what is wrong with me?

Question

Well it seems like everytime i like a guy they don't ever make a move is it because they don't really kno i like them or is it becasue i'm not attractive and wat can i do to get my point across with out embarrasing myself if he doesn't like me back

To answer ur question reaganontherock's
i don't talk alot but i'm not quite so i'm in between

I'm a little shy when it comes 2 boyz i like

and yea well i used to flirt with this guy alot and then we started talking on the phone and stuff then all of a sudden we stopped and don't talk as much in the halls so i'm a little confused i mean i want to talk to him but i don't wanna be annoying so i figured he would talk to me if he liked me so i stopped talking to him just saying hey and stuff but my plan failed and know we hardly talk

Answer 1

Well, I had the same problem I think it is about self steem, I'm sure u r attractive, everybody is but u don't believe it, when u start believing in ur sex appeal, guys come by themselves, believe me. Don't tell me u r not happy with ur body, hair, skin, etc, etc because all of us have the same problem LOL Just feel pretty enough to be liked by somebody and work with ur inner self, beauty really comes from inside, when u feel comfortable with urself it reflects and people start looking at u in a different way. Maybe some guys won't like u but it doesn't matter some others will. We all fear rejection but think what is the worst that could happen if a guy rejects u, will u die? will everything u love disappear? Noo!! So ... if someone rejects u he is losing the opportunity to meet the nice girl u are but first u must be aware how nice you are. Kisses.

Answer 2

Well in the right situation you can just go up to the guy and say hey i like you and would like to get together with you sometime for coffee or what ever. Hand him your # or E-mail written on a peice of paper and then walk away. The ball is in his court now and you have done a big move and did not embarrass yourself because you walked away and there was no time for something bad to happen. Good Luck

Answer 3

You actually answer your own question facing the embarrassment! it go's both ways! Most men fear the rejection, either your not displaying enough emotion to your liking! or your lacking the communication of your interest in whom your wanting to advance with.
Thus putting us men in an awkward situation ''should i ? or shouldn't i? We rather be safe then sorry therefore we don't want to face rejection!
However I'M one of the rare and few men that has 100% confidence in myself I definitely would make the first advancement
unfortunately that never happens due to my charming personalty the girls are all over me!...
By any means i didn't answer your question correctly? At least I made you laugh several times...

Answer 4

I am sure that you look just fine, and that shouldn't be your concern any way. Do you flirt? Do you send any signals to the guys that you are avaliable and interested? Do you even talk to these guys? Were not living in the dark ages any more, its perfectly normal for you to approach strike up a conversation. Just don't throw yourself at the guy, be a modest flirt, smile alot, play with your hair, try to do something that will get him to focus his attention on you.

Answer 5

You need to make your feelings known but in a subtle way. You should start by talking to him alot. But make sure hes doing the talking and your doing the listening. Also be sure to laugh at his jokes even if they arent funny because every guy thinks he's the funniest man on earth. Then ask him for help with stuff that you dont really need help with. Us guys like to think that we are so smart and brave so if you can make him feel like he's your hero then that will score you big points. Be sure to make eye contact with him EVERY time you guys talk face to face. Smile alot and flip your hair. If he doesnt ask you out then just ask him out. Tell him you think he's so cool and funny and you would like to get to know him better.
What to wear on the date: Listen, women spend way too much time picking the"perfect" outfit to catch his eye. There is one "mancatcher" outfit that every woman keeps in her arsenal that will get him everytime: THE LITTLE BLACK DRESS. The label dont matter, as long as its short, and tight in all the right places it will knock his socks off. I myself have fallen victim to this and i have been with her for 9 years.

Answer 6

Do you make a move? You have to put yourself out there and take a little risk. Sure, you might get a little embarassed, but if you're dealing with someone you don't see too often, what do you really have to lose?

Answer 7

Here's the thing~You said every time YOU like a guy they never make a move. Key word "YOU", therefore, when you like someone, then you act on it. You can't expect someone you like to make a move on you if you have not done anything.
You sound like a shy person, but that's ok, cuz' so am I.

Answer 8

well i dont think its right to base a relationship on looks anyways. it shouldnt matter what you look like. but i will say this god dont make anything ugly. there is beauty in every thing he created. try smiling and flirting just a little. then if he still dont respond just let it go. dont let anyone make you feel ugly. because you are beautyful. dont seem to desperate when flirting. just be cool. it will happen if its ment to be. good luck and god bless you.

Answer 9

We'll for starters you need to make alittle more of an effort....show him your interested in him not just attracted to him...try starting a conversation with him.....if the conversation last longer then 2 minutes you might be in luck....if not there's always the convent.

Answer 10

try to flirt with him . that will let him now or hint that you like him. if you have enough guts, tell him how you feel. maybe the guy is shy and he needs you to make the first move!