im 18, she's 19, and she told me she wanted like $600 dollars worth of clothes from Hollister. i think it's too much and i want to tell her no but she has a way of making u feel bad if u dont. any advice?
2006-11-21 14:09:15 · 9 answers · asked by Alexzander 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she already has plenty of clothes from there
2006-11-21 14:10:07 · update #1
$600 of clothes from Hollister is too much, in my opinion. a sweet gesture would be to get her a shirt or an outfit from Hollister that she really liked... a $600 shopping spree would be her taking advantage of you.
if you want to let her down gently, just say that you want to save the money to do a lot of special things with her, instead of just spending it all at once. or if it's heading this way: you could tell her that you're saving up for something really special for her (like a ring or a trip). but don't use that excuse if you're not really saving up for something special for her.
or if you don't want to sugar coat things, tell her that $600 worth of Hollister clothes is a bit excessive to ask of you and that she can get a job where she can pay for it herself. if she's making you feel bad about it... ask her if she wants you to struggle with paying your bills.
this sort of demand makes her sound like a manipulative gold-digger...
2006-11-21 14:19:39 · answer #1 · answered by nc ashley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your girlfriend has the nerve to ask for so much, she is really money hungry and not worthy of a good boyfriend! If she likes to make you feel bad, she is not a good girlfriend and you should reconsider your relationship with her. Tell her you are unable to spend so much and that you would like to put a limit on gifts and focus more on spending time together. If she pouts, dump her and find someone who wants you for you, not what you can buy her.
2006-11-21 14:14:19 · answer #2 · answered by schweetums 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
600 hundred bucks worth of clothing! Kick her to the curb.
2006-11-21 14:33:07 · answer #3 · answered by Iron What? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump the ho. She's only in it for the money. A real gf would rather you keep the money and not expect or even ask for anything like that.
2006-11-21 14:13:52 · answer #4 · answered by Meagan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DAMN!!! i would so dump her but it looks like u really care for her. well tell her she is pressuring u to do what u dont want and its way too much money and money doesnt grow on trees
2006-11-21 14:17:22 · answer #5 · answered by Groovy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is your budget? Tell her your budget. See what the two of you can compromise.
Now, if she is the irrational kind. Be sneaky, don't tell her the truth directly, but in same time don't tell an outright lie.
2006-11-21 14:30:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh. sounds like she only wants you for your money i'd get out of the relationship if i were you
2006-11-21 14:17:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should say alright ill give u the 6 hundred but im going with u to shop and see if thats wat she is really spending it on i mean dude its hers and urs if u guys r serisous
2006-11-21 14:16:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say no! and don't let he convince you!
2006-11-21 14:14:06 · answer #9 · answered by Bekah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋