He is working in a very stressful environment and so I try to accomodate the fact that he is tired most times. We do not live together and therefore we are not afforded night and morning times together. I have tried to tell him over and over that I will make time for him if he asks for it because I also work long hours. It just feels as if we are only friends communicating now and then. I try to understand his problems but at the same time I just don't feel as much interest as I think I deserve.
2006-11-21 12:43:45 · 13 answers · asked by Cutie E 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why cheat? there is no need for that. break it off if your going to do something like that! Men often get distant when they are busy with work and other stuff, you cant take it to heart. but if this is not how you want to be treated you need to get out, bc if he cant make time for you now do you really think hes going to change? its hard to change people. get out.
2006-11-21 12:48:23 · answer #1 · answered by Stephanie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should tell him about your feelings... but don't cheat it is unneccesarry... if are going to cheat instead break up with him... save yourself the guilt and him the pain of being cheated on... You could try to find time on weekends or in the middle of the day to meet for a romantic lunch really quick or a sneaky midday trip to a hotel for a quickie together... or even try sleeping over once or twice.. most importantly though if you want to make it work with him tell him how you are feeling... and that you need more.
2006-11-21 12:49:53 · answer #2 · answered by NewMommy!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well don't cheat on him, break up with him if you really think it's not worth it to continue! First consider how long you think this situation will last and how worth saving the relationship is, if you can find a way. However it doesn't sound to me like you love him all that much so in that case you should just move on.
2006-11-21 12:51:43 · answer #3 · answered by mj_indigo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If his situation was like this when you started dating him then you knew what you where getting involved in and accepted it.If you truly care for him then waiting for him to be able to be with you is your only option but if you can no longer deal with his ways have the decency to break off the relationship before looking for new interests. Cheating on anybody is wrong and does not speak too well for you.
2006-11-21 12:51:26 · answer #4 · answered by hjbergel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sort of had this same thing happen, but he was in college and needed more time for studying, 1st he started by hanging out everyday , then it went from everyday to everyother, then it went from everyother to every weekend, I-like you told him Im willing to make time-but our time got smaller and smaller, then for one whole week he didnt call, I tried to call him ,text, email, he wouldnt answer me for NOTHING. so I went to his house and broke up( not saying you should) but he STILL hasnt called me back or talked to me since I went over to his house and maybe my old guy did that to slowly break it between us, I dont know I never got a direct answer, FXCKING MEN!!
2006-11-21 12:52:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are considering on cheating then its time to move over.... if the relationship isn't working then change it.....
You are not married yet, and he doesn't have time... think after you get married for sure he isn't going to pay any attention....
My advice... Dump him
2006-11-21 12:48:14 · answer #6 · answered by Miguel G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't cheat on him. Cheating is for skanks and whores. Be an adult and break things off. Find someone who works better for you. Don't be a cheater.
2006-11-21 12:47:54 · answer #7 · answered by two_kee_kees 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but NO ONE, deserves to get cheated on. leave him, he sobviously is not ready for commitment, but dont cheat on him. that is just to messed up.
2006-11-21 12:48:24 · answer #8 · answered by bball4ever_07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then break up with him and move to someone who deserves you
2006-11-21 12:45:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't stoop to being a cheater, just break up with him and move on.
2006-11-21 12:48:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋