well i broke up with my boyfrend a week ago and i thought i would get over it by now but i still cant et him off my mind. I love him a lot and really want him to be with me. Wat do i do to get to that point?(he broke up with me) i dont no y though...I didnt do anything wrong. does he not love me anymore?! can someone please help me! im really confused and heartbroken
2006-11-21 17:18:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry, but the story ends here. You have to move on.
Whatever reason he chose to end it with you is certainly not going to be rectified by you begging to get back with him or telling him that you love him.
With the information you provided it is hard to know why you broke up, or why he dumped you. The fact is, in a relationship it sometimes doesn't work for one or both parties. In this case he decided that it just wasn't working for him and chose to end it.
This could be for a variety of reasons. He may not like your hair, your eyes, your body, your personality, the way you laugh, your car, your parents, your life goals, truly anything. He may just not want to be in a relationship and want to play the field. Maybe he knows of a hotter girl who he things he can get with if he dumps you.
There are hundreds of reasons, good and bad. Reasons that are your fault, and reasons that are his fault. You will probably never know the answer to your question.
But know this. There are 3 billion men on this planet. There is a very good chance that one of them will be far better than your ex-boyfriend. As painful as it can be to break up, there is that magic time when you meet someone new. You'll be into each other. You'll find out all the things you have in common. You can fall in love all over again. Next time it could be 100 times better, and maybe even for life.
Good luck, finding that special someone. Remember move forwards in life, not backwards.
2006-11-21 17:20:57 · answer #1 · answered by ZCT 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 week is so little time yet. and yes, i think it is over and he doesn't love u, otherwise he wouldn't break up with u. but trust me, u will get better with time, and half a year from this day u wouldn't even understand why were u so sad and heartbroken, after u find someone much much better. just take your time, do smth like going to gym or on a trip or hanging out with friends more. trust me, pain will be over eventually
2006-11-21 17:43:09 · answer #2 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These things just take time, and it will run its course. In the mean time, hang out with friends, or do things to expand your horizons like maybe hang out at places you didn't before. It really sucks when someone breaks up with you for no good reason (that you know of) and you still have feelings for them. I assure you, it will pass and you will find someone new.
2006-11-21 17:22:11 · answer #3 · answered by Vince 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it more time. When you are ready to talk to him, ask him some questions like why he broke up with you? Then you may find some closure. Until then you might not find peace.
2006-11-21 17:24:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-10 13:31:31 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to get over someone is to get under some one. LOLOL
2006-11-21 17:21:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is normal. It takes some time. If he does not want you, do not beg. look for someone better.
2006-11-21 17:37:08 · answer #7 · answered by pappujainsaab 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm confused....he broke up with u or u broke up with him?
2006-11-21 17:21:01 · answer #8 · answered by foreveryoung 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please wait for few more weeks. dont get frustated. your story is brief so i cant advice much.
2006-11-21 17:28:07 · answer #9 · answered by rajan naidu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋