i dont know if he is faking it or what. he told me that i am the second girl he has ever told he has loved. besides his ex wife. we have been together for 5 months and i just dont know if he really dose love me. or if he is faking it.
2006-11-21 17:16:55 · 11 answers · asked by aleisha21 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why would he be faking it?
if he didnt love you he would break up with you
now if yall are having sex than that is a different story.
tell you will no longer give me sex for awhile and if he sticks aroudn than is probably really doe slove you.
2006-11-21 17:22:46 · answer #1 · answered by bionca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has told you that he loves you then you should belive him and have no doubts until he proves otherwise. Continue to be good to him and he should have no problem falling in love with you. No one can put a time stamp on love 5 months or 5 years it doesnt matter, watches and clocks tell time the heart does not.
2006-11-21 17:23:56 · answer #2 · answered by milkchclt_4u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How soon did he say he loves you?
Be wary cause we know we think that if a guy immediately says he loves you, or that he wants to move in with you soon after a break-up, it doesnt necessarily mean that he loves you. He just can't stand being alone. Sorry if that broke your heart.
But, if you know him well enough to think that he really does love you, then perhaps you dont have to worry? :)
talk to him about it. be open with one another and be honest. how will you ever know about each other's feelings if you don't talk to each other about it?
goodluck! ;)
2006-11-21 17:47:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to ur feelings. The reason ur asking this question in the 1st place says that "u know he doesnt but u want reassurance."
If this question makes u uncomfortable then u know the ans is "he doesnt love u", at least that much. or is a dumb guy for ur level of intelligence. Honest, trust ur feelings.
2006-11-21 18:28:01 · answer #4 · answered by jack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so if he is faking it what is the reason? are u rich and he is doing it for money? or he was lonely and just bored being alone? if u won't find any reason why would he be faking it it means he isn't faking it. i wish u good luck, i hope he isn't faking anything and genuinly loves u
2006-11-21 17:45:15 · answer #5 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him what he would be willing to do for you. love goes lengths. Then test it and see if he really does. If he really does love you ask him to do a favor, not for a reward just for the fct thta he loves you.
2006-11-21 17:20:56 · answer #6 · answered by newsies62 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Five months is not a long time at all....need more info how long have you known him....Do you love him.....? Honestly I think it's a little fast.....but good luck anyhow
2006-11-21 17:20:36 · answer #7 · answered by girlegyrl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he loves you but just got other ways of showing it or may be he is afraid of reallying showing it cause he don't want to get hurt his self
2006-11-21 17:29:01 · answer #8 · answered by Donna C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try find out what's cause his marriage BREAK. if he's dumped his wife, oh... well in future he'll dump you. Dump him now.
2006-11-21 17:22:00 · answer #9 · answered by peter71 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him a chance, maybe he is being honest...
Take a chance and go for it !
ENJOY GIRL!!
2006-11-21 17:20:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋