I"ve been dating my now husband for 5 yrs. and in the last few years he began to critisize almost everything I did or said, yet in little ways. It was so subtle that I'd thought it was just me. After we got married 5 monthes ago I'm realizing that this problem is pervasive and undermining my self asteem. If it is'nt what I "dont do", it's what I shoul've done, or I'm over reacting. Those are his answers when I ask why he is on me all the time, picking @ everything I say and do, untill I feel I'm merely an irritant to him. Yet I took my vows very seriously, and don't know what to do, I'm incredibly sad almost all the time, and I feel like a failure. After all the years we were together, do I just forget him? And if so, how do I rebuild "me"? I've lost me somewhere, along the way, thank you for any help or advise you can give! It would mean alot.
2006-11-21
15:43:18
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jenny H
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Marriage & Divorce