if a guy cant decide if he wants to get into a relationship with u but says he does love u...(doesnt show it thou if not around u)...if u tell him ur giving up on him will he realize what he lost and try to ome back? did this happen to anyone? or will he just move on? what are the possibilities of him coming back...be honest ppl
2006-11-21 13:27:49 · 17 answers · asked by mery b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends on if he really does like / love you.
I had a boyfriend that I gave up on after a month. I was putting in too much effort and I broke it off. He realized what he was missing out on and told me later that he regretted what he did and apologized a couple months later.
I'm not with him though. I'm with someone else. Too late...
But to answer your question, it's possible.
If you already feel like you've given this guy too many chances, just let him go. If he likes you, he will regret it. Just let him realize that on his own, and don't be wasting time on someone who makes you feel like an option when you make him a priority.
2006-11-21 13:33:54 · answer #1 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"if you love someone, set them free" a song we've probably all heard..
it sounds like this guy has some sort of problems.. either he is confused about what he wants, or he is afraid to make a commitment.. or could be he is using you and that he has someone else on the side.. who knows?
telling him you are giving up on him will send a message to him that he has to make up his mind one way or another..
i don't think there is any way to guarnatee whether this will make him love you and commit, or if it will make him run away.
i've set a few free over the years.. and in the end, none of them came back! it was sad, but it was the only way to know for sure if they were they rights ones for me or not..
2006-11-21 21:33:38 · answer #2 · answered by Jeff 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether or not he comes back is not the point. The point is, if your guy isn't treating you with respect you should break up with him. If he does come back, make it clear that you'll only get back together if things change. If he doesn't, well then he wasn't the one for you anyway and you need to move on to someone who knows how to treat a lady.
2006-11-21 21:33:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes he will come back and sometimes he won't. You have to be willing to accept whatever happens, even if it hurts. It's happened to me both ways. If the guy just needs space to think and sort out his emotions he might come back. But he might also be afraid of how strong his feelings are and leave because he can't handle it.
2006-11-21 21:31:56 · answer #4 · answered by braennvin2 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think it is a 50 50 possibility. in order words don't take chances. what makes u think he will come later if he don't come now. if u tell him that, he would b scared to come back when/if he does make up his mind and eventually move on. if he does love u then there is no need for him to come later. put pressure on him. let him come to his right senses now. good luck.
2006-11-21 21:41:01 · answer #5 · answered by sweet143 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all. If he loved you then he would be with you. So from experiance he don't love you. He just likes you. So don't worry about him. Move on and find someone who show and acts like they love you. If they loveyou they would tell the whole world that they love you.He seems like he is ashamed of it. If it was me I would tell him to hit the road. He will; fcome to grips withit and relaize that he did loose someone he really cares about. He will change and show you all about love. Good Luck.
2006-11-21 22:20:14 · answer #6 · answered by Ready G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly, it depends. if he cares about you he will make effort and he will come back. some guys will come back for sex only. you have to be careful. actions do speak LOUDER then words. just remember that. dont wait on someone who doesnt care for you. trust me, it isnt worth it.
he could also be scared of commitment. email me i have a link on my page. i can really help you if you would like.
2006-11-21 21:37:29 · answer #7 · answered by Mary 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens, but there are no guarantees if that's what you're hoping for. Seems as though they want what is no longer so easily available. Then by that time, you probably won't want to put up with those games anymore.
2006-11-21 21:33:14 · answer #8 · answered by SlapHappy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him let him go. If he really loves you he will realize what he has lost and come back.
2006-11-21 21:31:50 · answer #9 · answered by d b 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
to be honest it is a 50 50 chance that he will either one. it just depends on the guy. if you are waiting on him to come back then you havent gave up on him and he might sense that
2006-11-21 21:32:40 · answer #10 · answered by jumiboo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋