Last weekend my bf came in on sunday after being at his mates having a drink all night,before i had a chance to say anything to him he asked me if i`d marry him,i said no,not because i dont want to but because i thought he was just asking to butter me up and so i wouldnt argue with him for staying out,(i do know he was at his friends!)Anyway we have been together for 6 years and have a 4 year old son,we split up during the summer for 6 weeks but decided to get back together.he always said he didn`t really want to get married so i`m wondering if he was being serious.I have asked him when he`s going to buy my ring jokingly and he said he`ll need to go shopping and surprise me and propose properly,is he being serious or is this just a typical man thing to do?
2006-11-21 13:36:44 · 15 answers · asked by onlyme 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He wasnt drunk when he came home and he did look quite genuine i suppose,i think he thinks if he has a wife/fiance it will settle him down a bit but i dont know if it will as we`ve been living together for about 5 years now and he hasn`t changed much.
2006-11-21 13:47:15 · update #1
it is kind of a man thing but i would wait for him to ask you again and if it dies down than you need to ask him wat was up. but wait like 2-3 month
2006-11-21 13:43:59 · answer #1 · answered by cool cat2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you bring the night up again, and ask him if he was being serious or just drunk. If he says he doesnt remember than say that thats what you thought. But if he says he was serious, tell him that you thought he had a bit too much to drink and was just trying to butter you up so thats why you said no. And that you would for sure marry him if he was serious and had a ring ready and did it the right way.Tell him how much he means to you, and I am sure he has plans in the future for that ring!
2006-11-21 21:41:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your bf did not propose dog wonder. It sounds like you are hoping that he will but any guy that asks a woman to marry him when he is plastered drunk is not playing with a full deck nor is he to be taken seriously. Good for you for saying no! Yes, he needs to propose properly and maybe he will but you have been together for six years and he has not yet... Don't hold you breath...
2006-11-21 21:44:30 · answer #3 · answered by Todd Maz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you will need to sit him down, and calmly ask him, the night he asked you to marry him, was he being serious. Because the reason you said no was because he was out drinking you thought he could have been drunk lol...
But do tell him, that you love him and if he is serious that of course you would marry him.. I wish you both happiness
2006-11-21 21:43:16 · answer #4 · answered by Tiffany B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is something that he's never joked about before more than likely he's not going to start joking about it now. Congratulations. I think?
2006-11-21 21:40:51 · answer #5 · answered by Sexcchick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have any doubt at all, he was just kidding around. When guys propose for real, there's no ambiguity about it.
2006-11-21 21:41:53 · answer #6 · answered by dukefenton 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you will find out the hard way, if he proposes again he is serious and if not well, move on
2006-11-21 21:41:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion he is telling you what you want to hear. Tell him to smarten up or you will dump him, and really do it.
2006-11-21 21:41:00 · answer #8 · answered by janine b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what you think he did...if you think he was sincere then he was...if not then don't mention it again and move on. You decide.
2006-11-21 21:41:28 · answer #9 · answered by Ofie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHat, after all these years, you still are clueless?
2006-11-21 21:41:07 · answer #10 · answered by Tander 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋