I am dating this man who is asking me stuff like,you don`t hate me yet?
What are the signs please.
Thank you to all who reply..
2006-11-21 17:14:22 · 7 answers · asked by sunflower2052002 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if guys are insecure about certain things, they sometimes joke about or "jokingly" criticize themselves, kinds fishing for compliments....typically if they bother u about it alot, theyre insecure...it sounds like this guy has been hated alot....so he's just checkin to make sure ur not tired of him yet, and he doesnt think that u'll like him very long....
2006-11-21 17:18:17 · answer #1 · answered by foreveryoung 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well that question alone shows he is insecure.
Often insecure people will become critical not only of themselves but also of you. They are jealous if you have other friends, talk to guys, talk about guys. They ask how they stack up to previous boyfriends and worry about how many you have had.
Eventually insecure guys will often become hostile and controlling, treat you like crap, and may even become violent towards you.
Be very careful of the warning signs. Ignore them at your peril.
Honestly I would tell the guy straight that insecurity and making negative self deprecating statements are just not a good thing.
Insecure negative people who don't like themselves, have a hard time liking or loving others. This will hurt a relationship sooner or later.
2006-11-22 01:16:09 · answer #2 · answered by ZCT 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Almost all negative behaviour is a sign of some insecurity
2006-11-22 01:17:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
INSECURITY IN A RELATION STEMS FROM UNEVEN BALANCE IN THE CHEMISTRY BETWEEN YOU TWO.....
AS FAR AS SIGNS ARE CONCERNED, WELL MEN START AVOIDING RESPONSIBILITIES, TAKE YOU FOR GRANTED, THROW UNNECESSARY ARGUMENTS, DO NOT CARE FOR YOU ANY MORE & LOADS OF OTHER ISSUES.
BUT IF YOU ARE HAVING DOUBTS, BETTER TO HAVE A MAN TO MAN TALK WITH HIM ABOUT YOUR INSECURITIES................
2006-11-22 01:18:04 · answer #4 · answered by Sarang 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That question would make me wonder if he has a history of doing bad things to his girlfriends. It's like he is setting you up to be burned and hurt by him. Be careful....
2006-11-22 01:17:05 · answer #5 · answered by schweetums 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he's joking, insecure is being worried all the time, jelous etc.
2006-11-22 01:20:29 · answer #6 · answered by DannyC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jealousy
controlling
degrading
you're welcome
2006-11-22 01:16:45 · answer #7 · answered by Tek ~aka~Legs! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋