why when youre the happiest you've ever been and have moved on do THEY walk back into your life and mess everything up.
2006-11-21 15:31:59 · 19 answers · asked by rusalka 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
because they've been with u already, and feel that it's comfortable and alright for them to get into ur life again. And basically u are letting him/her into ur life, not them. don't go for it. i had it happen to me, and it just ruins it all over again. unless it was a short break and u are ready for a relationship again. Question for u is, do u want him/her in ur life again? If not, u KNOW what to do, and do it!
And secondly Do you want to feel like that again?? U come first and are more important so make ur priorities come before their desires, or wants. It's what u want in ur life...if it is him/her, then i hope everything goes out right, but by the sounds of it it isn't. I mean u want them and all, but u also don't cuz u got back on ur own two feet. Do u really want to sacrifice all that u've done to move on and all of the pain that they put u through for them???
I'll leave you with that question. hope this sort of helped
2006-11-21 15:39:50 · answer #1 · answered by ck55 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its because they are insecure(in fact thats why they moved on..they have always been)Not too many people were raised with the morals and values that I have been raised with.Ive been in the "entertainment industry" and I still value my morals.Poeopl get tired of what they have(especially men) When the have lost that girl ..they want her back due to ego based emotions
2006-11-21 23:40:50 · answer #2 · answered by smithmueller 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know but that has happened to me too. I like to look at it though as a test. Emotional check given by some higher power. I also like to look at it as a good opportunity to look better without them. Id rather them see me happy.
If they still affect you even if you are happy there might still be those last few things to figure out before you are truely in a better place.
2006-11-21 23:36:29 · answer #3 · answered by b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
life is a *****, then u die........
this is the real world, things that can go rong, will.
just live your life as best as u can, try not to let every body get to you. don't really know why this happens but it does, nothin much u can do bout it.
live each day as the last, find the good things in each day.
sounds like a bunch of crap, rite..... don't really know what to tell you. sri.
2006-11-22 00:22:39 · answer #4 · answered by chevys4evr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Becuz it's a test of life,that's how i see it! If you can survive they're comin back,you seein them,then you truly are happy and have moved on. If not,then maybe you really haven't moved on?
2006-11-21 23:46:23 · answer #5 · answered by b_angeleyez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They can only do as much as you allow them to do. If you have moved on there was a reason for it. leave them their in the past and keep moving forward into the future. God bless****
2006-11-21 23:36:31 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Choose the narrow path for your rewards will be far greater. Make good decisions even if these people are people you love- if they are bad people for you then stay away from them.
2006-11-21 23:39:59 · answer #7 · answered by momofthreemiracles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people detest others having joy in their lives. It is a great misfortune -- please stay away from negative people as they will drain all of your energy and try to steal every bit of self-esteem that you have built up for yourself! Let them go!!!
2006-11-21 23:34:59 · answer #8 · answered by Sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's called understanding and consideration and life and the fact that so many people care so little for one another. you gotta deal. but good luck in the situation
2006-11-21 23:35:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What would life be without challenges!
2006-11-21 23:33:56 · answer #10 · answered by PinkHighHeels 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋