Well this girl is a friend of mine back in HS...now after 6 yrs we have seen each other again..we dated 15 times already .We do kiss now like FK..but she hesitates to be with me because of her priorities????
Like career and afraid of another heartache ???/coz she experienced so bad relationship before I came....anyone..???/help
2006-11-21 12:40:50 · 12 answers · asked by Riddick 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sweetie, why fix something that isn't broken? you said you're dating her and it sounds that both of you are having fun without the commitment. so why ruin it? if she's not ready to commit, then you have to respect that. you know where she's coming from, so you should understand already. the best way to win her heart would be to patiently give her the time and the space she needs for her to realize she wants to be with you only and you to be with her and nobody else.
2006-11-21 12:47:15 · answer #1 · answered by Bubuchachum 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Prepare a nice picnic for her and while in private explain to her that you want to be with her no matter what. Have a serious heart to heart. But make sure it is just the two of you in a beautiful place. Take her to a lake, beach, moutain whatever is around and bring flowers and lunch. Just sit and talk about life and where you want things to lead to. Show her you are there for her and you will not leave. Don't leave that spot until she feels comfortable with you and your relationship. Let her know that here career is important and you back her 100%! Good luck and remember to be secluded!
2006-11-21 20:49:23 · answer #2 · answered by Blondie98_01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it time. Let her know that you are here for her and that you are here for the long hall. We've all been hurt in some past relationships remind her of that. ( Lie if you haven't)
Be strong and mean what you say.
If you want to be with her then let her know that you are soooooo
willing to make sacrifices for her to help her with her career if need be.
But most importantly don't loose sight of who you are and what you want as well. Always be true to your self because if you are not happy you can not truly make someone else happy.
Hope this helps... And Good Luck
2006-11-21 20:47:22 · answer #3 · answered by Mellisa C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her a little nit of time to realize (and maybe even tell her) that you are not the last guy and what he did you will not do. mostly i would just say stick around and show her that your interest is not fading, and that youre not going to hurt her (unless you are in which case leave the poor girl alone) and over time maybe she'll warm up to the idea of you and her again... a broken heart takes some time to mend... and you don't know for sure how serious they were at their best moment.
2006-11-21 20:45:47 · answer #4 · answered by NewMommy!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first you got to tell her you love her. You have to prove to her that your not like the other guys that broke her heart and no matter what happened to her you always love her Cause she the perfect person 4 you and your the perfect person for her. You got to show that you love her. Not just say i love you and walk away. you got to look into her eyes and say it like you really mean it. well i hope my advice help!! good luck!!
2006-11-21 20:47:47 · answer #5 · answered by Fallen Angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it slow, and build her trust. Don't push for more than she's ready to give.
Support her decisions and be there for her when she needs a hug. Just SHOW her how much you care....
2006-11-21 20:44:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you show her (not tell her) that you are not like the other guys, and you can maintain that level of honesty, she will come around and give you a chance.
2006-11-21 20:45:48 · answer #7 · answered by dannyg11us 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it time let nature roll
2006-11-21 20:44:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be patience,and be honest with her.In time she will see this in you and come around.
2006-11-21 20:44:18 · answer #9 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
become her close friend and build a relationship until she is ready.
good luck ;-)
2006-11-21 20:43:40 · answer #10 · answered by Olivia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋