just bored and im curious.. my mom actually got married when she was 18 but they divorced a wihle later.. thanks and have a good night

2006-11-21 14:39:53 · 26 answers · asked by ? 4 in Marriage & Divorce

There is this girl who cancelled a date with me this past weekend....I was kind of pissed off, but now I want to give it one last try. What do you think of this......What if I jokingly accuse her of being mean, and then tell her that since she broke my heart and rejected me, she has to make it up to me by taking me somewhere? I''d be really sarcastic about the breaking my heart part....I know she'd laugh, since she has my kind of sense of humor....

2006-11-21 14:38:49 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ive never talked to guys on the phone.so i never answer when they call. what should i talk about?!

2006-11-21 14:38:40 · 6 answers · asked by ima sweetheart xo 1 in Singles & Dating