I just heard that a friend may be dying of cancer. I haven't talked to her in a while and I am scared for her. I don't think I am suppose to know what she is going through as I heard it from a mutual friend that let it slip. But if she is dying I want to tell her how much she means to me and how much of a friend she has been to me. I don't want to let on that I know but I don't want her to die and I know how positive reinforcement can help people that are sick. It is the middle of the night right now, but I want to call her and tell her how much she means to me, but her cell phone is shut off and I don't want to disturb her family. I just want her to call me so I can talk to her. I haven't talked to her in awhile and I feel sorry about that. I don't want her to die because she is one of the most terrific people I have ever met. I would trade places with her if I could. I just want to talk to her. What should I do?
2006-11-21 17:26:46 · 11 answers · asked by three6ty 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well since it is in the middle of the night right now..you cant do anything right now besides try to get some sleep....in the morning try to call her cell and if she doesnt answer then call her house...i am sorry to hear about your friend..that is hard to think of..good luck
2006-11-21 17:36:34 · answer #1 · answered by shell bell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not call her in the middle of the night, that would be too hard for her. Just wait until the morning, drop by and talk if she feels like talking. If she isn't telling everybody, then she may not want everyone to know just yet and feel sorry for her. She needs to find strenghth from family and friends. You show this by not flipping out and calling her all emotional. You have to be strong for her as well.
2006-11-21 18:02:29 · answer #2 · answered by simplymichelle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is so nice of you to show her how much she means to you. I think you should talk to her and let her know how you feel about her, she needs all the support she can get from all her loved ones. And now a days there are many cases where people has defeated cancer, Its all in your mind, it all depends how loved you feel, and how much you want to live. So I hope everything is good for your friend. And if she is strong enough with LOVE she will survive thru this. God bless her.
2006-11-21 17:38:48 · answer #3 · answered by ani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Much better don't have to tell her about that. Coz most people in that condition dislike being sorry by other people, especially her best friend. On the other hand She might feel down, maybe hopeless and pessimism.
What She needs ia action, your attention, care and affection, not pity...
And when she tells you about it, don't feel sorry, but try to encourage her to fight, to live, give her strengh. And anjoy the time that God has given to her. It could be the cure, maybe as long as She has the spirit to live.
Your action will tell her that you really need her, that she means a lot to you...
2006-11-21 17:58:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would call her, tell her you have been thinking about her and take her to lunch or something...Let her tell you whats up, she'll think you called just because she has Cancer now. If she tell you, offer your time and tell her you will be there for her, morning noon and night is she wishes it to be that way...Even tho you care for her, do not push yourself or your help on her...She needs to go through a lot of emotions right now, she may not want to be near anyone, she may want to be left alone...Respect her wishes. Be there "IF" she needs you to be, just be a good friend and think about how you would want to be treated... you would want to be treated as a normal person and not a disease...Good luck and my thoughts and prayers for your friend and her family...
2006-11-21 18:04:04 · answer #5 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 10:02:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is tough, I would contact your friend and just talk if she wants to talk about the cancer let her but just be her friend and keep in touch, she might just need someone who doesn't want to only talk about her cancer. I had a great friend who was always there for me when I went through my cancer treatment. She even got me to talk about it and find something positive. Good Luck!!!
2006-11-21 17:45:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
call her ..
tell her u missed her all those days...
n u want to make up for all those last days..
n take her out to dinner, go somewhere together,.
do some interesting stuffs together, like reviving bak her childhood days..
make her feel better..
n most important of all...Let her Know how Much U Like N care For Her!
Be sweet n nice to her.
Hope u make the last of her days memorable.
2006-11-21 18:16:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to hear that go and visit her and just let her know how you feel or if you dont want to disturb her family at home write a letter
2006-11-21 17:52:03 · answer #9 · answered by destiny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go and see fer asap
2006-11-21 19:13:40 · answer #10 · answered by CROSS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋