what if i like somebody else, but i am with someone and so is she . but what if both of us are not comfortable with our parteners. the only problem is that she has a kid with her bf and i am friends with her father ( i am younger than she is ) what to do?
2006-11-21 12:48:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
do whatever you may think is right...but for me, that girl is not meant for you...
2006-11-21 15:35:29 · answer #1 · answered by isaiah 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you both are unhappy then you need to let go of your relationships and move on.
You know so what if shes got a child.
You need to be honest with the person taht you are with and this other women needs to be honest aswell.
Nothing good comes out of lying and sneaking around.
2006-11-21 12:53:10 · answer #2 · answered by Mellisa C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a sticky spot... the first thing you should both do, if you are going to act on what you feel for eachother... break up with who you're with. As far as the kid.... well lots of kids grow up with more than one house hold now... really the the two of you have to figure out what you want to do. good luck
2006-11-21 12:53:13 · answer #3 · answered by NewMommy!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you both see yourself having a good future together, you should both leave your partners and get together. You should be willing to accept the responsibility of being a mentor to the child because being with her means being in her child's life too. It's a bigger responsibility being with a single parent because if you leave the parent, you run the risk of really hurting the child.
2006-11-21 12:54:13 · answer #4 · answered by got_chii 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since both of u are not comfortable with your partners, it's time to split up......u can't cheat on the other person about your feelings as it's unfair......u'll hurt the other party even more.....so, unfortunately it's the best solution unless u two try to forget about your love.....if u two wanna continue your relationship, she should be responsible about the kid.......discuss the issue with her bf n' then decide.......good luck
2006-11-21 12:54:42 · answer #5 · answered by Marijuana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all since she has a kid then u have to make sure that u would be serious in that relationship cuz she's gonna want u to love her kid as much as her and that you'll be responsible for that. think about it before u break her heart make sure ur ready to be serious
2006-11-21 13:03:40 · answer #6 · answered by Groovy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All i see on the horizon is bitterness and resentment- and you will never be able to trust her if you became a couple and she had another male 'friend'. There's gotta be someone else.
2006-11-21 12:56:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounss like lots of problems
i would stay away from that situation
2006-11-21 12:52:43 · answer #8 · answered by Bren 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What? Try to explain to us what you are talking about when you have figured it out!
2006-11-21 12:54:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
follw ur heart. Life only happens once...
2006-11-21 12:52:30 · answer #10 · answered by me&onlyme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋