I have met this guy on the internet and we have some kind of connection going on.We have been exchanging emails and chatting for over a month. i'll lay in bed thinking of him and then i will receive an email saying he was thinking of me. Can someone tell me what this connection is? It seems so strong..
2006-11-21 15:42:23 · 11 answers · asked by jobear 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I forgot to mention we are in two different countries
Him USA me AUSTRALIA which makes it even more ironic.
2006-11-21 15:59:20 · update #1
i had that. but then i met him. and i was very disappointed. i was really bummed out. i don't know if i could do the internet thing again. i don't think it's a good way to find a serious "love connection"
2006-11-21 15:48:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Exchange phone numbers.
If talking on the phone leads to even more intense feelings, maybe meet in public for a coffee date (assuming you are in the same city, or at least near each other).
I've met lots of guys online, and my current boyfriend through craigslist. I've still friends with all the exes from those online relationships too.
Give it a shot. Online does not equal bad all the time.
2006-11-21 23:52:53 · answer #2 · answered by A Wells 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's what's going on with me too. For excactly 14 weeks and a day. I knew we had a strong connection after about 5 days. I can't stop thinking about him. So it is possible to have a love connection.
2006-11-21 23:50:16 · answer #3 · answered by tanya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
neediness? no seriously, it could be real, but I'm sure I don't need to remind you that the internet isn't always the safest place to meet people. You could be thinking you're talking to the man/woman of your dreams and they are the exact opposite. Be careful. That said, a guy I used to work with met his wife in a Christian chatroom. They are perfect for each other. Good luck!
2006-11-21 23:48:02 · answer #4 · answered by curious cat 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not to burst your bubble or anything. but there is this girl i know she said that she was in love with this guy named jeff she met him on the internet he was living in australia doing some construction they got really close he even sent her a razr phone. she started getting suspicious when he said i will come see you in 2 weeks 4 weeks 6 weeks. well she looked him up on the internet. and he had done this countless of times to other women and got over 5 grand from them........... so becareful
2006-11-22 01:49:16 · answer #5 · answered by ulamciadilaucurats 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with one of those other girls' comments....i met someone and chatted with them and thought we had a great connection or whatever it was,but then i met him and i was dissapointed. It wasn't all the physical aspect,but it kinda was....like,that spark you need when you're with someone,it just wasn't there in person. It seemed awkward. But everyone's different,so it could work for you.
2006-11-21 23:53:21 · answer #6 · answered by b_angeleyez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let what happens on the internet remain in your fantasy world. You don't really know who or what this guy is do you? I have some great realationships with my internet partners but have never purposefully met one.
2006-11-21 23:53:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe its love? but i think that before you take another step..you should try to meet up with him if hes in the same area as you are.....because online relationships dont work out so well.
2006-11-21 23:56:32 · answer #8 · answered by rave_shock14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U can find love on the net..but don't spend so much time "dreaming" of him..MEET FIRST then if there is "spark" you're "good to go!"
2006-11-21 23:50:30 · answer #9 · answered by Mee-OW =^..^= 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know but i feel similar with my lady --- and its been nearly six months --- she understands me totally --- i understand her --- we know what we are feeling and she can tell everytime i lie
2006-11-21 23:53:08 · answer #10 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋