Family & Relationships - 21 November 2006

Everyone has a bad breakup story. My problem is...he never broke up with me. I have been in love, dating, this guy online for nearly four years. W agreed he would come home to me. But just as the dat ewe arranged rolled close by, he stopped showing up. It's been over a month since I've heard a word from him.

I tried contacting him everyway I possibly could. But he hasn't checked his email, voicemail and won't answer his phone. He left me without a goodbye. So now I often sit in denial. Confused about how..or if I'm supposed to move on.

Not once in the time we were together did he hint he would leave, or want to leave. The last words e said to me, were "It's almost time to come home, I can't wait! Things will be perfect soon."

Only he can answer the question on why it's hapened this way.

I'm asking you how I move on. How I leave the pain behind. If I'm supposed to let go of my feelings for him.

2006-11-21 12:53:40 · 13 answers · asked by Echinate 2 in Singles & Dating

meaning...you like pain..you get off on it?
or atleast know of a site where there are some people
id love to visit a site made for masochists..cuz i am one..are you?

2006-11-21 12:53:23 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok there is this guy at my bowling leage and i had one of my friends ask him if he liked me and just smiled then the next week he started to say goodbye to me.Then the next week I gave me my
number and he gave me his now saturday is coming up and idk
if i should call him? and i dont know what i should say to him like should i go up to him and go hey ya didnt call me. omg idk. please give me some goooood tips and ideas cause i really like thi guy.
THANK YOU!!!

2006-11-21 12:52:40 · 8 answers · asked by ashipaila 2 in Singles & Dating

I am chasing some ideas for little things that may add to the fun of getting ready the morning of the wedding. We have to go to the Hairdresser and Make up artist, I though about taking champers with, so we could all have a drink while we are having our hair done. Any other ideas? Please help, its this weekend.

2006-11-21 12:52:30 · 5 answers · asked by Jess B 2 in Weddings

rFirstly, please do not just preach at me. I am not religious and do not see marriage as a holy sacred union, and neither does he, therefore any answers in this vain are entirely irrelevant for us.
Things have been happening between us for about 4 years now, although he is twice my age, we were attracted to each other instantly. We have become great friends, confidants. I tell him absolutely everything about my life, and vice versa. He comforts me and listens and advises and cares about what is going on with me, more so than anyone else I know. We do not see each other often, as I have moved away, but when we do, it is wonderful to catch up. Neither of us want any kind of monogamy from each other. In fact, we mainly talk about our other relationships with each other...his with his wife, mine with boyfriends how they are going, what we are feeling etc. There is no jealousy between us, nor just lust, but an extremely deep understanding, would it be wrong if this carried on forever?

2006-11-21 12:52:09 · 8 answers · asked by WildWildHeart 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My friend has been talking to this guy and she really likes him and he says he likes her. but after texting back and forth for a while he siad he was at the movies and would talk to her later. but it was a monday at like 830 and not alot of people go to the movies with their friends on school nights. do you think its possible that hes still with his last girlfriend?

2006-11-21 12:51:49 · 4 answers · asked by Lauryn 2 in Singles & Dating

Wat is love? how do u know u in love?

2006-11-21 12:51:35 · 10 answers · asked by molly 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-21 12:51:30 · 6 answers · asked by k_briggs3 1 in Family

Alishia Hoag if you see this message, answer this question.

2006-11-21 12:51:03 · 1 answers · asked by Sarah 2 in Friends

When I was dating my last girlfriend, I would get an erection just from holding hands, looking at her straight in the eyes, and giving her a kiss when I said goodbye. Its very annoying because im not thinking about having sex while doing any of those actions. I REALLY dont want this to happen tomorrow because ill be at a water park tomorrow wearing a bathing suit which is really hard to hide it with. If you guys could give me some ways to hide it, or not get it at all I would be super happy. Thanks

2006-11-21 12:50:50 · 31 answers · asked by youshouldbedead 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband is in the marine corps. He has been physically abusive 3 thimes in the last 4 months. I have not reported this b/c he is an MP and I didn't want to stop the support we recieve from his income having 2 small children. (the children have never witnessed the physical abuse) But now that I'm ready to leave he claims he will get help. My question is if I file for legal seperation will the military help me get home (I'm 2100miles away)? I cant afford it on my own and I'm afraid to stay. i am sad to even come home from work these days. Am I trapped or is there help somewhere?

2006-11-21 12:50:40 · 5 answers · asked by me&onlyme 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Alright, so I started dating this great guy about 3 weeks ago and he has invited me to his friends Wedding ( that he is the best man in) on the 2nd... I'm completely lost when it comes to what to wear... what color?... should I change for the reception? if so what should i wear to that?

2006-11-21 12:49:32 · 7 answers · asked by football_crazy_62 2 in Weddings

what if i like somebody else, but i am with someone and so is she . but what if both of us are not comfortable with our parteners. the only problem is that she has a kid with her bf and i am friends with her father ( i am younger than she is ) what to do?

2006-11-21 12:48:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-21 12:47:17 · 4 answers · asked by mahi 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i want get people to think i'm cool, want to be my friend and get attention from everyone (guys, girls, teachers)

2006-11-21 12:46:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

some look so pretty while young but become so undesirable as soon as reaching age 50.

2006-11-21 12:46:23 · 26 answers · asked by noble 1 in Family

I mean..he's totally gay!

2006-11-21 12:46:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i was wondering if my aviator makes me look like a bad guy or an asshole
just wanna know what you think

2006-11-21 12:45:57 · 16 answers · asked by hector c 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-21 12:45:49 · 8 answers · asked by eddiemail2005 1 in Friends

My fiance wants me to have a white gold 1 caret solitaire ring but I like the plain gold better. Which do you think will look best? I have light skin. Does my ring have to match his? Is it ok for his wedding ring to be white gold and mine to be plain gold?

2006-11-21 12:45:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Well, at school there is this boy and he is mean to me. Everyone thinks he likes me. I like him but I'm not sure if he likes me. Help?

2006-11-21 12:44:46 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i know this guy and i dont know if he likes me. my friend heard him talkin to his friend sayin he liked me. but when my friend went up to ask him to find out if it was true he said idk. i c him every where i go and when i talk to him he fidgets w/ everything and turns red. i c him lookin at me everyday and when i look at him he turns away fast and then i look somewhere else he looks at me again. does he like me or not?

2006-11-21 12:43:58 · 45 answers · asked by shorty195 1 in Singles & Dating

Has anyone tired ramen noodles with coca cola? You should try it. It tast the bomb.

2006-11-21 12:43:50 · 21 answers · asked by Michael J 1 in Singles & Dating

He is working in a very stressful environment and so I try to accomodate the fact that he is tired most times. We do not live together and therefore we are not afforded night and morning times together. I have tried to tell him over and over that I will make time for him if he asks for it because I also work long hours. It just feels as if we are only friends communicating now and then. I try to understand his problems but at the same time I just don't feel as much interest as I think I deserve.

2006-11-21 12:43:45 · 13 answers · asked by Cutie E 1 in Singles & Dating

I am in US . I am getting my MBA . I met wonderful , kawai , sincere Japanese girl here . We fall in love and now living together . She is also in school . Her mom is very hostile and calls me gaychin (foreigner). I have noticed that she tries negatively influence my girl . I do love her and wanna get married and settle down as soon as I am done with my MBA . How can I change her mom’s attitude ?

2006-11-21 12:43:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

okay ther's this guy I've known (and liked) him since I was five. he's three years older that me and we (and a group of friends) hang out everyday during the summer. my friends told him I like him, but I'm not sure he belives them. i guess I'm kinda cute, but he's HOTT! what should i do? Help please!!!

2006-11-21 12:42:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is this coworker that I get along with really well. We really get into flirting with each other and some light touching. We also get into deep conversations about everything. I am not saying that I am falling in love with this person but there seems to be this deep connection that I have never had with another woman before in my life. We have alot of similarities in life. We both have custody of our children, we were brought up in single parent homes with 3 siblings and not much money, we seem to have the same views on just about everything. HOWEVER, HERE IS THE PROBLEM. She is engaged. 6 months ago when she first started she was always talking about how her and her bf were going to get married and have a child together. Now she never brings it up and she seems to hint at maybe them not being together forever and that I have to be patient. SHOULD I APPROACH HER ABOUT THIS DEEP CONNECTION I FEEL WITH HER? HOW DO YOU KNOW WHEN SOMEONE IS THE "ONE" FOR YOU?

2006-11-21 12:42:22 · 1 answers · asked by Dustin27 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

if a zebra has no stripes, but born a zebra, is it still a zebra, or is it a horse?

if a leopard,born a leopard,has no spots, is it still a leopard or is it a lion?

i say that they will be whatever they were born :zebra, not horse, leopard, not lion, but my friend thinks the opposite..well i told her, thats like saying: if sarah had no freckles, she would still be sarah! Tell me who is right , because we bet 5 dollars on the line! plus, you will get free 2 points!

2006-11-21 12:41:47 · 14 answers · asked by xxdolphingirl92xx 2 in Friends

He has helped me through a lot of trauma in the past but he has outlived his usefulness to me.
I now move in better circles and he is a bit of an embarassment, how do I ditch him without causing myself too much stress.

2006-11-21 12:41:17 · 24 answers · asked by PSP 3 in Friends

Well this girl is a friend of mine back in HS...now after 6 yrs we have seen each other again..we dated 15 times already .We do kiss now like FK..but she hesitates to be with me because of her priorities????
Like career and afraid of another heartache ???/coz she experienced so bad relationship before I came....anyone..???/help

2006-11-21 12:40:50 · 12 answers · asked by Riddick 2 in Singles & Dating