Family & Relationships - 21 November 2006

I have been with my GF for almost a year now, and she still has $23,000 in debt and all she wants to do is get married. I told her that is not possible until it is paid off. She works minimum wage and only pays the interest payments. To top it off I can't stand her family..her dad is a drug abuser/alcoholic and her mom is very confrontational and seems cold hearted. My GF lives an hour drive away from me so I only see her on the weekends. I feel like I am wasting time being with her. How do I nicely move on and start a new life without her? I don't want to hurt her feelings. What should I do?

2006-11-21 13:42:45 · 18 answers · asked by zephyr_0_8 1 in Singles & Dating

I constantly find myself thinking about him....how can I make it stop?

2006-11-21 13:42:32 · 6 answers · asked by texascomet 4 in Singles & Dating

swear like a sailor?

2006-11-21 13:41:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i was on a ralation ship with a girl and we loved each other a lot,,,
we left each other for about 4 months,,,cuz we had problems

after 4 month i told her that im sorry and i need another chance
and that i still love her,,,and i asked her if she still loves me

she said that she changed just like i did,,,and she doesnt hate me,,
and she knows how much i suffer,,and she will help but as a sister ,,and she told me to forget her,,,and to stop talking with her cuz she will have a lot of problems,,,and she asked me to forgive her too,,,

guys do u think that there is any hope for me and her?
do u think that she still love me or no?
and do u think that love (realtion ship0 can be converted to a friendship only?

and thanks

2006-11-21 13:39:32 · 15 answers · asked by jony103 1 in Marriage & Divorce

GIRLS ONLY TO ANSWER - if you are a boy and you answered this IQ it would seem that you are better of without a dick anyway if you didn't get - GIRLS ONLY

2006-11-21 13:39:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Recently I've read a few stories about peoples first time sexual experinces and how it seemingly changed them. Sometimes, for some people, it did little to change their personailties. Other times the person's personality went through a radical change--they would shuck all their morals and start doing all kinds of crazy things including cheating and having multiple sex partners. I also remember people from my past that went through a similair transformation. I even lost a few friends (guys) who no longer found me friend material over this. I haven't had this experience and it may be different for me because of my age (old virgin here) but I was wondering what people here thought?

2006-11-21 13:39:16 · 7 answers · asked by InvicibleStar 2 in Singles & Dating

Recently I've read a few stories about peoples first time sexual experinces and how it seemingly changed them. Sometimes, for some people, it did little to change their personailties. Other times the person's personality went through a radical change--they would shuck all their morals and start doing all kinds of crazy things including cheating and having multiple sex partners. I also remember people from my past that went through a similair transformation. I even lost a few friends (guys) who no longer found me friend material over this. I haven't had this experience and it may be different for me because of my age (old virgin here) but I was wondering what people here thought?

2006-11-21 13:37:55 · 16 answers · asked by InvicibleStar 2 in Singles & Dating

This was my first time being slapped by someone how do i get revenge?

2006-11-21 13:37:22 · 12 answers · asked by qtmckinnon 2 in Friends

2006-11-21 13:36:56 · 9 answers · asked by acrucesalus07 1 in Friends

Last weekend my bf came in on sunday after being at his mates having a drink all night,before i had a chance to say anything to him he asked me if i`d marry him,i said no,not because i dont want to but because i thought he was just asking to butter me up and so i wouldnt argue with him for staying out,(i do know he was at his friends!)Anyway we have been together for 6 years and have a 4 year old son,we split up during the summer for 6 weeks but decided to get back together.he always said he didn`t really want to get married so i`m wondering if he was being serious.I have asked him when he`s going to buy my ring jokingly and he said he`ll need to go shopping and surprise me and propose properly,is he being serious or is this just a typical man thing to do?

2006-11-21 13:36:44 · 15 answers · asked by onlyme 5 in Singles & Dating

okay i asked him out and he said no... okay fine

but today was his birthday and he gave me a hug and i gave one back and after that he kept on talking to me

why did he gave a hug to me....

2006-11-21 13:36:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am not interested in Macy's parade, or in a dinner date. Everything seems to be closed.

2006-11-21 13:36:41 · 2 answers · asked by dans 1 in Singles & Dating

idk wat to get him

2006-11-21 13:36:34 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I mean on girls.

2006-11-21 13:36:18 · 11 answers · asked by anne 1 in Singles & Dating

a picture as your background to your 360 page?

2006-11-21 13:35:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-21 13:35:31 · 26 answers · asked by Kitty 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

there is this guy that i just brock up w/ but i think i still like him but hes going out w/ another girl what should i do

2006-11-21 13:33:23 · 23 answers · asked by alexis n 1 in Singles & Dating

I mean..why are butts so important to you? Are you a butts or boobs guy? and Why?

2006-11-21 13:32:57 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

do you like to maried a police offecer

2006-11-21 13:32:30 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, im 16 and i just got a girl friend, how do i know whats to much, like when can i start kissing, and now do we start holding hands, stuff like that please help

2006-11-21 13:31:37 · 8 answers · asked by Need Your Help .. Need Mine? 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is an aspiring actor; likes pro wrestling, classic rock music, quotes, reading, anime, making his own radio shows for his radio class, Shakespeare; and he's a romantic and really sweet.
I don't know what to do for Christmas... I want my gift to be heartfelt. I was thinking of doing some kind of memory book or photo album or something, but I did something kind of like that for his birthday a couple weeks ago.
Any ideas?

2006-11-21 13:31:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm dating a guy and I miss him like crazy. I last saw him Sat night and he hasn't emailed me or anything since then and it is now Tues night. Does he not miss me? Is he trying to play it cool? Is this what guys do? We have plans to see each other again and everything, but I just want him to say hi or something.

2006-11-21 13:31:06 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Heres the deal i have had a crush on this guy in my chemistry class we were friends and stuff hanging ot talking. Then one day i told him i liked him but he said he already got girlfriend. so after a while i lost intrest in him. then on thrusday he gave me his number and he was asking me if i was single, basically he was flirting with me. Then all those old feeling were coming back. i called him on friday he said he'll call me back but never did. then today i was walking home from school i see him walking with this girl then when i took a second glance he kissed her i was soooo heart broken. Can anybody make me feel better because i think i'm acting like a idiot

2006-11-21 13:31:02 · 10 answers · asked by lovejessyloot 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating this guy for two years and I just had a baby by him and he started to treat bad when I was 4 months and he felt that he didnt need to do anything for me when I was pregnant cause the baby wasnt here yet. And now all he talks about is how much money everything is costing. When all he gives me is a 100 a week which is even a dent in his paycheck.

2006-11-21 13:30:13 · 16 answers · asked by ChrissyAdelanto 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

if a guy cant decide if he wants to get into a relationship with u but says he does love u...(doesnt show it thou if not around u)...if u tell him ur giving up on him will he realize what he lost and try to ome back? did this happen to anyone? or will he just move on? what are the possibilities of him coming back...be honest ppl

2006-11-21 13:27:49 · 17 answers · asked by mery b 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-21 13:27:29 · 8 answers · asked by Jay-Dee S 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-21 13:27:13 · 7 answers · asked by David R 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I later find out he has four!!!

2006-11-21 13:26:15 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Well it seems like everytime i like a guy they don't ever make a move is it because they don't really kno i like them or is it becasue i'm not attractive and wat can i do to get my point across with out embarrasing myself if he doesn't like me back

2006-11-21 13:25:04 · 19 answers · asked by CONFUSED 2 in Singles & Dating

I invited these two girls to my bday party whom I somewhat like and 30 minutes before the party I call them to check on them and they tell me they cant come because one of their friends (my ex) is having a bad day and she really needs them. I was pretty pissed off but at the time I didnt feel like pushing them. After the party they call me and say that their friend is gona and they wanted to hang out. I find out that my ex was kicked out of the house and i somewhat understoond them. I dont understand why they didnt just tell me right away cuz it would have been totally cool if they come with their friend (my ex). Shud i be angry still?

2006-11-21 13:24:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends