Family & Relationships - 21 November 2006

if its not to late, in anaheim,ca.

2006-11-21 14:10:27 · 9 answers · asked by lasilent71466 1 in Family

I told my boyfriend that i would love to get married July 7,2007 but he tells me that his friend is getting married that day and he ask him to be the best man. So we can't get married. What should I do. His friend is not even his best friend. His best friend already got married and my boyfriend was the best man. Do you think is fair if he picks his friend over me.

2006-11-21 14:09:53 · 57 answers · asked by needanswers 3 in Weddings

i went to a soccer game one night, with people not from my school. this girl came up to me and said, "my brother thinks you're hot, and wanted me to give you his myspace. he's too much of a chicken to tell you himself." and she gave me a piece of paper with a link and walked away. i didn't even know who he was. i went back home and added him, and he's REALLY REALLY REALLY attractive. he talked to me a little at first, and commented my pictures about how "gorgeous" i am and stuff. i get that a lot, not to be vain or anything. he asked for my screen name. i am only 14 years old, and a freshman. he is a 17 year old junior. BUT i told him i'm a 15 year old sophomore because i was afraid he'd think freshman are lame. he's kind of a little bit of a pervert, but all guys guys his age are so i'm not worried. he wants to hang out at the mall this weekend, and he just asked me on aim "do you kiss on the first date??"

i'm kind of nervous. how do i act? what should i say? what should i doooo?

2006-11-21 14:09:51 · 16 answers · asked by lia 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi Everyone, I would like to share something with all you people out there that is really hurting me. For about a month now, I have been liking this guy, one day I decided to tell him what I felt about him. He blushed/stutteres a LOT! and that was done!!!! Well the next day I found out that it was his dad's first death anniversary!!! Talk about wrong timing??!?!?! I sent him a very sweet sympathy email (which was very cute) just to tell him how strong he was and how i admired him, and if he ever wanted to talk I would be there! Well he told my friend that he would reply, but he never did. Now, I kept thinking oh well! he's probably very upset about his dad. **Today I found out that he and this girl have something going on** I cant help my tears, but any advice you feel will be helpful will REALLY help me!

2006-11-21 14:09:32 · 7 answers · asked by HAPPY <3 2 in Singles & Dating

im 18, she's 19, and she told me she wanted like $600 dollars worth of clothes from Hollister. i think it's too much and i want to tell her no but she has a way of making u feel bad if u dont. any advice?

2006-11-21 14:09:15 · 9 answers · asked by Alexzander 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-21 14:09:05 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

One of them is 9 and the other one is 5. They always fight weve trted putting them in the chair going in ther room but it wont work.Please give advise and something to do to them.

2006-11-21 14:08:50 · 16 answers · asked by bstump190 2 in Friends

There is this guy named Phabeo Padro the Great Spudinkskidink, but we call him PHilip. So this PHILIP guy is tall. He has really dark skin and thinks that football is soccer.He thinks that pigs can fly. He thinks that you should marry a cow(then tip them). He thinks that at Christmas the Easter bunny comes and gives him valentines.He has five llamas in his room and they all sleep in his bed with him. His friend Shemplinking Shinlifing Terestriealnumchuck black who is a sailor and only eats liver and is so freakin fhat. well one day we were walking down the street and they were holding hands and they steped on a yo yo and Phabeo Padro the Great Spudinkskidink thought that it was a donut and ate it. He went to the store and bought more he fed them to his llamas and they turned purple and green and were just plain fhat and obese. So he tried out for track one day and he was so fhat and he destroyed all the hurtles and brought them home and fed them to his llamas and well whayt should i do

2006-11-21 14:08:10 · 3 answers · asked by wimbwin 2 in Singles & Dating

thanksgiving and xmas use to be my favorite holidays but now i dread them i dont look forward to much of anything anymore.. i have had to go through so much crap in the past few years and i just think my plate is so full i cant deal anymore.. i have lost my dad. then a good friend killed herself and then i lost my very best friend suddenly of a heart attack we had lunch at 2 and by 4 she was gone also i have had to deal with my nephew who i raised as my own. his wife left him and took there baby that was my grand baby i was there when she was born and i baby sat all the time and then she took her and wont let us see her it has been 3yrs now. also my niece is the same way her mom left the state and took her too.. my husband drinks and is drinking more now then ever.. my kids are good they love me but they dont show me respect. they feel that they dont have to do anything around the house. every since my best friend died in 04 i cant get in the mood for life i try to be happy but i just

2006-11-21 14:08:03 · 4 answers · asked by crazyme 5 in Friends

What is your defintion of hooking up?

2006-11-21 14:07:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So thanksgiving is coming back around and my wife is wanting me to go spend 3 days with her at her parents house. Problem is though, her family makes it clear (Other than her mother) that they don't care for me at all. Truth be known, I feel the same way.

What should I do here folks, I really don't want to be around people who make clear they don't care for me.

2006-11-21 14:07:29 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Ive been dating this girl for awhile now. Im only her 2nd b/f shes only done sexual acts wiht one other person besides me. she has told me some of the things she has done to this other person. I want her to do those things to me. Instense lights on, shower, oral. She says shes shy. I compliment her body all the time. Ive never put her down or tell her shes done something wrong. She says its because of all the women ive been with. shes afraid shell feel stupid or ill make fun of her. I love having sex with her. but i dont want her to feel uncomfortable what can i do or say to help her over come this?

2006-11-21 14:06:11 · 7 answers · asked by m_f_hustler 1 in Singles & Dating

My 18 year old sister-in-law just broke up with her boyfriend of 3 years. We're having a hard time getting her to "be ok". Besides the obvious.. " You were too young anyway." What do we say? I understand that she needs to have time to grieve and be sad -- I just want to smack her upside the head at some of the stuff that comes out of her mouth.

2006-11-21 14:06:02 · 8 answers · asked by only 32 characters? 2 in Singles & Dating

A custody order exist from the state of North Carolina. It's been in effect since 1999. I recently moved to Georgia and my ex says I can't see my child until I have it switched. She will be 11 yrs old at the end of Dec. How old would she have to be, before she could choose which parent she wanted to live with? How do I go about this whole thing? My ex has not abided by the already existting court order as it is and hasn't for years.

2006-11-21 14:05:50 · 15 answers · asked by nicoleanderson111 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been dating this guy for like 2 yrs and during the summer my boyfriend Jim had moved down to Southern Cali. for his full-time job. I currently live in Bakersfield with my parents. For my 21st birthday this past weekend, I had drove to L.A. to see my b/f as well as stay the weekend. The thing was, after we had dinner and were on our way back to his place we got caught in a red light at a intersection. Not sure if Friday night had to do anything or the fact that Jim does drive a nice car, but a group of girls in a car pulled alongside my b/f's car at a red light. Instead of minding their own business, the driver got Jim's attention and the driver started shouting to him saying, "My friend here in the passenger seat thinks that you're this totally HOT! HOT! HOT! GUY!!" Jim kept talking to these gals like I didn't even exist in that whole event that took place. What would you girlfriends have done? And also, do you girlfriends think that Jim likes me like he says he does?

2006-11-21 14:05:46 · 15 answers · asked by Bobcat9 2 in Singles & Dating

I spank my kids. When I go in public my kids are the ones behaving themselves. I do think there is a limit between spanking and beating (A BIG ONE and if you beat your kids you should be in jail!). I think that the reason that kids are the way they are these days is because there not spanked!!!!!!!!!!!!! I belive that kids should have manners and respect thier parents. I would like to know other peoples points of view on this. I also feel sorry for all the kids out there that have no disaplin because even the Bible says if you don't spank your kids you don't love them!

2006-11-21 14:05:18 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My day has been going great!!! I got a raise at work and I got a tip and I honestly thought that my day couldn't get any better!... but then it did!!! My friend who I've been liking for a while asked me to be his date for the Christmas Formal!!!!! Now my day honestly can't get any better!! ahahha Can this is true?? Am I dreaming???? Is this too good to be true???? I think that he may like me too but I asked him and he said that we're only friends. Can he be hiding his feelings for me??? I agree to be his date, but am I agreeing to be more than just friends???

2006-11-21 14:04:57 · 6 answers · asked by azn_gurl 2 in Friends

My cousin moved to Bombay, India some years ago to fill the void left when my mother's grandmother died. Basically, she was a widow and needed a man to take over the estate. Well, while he was there he met a Zoroastrian maiden in her virginity and took her hand in marriage. After my great-grandmother died, his wife convinced him to put her in a Dokhmas (Tower of Silence). I found out from my husband that this looked like a open air medieval tower that the body was placed in and the vultures and elements taking away the flesh from the bones :( Icky!! Well, afterwards my cousin sold his estate and moved to Michigan with his wife and adorable children. Now they are coming up for Thanksgiving dinner and my mother still hasn't gotten over this. I mean it hurts me too, but I don't like to hold grudges :( I think his wife is also reading the Avesta to her children which mom doesn't like either. What can I do to help my mom be cordial to her?

2006-11-21 14:04:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Has anybody 'spoken up' as to why a bride/groom should NOT get married, or been at a wedding where somebody has done that? I see it in movies, but wonder if it happens in real life?

2006-11-21 14:04:24 · 11 answers · asked by Johnny 3 in Weddings

2006-11-21 14:04:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Okay. I've been married for a year, but my husband doesn't love me "as much" (his words) anymore. He's in the military, and we live apart so we can save some money. We don't talk much or see each other.

I love him, and miss him and I'm extremely lonely.

So I've been going out with friends everyday, and they introduced me to this guy. I'm not sure if it's because I'm that lonely/needy, but I ended up sleeping with him. I've grown really attached to him in a VERY short amount of time, but he's not that into me. His words: "I have feelings, but they're not strong like yours." AKA, he just wants sex.

I know I'm just trying to replace what I have/had with my husband, but I can't seem to stop thinking about this guy.

What should I do? What do you guys think about this? I just want honest opinions.

2006-11-21 14:03:57 · 26 answers · asked by Katy K 1 in Marriage & Divorce

There's this boy that liked me in throughout the 7th grade school year and then in 8th grade he liked me on and off.Now,in 9th grade some days he likes me and some days he doesn't.When people ask him if he likes me he says "no" but sometimes I catch him looking at me.Then sometimes it seems like he is purposely trying to ignore me in the hallway like I am not there.I just don't understand if he doesn't like me then he needs to stop staring or talking about me to other people.What do you think?

2006-11-21 14:03:39 · 8 answers · asked by heyeverybody 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-21 14:03:32 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and an older friend are suppose to be hanging out together this weekend together. (theres a 5 year difference) Were just friends, but my question is what should we do exactly?

Example: movies, mall, etc.

2006-11-21 14:02:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My ex only says a few little words to me at school after a six month breakup.

2006-11-21 14:02:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been married since July. A couple of months ago, my husband & I got into a serious physical fight. I thought my jaw was broke. Long story, short he ended up going to jail overnight. I don't believe in jail or police and didn't want it like that. He called my parents whom I had told the quick story to. They were nice, but wouldn't get him. His sister and mom wouldnt either. He won't speak to my parents now. He speaks daily to his sister. My birthday is Thanksgiving. He won't go because of this grudge against my parents. I feel bad. I want my husband to celebrate both holidays with me and my family. He doesn't care about family, but I do. Am I wrong to feel like I do?

2006-11-21 14:01:33 · 35 answers · asked by Amelia 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Specifically arm pits that are shaven and attached to arms that are in very good shape. I know this sounds dumb but its true and I cant stop wanting to....do thing...to these arm pits that Im attracted to. Any ideas???

2006-11-21 14:01:08 · 6 answers · asked by biggybig77 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm a 43 year old man but I look much younger. I'm in the process of getting divorced so I would like to start meeting women to converse with. I'm not looking for any type of commitment but I do have needs. I'm athlethic and into a vegan lifestyle. It's hard to meet people with similar values. I used to smoke and drink but I want to leave that lifestyle behind. I just want a good girl.

2006-11-21 14:00:27 · 14 answers · asked by Todd H 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-21 13:59:26 · 10 answers · asked by ..::xoxo::.. 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-21 13:58:41 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating