Heres the deal i have had a crush on this guy in my chemistry class we were friends and stuff hanging ot talking. Then one day i told him i liked him but he said he already got girlfriend. so after a while i lost intrest in him. then on thrusday he gave me his number and he was asking me if i was single, basically he was flirting with me. Then all those old feeling were coming back. i called him on friday he said he'll call me back but never did. then today i was walking home from school i see him walking with this girl then when i took a second glance he kissed her i was soooo heart broken. Can anybody make me feel better because i think i'm acting like a idiot
2006-11-21 13:31:02 · 10 answers · asked by lovejessyloot 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are not an idiot ! ! ! ! ! This guy is leading you on especially since you revealed your feelings toward him.. He is the IDIOT because you sound like a sincere person and it is his loss not yours. Don't be heart broken because you can't miss what you never had.
2006-11-21 13:46:07 · answer #1 · answered by Neetaa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay.. everyone's been there. I've acted like an idiot a lot of time in high school over guys that I don't even remember their names now..lol. Its funny how things then are a big deal but years later you'll realize, what was the point of all that drama I put myself through, especially when you realize that the guy is a loser. I can't say that guys get better with the playing games part, but they do get a little more mature if you pick one that's truely right for you. One that wants you and only you and when you find that someone you'll know, cuz' they'll have eyes for only you.
Hope this makes you feel better :)
2006-11-21 13:37:30 · answer #2 · answered by tnhenderson_83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you are acting a bit like an idiot, but that is OK. The guy is not a nice person, seems to me maybe he was lonesome for a day and a 1/2 and you were available til his gf got back to town. Feelings can get pretty mixed up can't they kiddo, hang tough you'll be OK.
2006-11-21 13:37:26 · answer #3 · answered by picture 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not an idiot you just were taken advantage of, girl never let that happen to you he probably did that on purpose. You should go in front of him and rip up the # he gave you (just if anything ever happens write down the # some where else first), if he actually liked you it will totally faze him. Good luck.
2006-11-21 13:39:53 · answer #4 · answered by Emochick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just think of him as a walking cave man. Once in a while a cave man needs to come out to a civilized world to get some fresh air and on that same day, you happen to be around.
No you are not an idiot, he is.
2006-11-21 13:38:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why did you come to the conclusion that he was flirting with you ? maybe he was asking if it was OK to be your friend ? I'm married but i have many male and female friends but i always ask the girls if they have bf so that there's no misunderstanding and if they do i ask if i could meet them as well . i just like to make all kinds of friends that's all . but if you feel played then listen to your heart . you just saved yourself some pain . and I'm really sorry that a jerk tried to play you . but don't worry others will be coming your way soon .
2006-11-21 13:46:43 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your feelings are natural. You are not an idiot. Write him off... I will not say do not speak with him but be wary of his actions and intentions. I think you need to move on and be happy being single and when you meet the correct guy, you will know it as he will adore and appreciate you!
2006-11-21 13:37:19 · answer #7 · answered by Todd Maz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time when he gives you his number don't call him. Let him do the calling.So when he gives you his phone number give him yours. Let him make the first move so you don't get hurt. Then see what he says and does. Then you will know if he is sreioous. Then if he isn't it will make him look lide a big fool. Good luck.
2006-11-21 14:08:31 · answer #8 · answered by Ready G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a bit of a player to me. You could do much better and I dont think you should waste any more time on someone who can just play with someone elses feelings like that.
2006-11-21 13:37:02 · answer #9 · answered by AussieHel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at least u didnt make any wrong step...
just b a good lesson.. & wake up from his dream..
he just wanna test u whether u still like him or not..
some guy(like him sxxxka) normally will do that nuts things..
is he tat goood?? if he's, he wont break ur heart in 2..
just drop tat gabbage... go for the next guy tat x1000000 better than tat Gabbage..
2006-11-21 13:43:43 · answer #10 · answered by Rosia R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋