I invited these two girls to my bday party whom I somewhat like and 30 minutes before the party I call them to check on them and they tell me they cant come because one of their friends (my ex) is having a bad day and she really needs them. I was pretty pissed off but at the time I didnt feel like pushing them. After the party they call me and say that their friend is gona and they wanted to hang out. I find out that my ex was kicked out of the house and i somewhat understoond them. I dont understand why they didnt just tell me right away cuz it would have been totally cool if they come with their friend (my ex). Shud i be angry still?
2006-11-21 13:24:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You might as well get use to people letting you down... try to move on and ignore the little stuff... If they had went to another party or something like that... that would be a reason to be mad... they did call and ask to hang out... so don't be angry... just cautious... next party... if they don't show let know... zero invites from then on... and give 'em a big smile...
2006-11-21 13:32:26 · answer #1 · answered by Sandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I wouldn't take it too personally. They were protecting their friend and they were protecting you. You may be fine with the ex hanging out, but she may not be so comfortable. They didn't tell you right away because your ex was probably right by the phone when they canceled the plans. Tell the girls you were disappointed you didn't get to spend time with them, and they owe you one.
2006-11-21 21:33:16 · answer #2 · answered by that girl 47 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no don,t be angry just think of this as a lesson to you so just be friends with them and next time call 3 days before
2006-11-21 21:39:42 · answer #3 · answered by lonelygirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write it off. Why would they tell you, she was probably standing right there when you called.
2006-11-21 21:29:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls will stick together, that's just the way it is. Let it go.
2006-11-21 21:28:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no u should not be mad at them at all. girls need their gfs at times when boys wont understand. get over it.
2006-11-21 21:37:33 · answer #6 · answered by <3 Emmi_rox <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it is over now
2006-11-21 21:28:31 · answer #7 · answered by Bren 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes...
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2006-11-21 21:29:04 · answer #8 · answered by c g 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well depends on how you feel about this,
2006-11-21 21:30:01 · answer #9 · answered by Double A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2006-11-21 21:29:16 · answer #10 · answered by Cutie P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋