I'm in love with a gangster and i dont know what to do because i need him?

Answer 1

then yours will be a life of tears. you will be second in his life, after his gang. he will treat you nice in private, but like sh!t when his boys are around. he will lead two lives, and you will be his rest and recreation, in addition to the other women he will see on a regular basis. gangsters are only cool in their own heads, and the heads of people like you.

if you want safety, and a tough guy, why put yourself in danger just to do it. unless you follow the "keep your enemies closer" idea I wouldnt follow through on this infatuation.

gang life isnt cool, and it is the pits for the "women" involved, as you will find out soon enough.

I have spent long years with gangs, from street gangs through to biker gangs, and not once have I seen a women treated like they were loved. as an associate I had more influence than the wives and daughters of members. women are second class, even less than the pit bull on duty at the gate. it is not the life to follow because you think you love someone, because that will only go one way, and you will never be treated with an equal amount of respect or love. love is full time love, not only in private, but everywhere, around anyone. I was in that scene for the parties, and easy women. none were treated like they should have been. I grew up, but many never. many died through recklessness or suicide, or were killed.

get out before you get in.

dont fall for the talk, as the walk is VERY different.

Answer 2

Gangster usually implies participation in illegal activities. There is a little thing called a consipiracy law. If you are aware of a crime and fail to report it ; you then become part of the act and thus accountable. Keep staying with this guy and when he eventually gets busted and your name and number shows up ; you will fast become part of the interview process and could receive a sentence as well. So, ask yourself how much do you need him?
Enough to do time too?

Answer 3

You don't need a gangster. If you were my child I wouldn't let you date a guy who is in a gang. You need to find a guy who knows what they want out of life. Getting hooked up witha gangster will get you into trouble. Get out while you can and search for someone better.

Answer 4

Why do you need him? To risk your own life every time you are in public? Or at home?
Thats what the gangster life is - a risk.

Are you in love with him, or the lifestyle he can provide?

Answer 5

I know you believe that you need him, but you actually don't. You won't be able to change him, or rescue him from his ways. You probably believe that if you love him enough, & care for him enough that he will see what he is doing to himself & to you is wrong, & he will instantly turn his life around.

WRONG!

You are with him because you choose to be. If you don't accept his gangster ways, then you are going to have a future of sadness & disappointment. Now you DON'T NEED THAT.

Answer 6

First, please be careful. That sounds dangerous. I think that you and I both need to learn that we don't need anyone but ourselves... I'm very bad at that. My questions are all "resolved," but I'm still not sure what to do... Just compare all of the advantages and the disadvantages. If the bad outweighs the good, then you should probably get out. If you want to email me, feel free. This will take careful consideration.

Answer 7

If he's a hardcore gangstar then don't bother because u will have a lot of drama with tha hoodrats, u won't be able to kick it anywhere because of other gangs.U would have to kick in his hood or at / in ur house. in other words don't waste ur time with someone who don't believe in living, enjoying life.

Answer 8

You don't "need" him, you "want" him. Quit using words like "need" because that makes it sound like you have no choice. Once you realize that you are in control of your life and the choices you make, you'll know what to do.
You need water, food, clothes, shelter.....You don't "need" him.