I am an average or below-average looking woman. I feel nothing compared to extremely beautiful women like those Victoria's Secret supermodels like Alessandra Ambrosio, Heidi Klum.
Why are there even incredibily beautiful women like these?
I see Monica Bellucci, Jessica Alba, and others like them and I get so insecure.
I feel, what do I have that will make a man love me considering there are lots of gorgeous women? What's the use of wearing pretty clothes and make up and shoes and all that?
2006-11-21 17:21:35 · 14 answers · asked by Mrs Brandon 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
all those women you just mentioned arent even real. do you know that when they wake uo in the morning they look like you and me? they arent pretty. those models you see on tv and in vidoes and in mags do you know that they have to be air brushed and touched up by the computer and then have to be fixed by the computer. honestly if you were to run into them on the street yo wouldnt even know that that was them? their just people with extra help. also $ is a factor. god gave you a special look thats why you are you. you should be happy with what you look like cause thier are people out there that see you and wish that they could look like you. and probably guys out there that are too shy to talk you cause they think you are gorgeous. im not trying to lie but i do believe that we as people put to much on what we look like and that is messing us up. be happy with who are you cause if your not you wont find someone who wont be either. not all guys like model looking girls. watch there are guys out there who think you are beautiful
2006-11-21 17:39:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone is beautiful in their own way. It makes me sick that this is the kind of pressure that society puts on females from the time they are born. You're a real woman and that's what real men want, anyway. Those women you see on t.v. are so airbrushed and 'fixed' that you'd never recognize them out of their element.
In the end, all you've got is to just be you, and a good man will always recognize a good woman. Confidence, btw, is very sexy.
2006-11-21 17:27:27 · answer #2 · answered by Vince 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If a man only loves you for your looks, then hes really not a good guy to be with in the first place. Love comes from within. Looks shouldnt be the #1 thing in a relastionship. If you only find these kind of "shallow" kind of people to date then you should keep looking.
2006-11-21 17:31:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel the same way, like its so hard to be confident when all this women surround you and the world
but then again, we are different, they might be beautiful and all, but we still differ, of course men would really love having this gorgeous women instead of us, but who cares,
we must learn to love ourselves and see the positive things we have
advise no 1
stop watching too much commercial, stop buying too many magazines, this models have the habit of making us feel inferior and all compared to them, but deep down they are just cover models, they have flaws just like us they too can never be perfect, they are stuck with the need to forever be gorgeous or thin that is why many of them suffer from disturbing eating disorders
we normal women are lucky, we can be natural, stay natural as we can, and not be pressured by society to become or to do what they want us to become
love yourself, i know its hard, but stop comparing, you have your qualities, improve your knowledge,talents and abilities, build a worthy character, you might not be a victoria secret model, but the world will love you for who you are,
they are just covers of magazines, you are you and you can become what you want yourself to be,,,love yourself,,you are more, we normal women are more!!!!
never ever let this models, fake models get to you!
2006-11-21 17:29:24 · answer #4 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Inner beauty is far more important... I am about to break up with my very attractive g/f because she isn't the sort of person on the inside that I am looking for... Work on your self-confidence as what you believe is what you'll give out to others... Good luck and smile.
2006-11-21 17:29:21 · answer #5 · answered by Andy8875 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's ridiculous that you think like that. Of course most men fantasize about being with these women but their just FANTASIES!!! For most men all these women are unnaccessible, and they would rather be with a woman who's averagely good looking but has great personnality and who they can trust her
2006-11-21 17:28:09 · answer #6 · answered by jonsinher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound depressed, you should really learn to love yourself and know what you truelly are worth. You're wasting time focusing on everything and everyone else. Spending energy on hurting yourself. What if you died tomorrow, what difference would your looks have made to the world. There are many pretty faces out there but there's one you.
2006-11-21 17:27:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hose people you just listed, they are just other people... What are they in the scheme of things? Chances are, nearly all the people you are going to meet are never going to meet them... and besides, everyone's beautiful in their own way, and you aren't an exception. You probably have a beautiful personality and are very caring, so you shouldn't have insecurities about those kinds of things.
Sincerely,
Zach Strass
2006-11-21 17:31:33 · answer #8 · answered by Zach S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beauty should come from inside. If you are kind and have good heart and confident about yourself, it will show on your appearance and that will make you beautiful! Make ups and clothes only helps you to boost self esteem and appearance.
2006-11-21 17:27:26 · answer #9 · answered by sunflower222 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the average man will dream about the gorgeous women but thats all.
the competition among the rich for the beautiful trophy wife will remain.
mr average will always try for the best he thinks he can attain but not the trophies.
2006-11-21 17:26:46 · answer #10 · answered by dirtyoldman 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋