It's almost 15 years and still I could not manage to forget her. We never been us (girlfriend). Just only friend. I met her in the church while I was a boy, I was 15 yrs old that time. I tell to my friends and her friends that I like her. But I cannot telll her directly before because I,m too shy, and I'm thinking that is not the right time to say to her that I like her a lot. I think if I say to her that time she will like me, but I have to many doubts and to many dreams. But it's started my suffering when I saw her with another guy. I did not do anything.. Until, my bestfriend sincerely talk to me that she is pregnant to that guy. I cannot beleive what happen, I'm too shock... Then after that, I did not go to the church anymore.....
I'm too far now, working as a employee in a good company in a different country...But my heart still beating for her always wondering If I could go back in time to tell her that I love her..
2006-11-21 15:32:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If another opportunity comes your way like that don't pass it by. Don't feel bad though, besides women outnumber men so there are plenty more women to meet and treat well. You are not over her now, but you will be. Don't waste time. Time is a silent enemy. While you wait patiently, time steals away your chances.
2006-11-21 15:41:59 · answer #1 · answered by Honey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can tell you serously love her, so go back, take a vacation, see how she is doing. if she is isnt with the guy anymore and is a single mother, tell her how you feel, tell her you'll help with her kid, that that you`ve loved her all this time, even tough you left, your heart stayed with her. if she is still with the other guy, tell, but make sure shes not married....
2006-11-21 23:38:13 · answer #2 · answered by Darkangel617 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you ever heard about "first love"?
We all feel the same for our first loves "true ones ofcourse"
you just have been loving her truely and deeply but having her now is a bit impossible .Ty to find someone new ,a girl to open a new world of love to you .You'll never forget ur first love but atleast you'll get over it .
2006-11-21 23:39:03 · answer #3 · answered by Mysterious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey you took to long but you have to let her go you'll find someone eles even if you dont want to she'll steal your heart and go back to church just because you lost her dosent mean you lost god. she's moved on now is your turn best of luck -bree
2006-11-21 23:39:17 · answer #4 · answered by bree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man... that is too deep.I think that you were in true love with that girl.But now that it is too late I think there is no use of wasting time & thinking about her.It really sucks when you don't get love in return.Think of her as a lost treasure that could not be retreived.be practical and move ahead in life iam sure you would come across plenty of sexy girls in life & surely you would get one of them.I wish you luck for your future.
2006-11-21 23:41:29 · answer #5 · answered by manu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What more to lose? Do you wanna waste another 15 years?? Go and tell her!!
2006-11-21 23:37:35 · answer #6 · answered by Sunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest meeting new women in your area and have a positive attitude. Live in the present.
2006-11-21 23:36:09 · answer #7 · answered by Joe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget her. no matter how hard, you've got to. don't destroy her child's life or anything. there are lots of girls out there. get a life. do sthings that are of interest to you like reading or playing a sport. or look for another girl..
2006-11-21 23:54:37 · answer #8 · answered by ron_harry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her go find someone else. You will begin to lose what you felt. Promise!
2006-11-21 23:59:07 · answer #9 · answered by ODDONE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
silly, it's only a crush. life goes on, go back to church & lead your own life. u probably can't get over her cos u didn't get her... so, let it go.
2006-11-21 23:36:49 · answer #10 · answered by yoyo l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋