Do you think having sex changes a person?

Question

Recently I've read a few stories about peoples first time sexual experinces and how it seemingly changed them. Sometimes, for some people, it did little to change their personailties. Other times the person's personality went through a radical change--they would shuck all their morals and start doing all kinds of crazy things including cheating and having multiple sex partners. I also remember people from my past that went through a similair transformation. I even lost a few friends (guys) who no longer found me friend material over this. I haven't had this experience and it may be different for me because of my age (old virgin here) but I was wondering what people here thought?

Answer 1

Maybe the people who changed were not all that stable to begin with, sorta like they were searching for something or they didn't have a great self image, then they had sex and thought they had found the answer to their void. It is also like taking that step into something you know you should not be doing, then once you do it, feel like, what the hay, I've already messed up, why stop now. I admire you for staying a virgin. Save it for marriage, you will not regret it, but please don't marry just so you can have sex. (know what I mean?)

Answer 2

it probably depends on the situation.. if you have sex for the wrong reasons, then you will probably regret it for the rest of your life, hence it will change you in a negative way..

if you have sex for the right reasons (whatever they are based on your own personal values), then it should change you in a possitive way..

it may or may not change you, but it will certainly be a memorable milestone event. it's sort of like a right of passage.. the one thing all human beings have in common, is sexuality. it is something we can all relate to.

will sex make you wild and crazy? perhaps.. but not necessarily make you want it with multiple partners..

some people want casual sex.. others only want sex with a serious loved one. these are values that we all have as individuals.. i don't think losing virginity will change those values.

but if you do something that goes against your own values, then you will likely live to regret it.

you need to decide what condition you need to be met in order for you to be ready and comfortable with sex. it shouldn't matter how old you are.. don't let age change or compromize your values..

as far as losing friends? well, true friends should be able to accept each other regardless of sexual values or morals.

Answer 3

When a person finally does have sex they activate or trigger a whole new set of hormones to run rampit throughout their body. This is the reason such drastic changes both physically and mentally occur in people after their first sexual experience. I think that your smart, very smart, for observing this in people and when your time does come, I think you will have the ability to maintain control over your self during and after.

Answer 4

I don't think it's the act of sex that changes them, it's the reason why they chose to have sex. If you do something that goes against your personal morals, standards, it will change you. Doing it because of peer pressure, or because your boyfriend/girlfriend pressured you, sexual abuse, those things will change you. If your start having sex because you are involved with someone that you love and who loves you in return, I don't think it will change much about who you are....but if it does, it's for the better.

Answer 5

It depends on the person and how they are before they undergo sex. Some folks are so scared of sex that when they finally have it, they go nuts and hide in a cave somewhere. Others have sex and feel liberated and free and in truth that is how one should feel when they have sex. (provided they can please the opposite sex correctly) Hope that was some food for thought for ya.

Answer 6

Yes, I think it alters one's perspective. I don't know about any radical fundamental changes in personality, but I'd say that the experience does alter one's outlook on life.

Answer 7

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Answer 8

Of course it does, only before marriage anyway...which is why I am keeping my virginity until marriage. Sex changes girls more than it changes guys...I would think.

Answer 9

yes, it changes a person -whether on the outside or inside

Answer 10

Probably