Ive been dating this girl for awhile now. Im only her 2nd b/f shes only done sexual acts wiht one other person besides me. she has told me some of the things she has done to this other person. I want her to do those things to me. Instense lights on, shower, oral. She says shes shy. I compliment her body all the time. Ive never put her down or tell her shes done something wrong. She says its because of all the women ive been with. shes afraid shell feel stupid or ill make fun of her. I love having sex with her. but i dont want her to feel uncomfortable what can i do or say to help her over come this?
2006-11-21 14:06:11 · 7 answers · asked by m_f_hustler 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
know when the chemistry is right and the mood and try and not talking about what your going to do next just do it
have candles lit try and be romantic not feeling like she's being forced into anything
rent a couple good movies to watch (not porn) but like them feel good movies
good luck :)
2006-11-21 14:12:40 · answer #1 · answered by ♥♥girl♥♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both are too immature to be doing this stuff. Maturity has confidence behind it. The talking about what she's done, could just be hype. You are insensitive and disrespectful. There is no honor in your relationship at all. If sex is all you want, then seek out a hooker who can fulfill your every fantasy! Not to mention empty your soul! Let's not forget the $'s and your health!
2006-11-21 22:20:37 · answer #2 · answered by believer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you want someone to tell you how to better take advantage of a girl and get your jollies off her? Well, if you ain't got it, you ain't got it. Based on your chosen name on here, I'd say you ain't got it.
Sincerety builds trust with a real woman.
Sue
2006-11-21 22:09:58 · answer #3 · answered by newbiegranny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep being positive and supportive. Also be patient. Give her a chance to build trust in you, and she will let you know when she's ready to take it to another level.
2006-11-21 22:13:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I probably just takes a while.
2006-11-21 22:11:31 · answer #5 · answered by Gunmetal Grey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just give it time it will be better if you wait for it and want it it will...be very enjoyful lol
2006-11-21 22:11:21 · answer #6 · answered by hot carl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be honest...tell her what u think...
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2006-11-21 22:08:52 · answer #7 · answered by c g 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋