i wish i wouldnt threat about the little stuff- me and my bf would have NO fights whatsoever!
we especially fight during PMS.. what can i do so i wont be too impulsive and yell thing i dont want to yell.... they make no sense but at THAT moment, i feel i make a lot of sense...
does anybody agree?
is there any way to control this?
2006-11-21 15:20:39 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
do u think a relationship would last more if those little, useless fights were non existent?
2006-11-21 15:21:18 · update #1
Hells yeah! that's annoying. You know that saying "don't sweat the small stuff" is true, don't make a big deal over everything, but do make a deal about things that really mean something to you or are big deals, otherwise, none of that other stuff is all that important.
2006-11-21 15:25:31 · answer #1 · answered by Say it like it is 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Heck yes a relationship would last longer if you didn't fight so much. Me and my husband never fight and we have many different views. I've seen so many people fight over such stupid stuff like a man leaving the toilet seat up. My husband leaves it up- but I see it this way. If I walk in and put it down then he has to walk in and put it up. Why is it right for me to yell at him? We both have an equal amount of work to do at that point. Put mind over matter my dear or else no your relationships won't be any good in a few years. There's no way to control YOU you need to think about what you're doing and that if you love your boyfriend you can discuss things like adults. And not push any buttons to make him angry. And as for PMS- my husband doesn't know when I get my period because I don't believe in being moody at the time- yes you can control that. Just because you have a few cramps here and there does not mean the world is coming to a stop and it is not his fault that eve ate that stinkin apple to make you have those cramps. Mind over matter. Women have used PMS as an excuse to bring out the ugliness in her for years and it's just ridiculous.
2006-11-21 15:29:55 · answer #2 · answered by momofthreemiracles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls over react when you are jealous but that same time you are trying to tell your partner look, I love You so much and willing to care for you but why are you making me to be foolish and you are betraying me at back. It also makes you all feel that you have worn your partner and telling them look, the next time you do that, I am out of your life. Anyhow, when you did that, you might have a scare of yourself thinking, what happens, if he really dumps me out.
2006-11-21 15:27:02 · answer #3 · answered by THILLAI a 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes its frusturating and annoying actually gets to a point where I can't help but start laughing when she fusses over nothing thats when **** really hits the fan. God I love you women...never a dull moment I swear.
2006-11-21 15:34:39 · answer #4 · answered by BluLizard 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah i would start to hate that too...i would probably have to get out of that relationship if someone kept fighting with me about NOTHING really...its called self-control. you need to calm down, breath, and think for a minute before you open your mouth...
problem solved!!
2006-11-21 15:27:04 · answer #5 · answered by Awesome girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with number 1. There is no need for life to be this difficult. =(
2006-11-21 15:24:34 · answer #6 · answered by Cody B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i completely understand this entire entire ingredient. ok. so i think of she exchange into attempting to maintain from hurting you before everything once you men have been FWB simply by fact she says she didn't want a relationship so i think of she knew she wasn't waiting for a relationship she exchange into nonetheless waiting too mingle. specific that modify into stable that she apologized for dozing with yet another guy yet to me it form of sounds like she asked you out, out of guilt which ought to have been glaring that the relationship exchange into going to have greater extreme issues yet on the time for all and numerous it does not have been until regardless of each thing of it. She exchange into additionally desirable to have you ever harm up together with her simply by fact curiously she could not do it herself. To me it form of sounds such as you men needed a harm to resettle and start up the relationship off on a stable be conscious that far greater extreme issues ought to be prevented. for this reason i think of your men' relationship is greater valuable now. it is likewise incorrect that she lied approximately it yet stable simply by fact it helped you men for sure. And as she says "We the two had to alter if we would have loved this to ever artwork between us." it is real given which you the two began off your first relationship on an quite undesirable be conscious. She lied to you to make you bypass away her which might've gave you the two a while to yourselves and to alter possibly and then start up off on a stable be conscious. additionally the sole way you ought to react is by utilising asserting, "thank you, you saved our relationship and that i admire you for that." and each thing ought to be set. desire i helped. (:
2016-10-22 12:52:07 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its because you think that were not paying attention but we are we just handle stress a little better than women
2006-11-21 15:27:13 · answer #8 · answered by The gr8t alien 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im like that at times
2006-11-21 15:31:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hormones. Yes we hate that.
2006-11-21 15:24:20 · answer #10 · answered by Jack S. Buy more ammo! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋