I have been dating this guy for two years and I just had a baby by him and he started to treat bad when I was 4 months and he felt that he didnt need to do anything for me when I was pregnant cause the baby wasnt here yet. And now all he talks about is how much money everything is costing. When all he gives me is a 100 a week which is even a dent in his paycheck.
2006-11-21 13:30:13 · 16 answers · asked by ChrissyAdelanto 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Dont walk away run !! and dont ever look back
2006-11-21 13:38:41 · answer #1 · answered by nitenurse 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this guy has a problem, and hes making you have a problem by being with him. Now you need to just look at the bad and not the good times. That guy you loved is now gone, and now your stuck with this asshole. You need to get away from him, and talk to a lawyer he needs to pay a lot more than that for child support. You can do this on your own. I have a friend in the same boat, and she thought she couldnt do it by herself, but later saw that she is a much stronger girl and she is getting plenty of money and things are just working out great. You will be able to do what you want still with your life, but first you need to look after your baby and yourself, by leaving this man and starting over. Go for support by calling support lines, just look it up on yahoo. And talk to family and friends, they will be there to help you through it. You will be a much better woman for this, and you will be stronger.
2006-11-21 13:36:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone else it is easier to get over someone when you someone else to get them off of your mind. Get someone who will treat you with the love and respect you deserved to be treated with and put him on child support when he thought $100 was bad wait until he sees what they will make him pay or if you don't want to put him on child support let him take care of the child for a week or two by his self and make him buy everything the baby needs and let him see how much it really costs
2006-11-21 13:41:34 · answer #3 · answered by just anotha chick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It want be easy. But you need to do it.Don't let anyone treat you like that. You are better and need someone to treat you like a queen. Until you find that guy tell the rest of the to take a hike. Just keep looking and then you want get hurt. If you was my child I would take care of it for you. I wouldn't let someone do my daughters like that. I wopuld blow a gasket. My husband would tell the guy in a heart beat and tell there parents just what type of guy there child really is. So dump him and look for the king you would like to be his queen. You will feel so much better about your self and others will see just what type of guy he really is. Good Luck.
2006-11-21 14:13:13 · answer #4 · answered by Ready G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be better for your child if you get out of a relationship that is unhappy. If you stay your child will see that mom takes "abuse" from dad and he/she will see you unhappy. Love is not supposed to make you sad, unhappy, and feel unappreciated. Please don't sacrifice you and your childs long term happiness for a man that is not ready to take on his responsibilities. Things may be bad at first when you leave but they will get better. Maybe your baby's father needs some time to grow up and see that he has created a beautiful family that he needs to cherish and take care of. Make sure you surround yourself with people that will help you and encourage you(parents, friends....etc.) God Bless!
2006-11-21 13:43:00 · answer #5 · answered by SpeedygirlGT 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband would not take care of you badly when you consider which you like him, he treats you badly because of the fact he would not have healthy relationship skills (neither do you) and you reside when you consider which you do no longer experience such as you're worth airborne dirt and airborne dirt and dust. So in case you choose for to be happier, and in case you choose for to be taken care of extra suitable, discover a self esteem team or circulate to counseling and learn what you choose for. looking out which you're efficient and worth treating with admire will experience plenty extra suitable and existence would be stable.
2016-11-26 00:01:29 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man these guys now days just pee me offf badly. sounds like this guy is totally irrisponsable. well atleast he is working. but love is not suppose to hurt hon. just walk away. dont never never put yourself or your child in the position to be treated badly. always stand strong and keep your chin up. never and i mean never let him see you fall. give him an inch and he will take 2 feet. just walk away. but make him pay for his child. tell him to keep knocking that dent into his paycheck for his child and you and his child will be happy and he can go his way.
2006-11-21 13:39:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must love yourself first and your baby it will be hard but if he treats you bad how long before he dose this to your child??? it's better to get out than stay and find out the hard way if he loves you he will try and prove it to you you can always go back but you can never undo something if it goes wrong the baby is # 1 on your list much love to you two and hopefully 3 happy gobble gobble day
2006-11-21 13:38:14 · answer #8 · answered by rradboys 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him. move in with family if you have to, but get out.
File the proper paperwork for child support and he will have to support the child.
Remember that your child may not yet understand what is going on, but will see this and grow up thinking it is normal.
2006-11-21 13:34:32 · answer #9 · answered by toobusytostress 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first, try to work it out, and if he is treating you badly then thats not love. walk away, and u will find a good guy who will treat you like youre supposed to be treated.
2006-11-21 13:33:48 · answer #10 · answered by Danigirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave when that person is not here find a house with out him knoeing and then leave and dont give him your address or phone # talk the baby and leave AS FAST AS YOU CAN
2006-11-21 13:36:24 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋