I had just finished exercising at the YMCA and headed to the gym to take a shower. I was in a great mood..all those endorphins running through me. Well there was this guy in the shower and man..his body reminded me of this buddy I used to know back home. It was like he was my buddy! I went up to him and tried to talk and be friendly and complemented him on his muscles...I think men like hearing that. Anyways, I am totally not gay though but I patted him on the butt and said it was nice meeting him. He hasn't spoken to me since. Was this a bad idea?
2006-11-21 15:21:23 · 5 answers · asked by Lucky L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Dontcha think it was?
2006-11-21 15:26:17 · answer #1 · answered by bellbottombleus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Patting a guy on the rear in a gang shower was very inappropiate. That might have been OK back in the 1950s when people assumed that homosexuality didn't exist and male bonding permitted that sort of behavior. But we don't live in the 1950s. (This is the second time I've answered one of your questions with a reference to the 1950s.) As someone who avoids gang showers like the plague I'd be wary of anyone wanting to socialize in one.
2006-11-23 21:25:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah it was a bad idea. And why do you ask so many questions that have to do with the gang shower? You are gang shower obsessed and you might actually have a propensity to fabricate stuff based on what I saw in your questions history!
2006-11-22 06:52:59 · answer #3 · answered by Chris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup! Based on his reaction I guess it was a bad idea. Next time be more careful coz not all men think the way you do
2006-11-21 23:25:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its bad making friends at all remember this famous speech
A FRIEND IS YOUR ENEMY A ENEMY IS CLOSER THAN A FRIEND YOUR BEST FRIENDS ARE YOUR ENEMYS
2006-11-21 23:30:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋