This guy I was casually dating (casual lover) for a year, asked me before he moved (because of a job) that he never met my parents. I felt bad that he hadn't, but I didn't think we were that serious, I mean we didn't mention until he said that. I didn't think he ever wanted to because he never asked, and if I invited him to my parents home (where I live) I thought it would've made him feel uncomfortable if we were just "casual" , and not to mention maybe uncomfortable for my parents. So anyway, I feel bad, but he was never clear with me about it, so was I wrong for not introducing him to my parents? I thought that's what you do when you're serious serious? I'm confused...
2006-11-21 17:15:03 · 8 answers · asked by feisty 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just "casually" having sex for a year, and not meeting the parents? It doesn't take a rocket scientist to see you don't know what a relationship is, as compared to a convenience of sex.
Sue
2006-11-21 17:19:10 · answer #1 · answered by newbiegranny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys get more serious about a relationship than girls. Yes you probably should have introduced them if you had been dating for over a year especially if you were living at home.
2006-11-22 01:19:16 · answer #2 · answered by ne_patriots2005 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you can still introduce your friends to your parents. AND maybe he felt like you didn't take him serious which is what you were doing. He's probably feeling more things for you then you did for him. Maybe he took the relationship seriously.
2006-11-22 01:20:34 · answer #3 · answered by mickey_ds 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
**puts on the old thinking cap**
Hmmm well by the sounds of it, I think he maybe thinking the relationship was more serious than you were. But that's not a bad thing. You're only human, you're allowed to make tiny mistakes now and then. So you're forgiven =p
2006-11-22 01:20:14 · answer #4 · answered by exaluva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he probably wants to meet your parents and have the deed done. it is alittle nerveracking when meeting your bf/gf's parents. but if you talk to him alittle more about it, than try to see if he wants to meet your parents. if he does than, by you permission, you can make a meeting time for all. but if he doesnt really mind to meet your parents, than take an easy and keep doing what your doing. you should be able to tell by what he says. =)
2006-11-22 01:24:32 · answer #5 · answered by Cornelia Anabelle Banana Bo Peep 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He misunderstood you as a casual lover?
2006-11-22 01:21:28 · answer #6 · answered by sunsetconmartini 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could have introduced him as your friend. Tons of girls have guy friends. Then they know who your hanging out with (it's not wierd for them) and he know they exist.
Good Luck!
2006-11-22 01:19:07 · answer #7 · answered by coolchick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you was not wrong! when i'm serious i will introdruce my bf as my bf, i i'm not i will not choose him and defently will intruduce him just as a FRIEND
2006-11-22 01:32:56 · answer #8 · answered by bonita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋