that happened to me with my ex wife, she also had a child before we got married, so that makes 3 children, by 3 men, not her husband. i found out after we seperated and she started cheating. i took a paternity test and found out she had been cheating the whole time. my oldest daughter is four and youngest is 2. but because we are divorced i have no legal rights to the children i were with from birth, whom i thaught were mine. she wont let me see them. one moment i was married with children and now im single with none. it hurts but i know i'm very lucky because alot of men wish they didnt have children by there ex wives.
2006-11-21 14:41:20 · 9 answers · asked by Mr Goodbar 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
She is an evil wh#re, at least you are out of that cruel relationship, too bad for the children though...
2006-11-21 14:46:55 · answer #1 · answered by Thomas 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well she has no morals and or respect for herself, you or those kids. She is what we call a common WHO** . I think that you are better off and deserve to find someone that will have respect for you and will love you for you. I know that you are sad about losing the kids but maybe one day when you find the right woman you will be able to have children of your own/ And she needs to take herself to some clinic and get her stuff tied shut. you should also be grateful that you do not have to pay child support for kids that are not yours to begin with, some states still make the father pay even though the kids are not theirs. It sounds as though you would pay if you had to. I wish you the best and think positive something good will happen to you, you are a good person to want to see the kids still...
2006-11-21 16:18:43 · answer #2 · answered by melissa052572 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel so sorry for you on this, for a woman to do you like that and make you think those kids to be yours. That does make her out to be a tramp from heck. She has no respect for herself at all. Just a cheap tramp is all she is. You are so much better off with out her.
There is a woman out there that I know that has your x beat though. She had 10 kids and only 2 of those have the same dad and that was only because they were twins. This woman is also my bf's x gf. One of those kids that she had is my bf as well and he now has custody of that son as she lost all the kids that were still home (5 of them). Don't get me wrong on this, they were together and split up before him and I got together.
2006-11-21 15:31:27 · answer #3 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is so unfair for a woman to try to ,make a man think this your children and knowing along they aren't. The next time just be careful and I believe I'd find out if a woman told me she is pregnant with your child. explain to her what happened to you before and ask for paternity test. It might really upset her but after your experience , she should understand.
2006-11-21 14:56:23 · answer #4 · answered by Nicki 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you....I dont know how people go around having all these kids with all these different men. Its a shame that men go in and out of these kids lives and the only ones that get hurt are the kids. I am single also....div. with 2 kids. I do not bring anyone home to meet them.
2006-11-21 14:49:32 · answer #5 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sorry dude, for you and the kids. Some people just ain't right. You ARE lucky to come out of that with your head still straight. I salute you, sir.
2006-11-21 14:59:28 · answer #6 · answered by johnnydean86 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry for you and the kids that you've been a dad to. What she's done is unfair to you and her children. Hopefully, you'll find a woman that is devoted to only you and has only your children.
2006-11-21 14:47:28 · answer #7 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
RSG put on your running shoes and run like hell and don't look back! You are fortunate she has no hooks to get you to pay her alimony.
Don't blame the children for they are innocent of her cheating. I feel for them and so should you!
2006-11-21 15:03:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
she a very bad women and you should be glad that situation is over.
2006-11-21 14:52:26 · answer #9 · answered by jumiboo 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋