What do you do when your partner wants you to accompany him everywhere he goes?

Question

And you do not wish to like meet random people everytime. How do you tackle it?

Answer 1

Tell him to get you something ( clothes, jewellery, shoe etc etc) whenever he ask you to go with him very soon he will stop this habit.

Answer 2

You tell him- you don't want to go with him everywhere and he needs to be a little more understanding. It's something you need to be firm on and also compromise and go a few times but tell him no several times. He might argue with you a bit as he wishes you would go with- but you are not his mommy and he does not need you to hold his hand. I think you should go to his family funtions but you don't need to go and meet every buddy he has had since the 3rd grade either. Or you can start whining about how you wanted to go and do something else with a girlfriend. The more you whine the more he will understand that you, too have a life and it is okay to be apart every once in a while.

Answer 3

tell him to get a dog. No seriously though....you don't need to go with your partner to every social outing. Tell your partner the truth. That you don't like to meet random people everywhere and they should respect that. However, if your partner does like that, you will have to make some sacrifices and accompany them...compromise.

Answer 4

Talk to him about it. That means really communicating what you are feeling when he is in a good mood so that he's no feeling particularly defensive at that time. This is a hard topic to talk about because he might feel that you don't like spending time with him but you should also know that he enjoys being with you...that's why he wants you around. There are many people who are in relationships where their partner doesn't even want their friends to meet them, preferring to keep every relationship apart from their partner! Anyway, you should communicate that you love spending time with him, that you really enjoy his company but that you would prefer he be at home with you where you can really talk rather than take you out to strangers.

Answer 5

Do one thing for the next one month try and keep meetings with as many irritating people and as many irritating family members you know of. And then tell your partner that the next 1 month he is completely booked to go out with you. Take him and make him meet all these people. He will forget asking you next time to accompany him.

What say?

Answer 6

tell him you don't want to go, or you don't feel like it. If you don't want him to go without you, then ask him to stay in with you. Where is it exactly that you are meeting random people? This is a confusing question, but I hope I helped.

Answer 7

It is funny to be together everywhere. Random people will manage a disciplined distance as there will be no gap for.

Answer 8

You have to tell him in nice way honey i really like you asking me out when every you go, but i also have friends and i need space to be around them sometime, we understand each other better than when iam around you friends all the time.He will understand girl talk.

Answer 9

too much togetherness is never a good thing..try making some type of compromise..he sounds like more of a people person that you but you could try more and maybe he could use more discretion in where he asks you to go with..just an idea

Answer 10

bring alone some friends, make other plans with friends, talk to him and tell him you feel uncomfortable, but sooner or later you will have to meet the people he deals with and hangs out with