What to do in this situation?!!!?
I'v been married for 13 years and I love my husband dipley. I belived him so much but I just found out that he allways had other girls to talk and have sex with.He had a lot of money but dasn't have anymore.He dosen't have girls anymore as well He say that he love me.He kryed and apologise to me. What should I do I dont wont to brake my kids hart but I gonig krazy Is there any help
2006-11-21 17:22:14 · 9 answers · asked by R P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Become a swinger maybe? Or if you don't love him anymore then try to move on with your life without him.
2006-11-21 17:25:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
(1 Corinthians 13:4-7) 4Â Love is long-suffering and kind. Love is not jealous, it does not brag, does not get puffed up, 5Â does not behave indecently, does not look for its own interests, does not become provoked. It does not keep account of the injury. 6Â It does not rejoice over unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth. 7Â It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.
2006-11-22 01:26:28 · answer #2 · answered by ebidmelech 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems like he is falling back on your since all of his money is gone and the girls and sex went with it. i don't think that there is love where no respect exists. and he doesn't have any for you. you need to go away from him. do the best you can on your own. i know it will be hard. but there are all sorts of organizations out there to help women and children in your position.
2006-11-22 01:26:57 · answer #3 · answered by beckdawgydawg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's been lying to you for 13 years?? Yes for your own sanity and the sake of your children you should get out. How can you possibly trust someone who has been lying to you for so long. You would probably be happier with someone who wanted to be with you and not other women and who you can trust. He could continue this behavior in the future.
2006-11-22 01:26:57 · answer #4 · answered by jblonde 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't believe he loves you!!! Ask him to leave or you leave him.
You need to be treated with respect something you never got from that cheating liar
The kids will be hurt by it all but you can't stay with him
you just have to explain to the kids you & your husband love them but it is not working with you !!dont run him down to them & don't tell them that he was cheating
all the best
2006-11-22 03:41:14 · answer #5 · answered by ausblue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would get rid of him as quickly as possible, If you stay with him then your kids are going to think its the right thing to do, they will be just like him.. and you dont want that ! teach them right from wrong by making the proper choices.
2006-11-22 01:26:10 · answer #6 · answered by COULDbCRAZY 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am afraid to say that you, and you alone is the only person who can decide whether you stay or go !
2006-11-22 02:18:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to live for you. Not him or your kids. You need to leave and use spell check.
2006-11-22 01:26:42 · answer #8 · answered by Asia 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Kick his sorry butt to the curb !
2006-11-22 02:08:43 · answer #9 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋